Before getting into this, I'm aware that my best chance is talking things through with a therapist, but unfortunately I can't afford any sessions at the moment. I've realised that my thought process has become increasingly unhealthy since I've lost my support system. In less than a week I've...

I always feel lost and disconnected from the world. I can't connect with others on an emtional level. Just their thoughts,sometimes. I comprehend them,and then get sad in the end. But after times and times of thinking,i realized that, it's my insecurities talking. Hard to breath,difficulty in...

First of all, I'm sorry if I've created a thread that already exists. I've been looking for something similar but I haven't found anything. I'm quite new to forums so I'm not very familiarized with how they works, hahaha. My question is: How do you deal with your insecurities? INFPs usually...

I've gone through a period where I gained a lot of self confidence and initiative and ever since then I found no problems letting out my 4ishness. But the world is kind of stepping on it a little bit and I'm having troubles with my core fears. When I like a person (romantic or not) I go in head...

ENFP females and being insecure? And do you believe many ENFP males are insecure? A lot of ENFP girls I've known or grown up with in my life, are very insecure. I dislike to generalize, but not enough to not ask about this observation. Sharing your personal experiences would be well...

Hey to all of you SJs! :) I was wondering what y'all think about the phrase that "familiarity breeds contempt." Any thoughtful insights? I think it goes both ways (i.e. in that unfamiliarity also breeds contempt // fear leads to hatred, etc.) As for familiarity breeding contempt, I think it can...

Hello friends! This is my first ever forum so bear with me. :kitteh: I thought this up while I was washing the dishes and I think that fellow INFPs, like myself, usually have the most trouble with self-esteem, but I guess it could be a general "NF" thing. With our heads in the clouds, we tend to...

Everyone has insecurities that plague them (well, I assume everyone does). Mine include having no artistic ability, not being original in how I express myself with words, seeming 'creepy' or unfriendly to others, being a joke to other people, etc. What do other infps sometimes feel insecure about?

Hi I am really in need of some serious help. I am an INFP female and this guy i'm apparently dating is an ENFJ.. sounds perfect by the book, but there is trouble.. he says he really loves me but is having trouble leaving his already shaky relationship of 2years as he wants to ensure that even...

I originally intended calling this thread "Your main flaw", but knowing myself, I'd get easily insecure just looking at that. :laughing: I kid. Anyway. What do you truly want to work on about yourself? Let's be honest, but even moreso, helpful to others, maybe we can brainstorm our way out of...

I would like to share my journey of self growth: As a teenager I was extremely shy...had only one close friend. I was fearful and anxious about not measuring up, failing, and looking inadequate in people's eyes. I dreaded being on the spotlight, giving presentations, even working in groups...