I've had this problem for years now and I'd like to know if it's a common thing to INTJ's.
I often find myself in nice conversations with people and letting my thoughts be known and all that, untill suddenly I go through some weird thought processes that end up insulting people badly...
How do you feel when some one criticizes or insults you?
Do you ever get offended?
If so, what is the main cause?
If not, how do you avoid it?
For me, I generally do not get offended. I avoid this by analyzing where the person comes from, realizing why they said what they did, and then...