intj & enfp

Short question: When an INTJ friend is very busy, what is the best thing a good friend (or may be even a partner) can do? What are some of the things that would make a busy INTJ feel supported? Long context (optional): I have a really nice INTJ friend. It is a man whom I have collaborated...

Gosh I love INTJs :blushed: Romantically, INTJ women are competent partners who prioritize reason. As bros, INTJ men quickly piece together my Ne rants into succinct timeless truths. In both cases I'm like "The sky blah blah blah blah blah", and they're like "Indeed, the sun makes the sky...

I am an INTJ who does not understand the ENFP type well. I have pretty well developed Fi, but I am massively weighted to Te. I am deeply attracted to thinkers, maybe because that is my comfort level, but partly also because thinkers tend to reveal their thinking. So you get some additional...

INTJ doesn't feel like being in a relationship yet, and that he can't commit for now. He says he doesn't know what he wants! My questions are: 1) If you meet someone you are compatible with, would you still push them away if you do not feel ready for a relationship? 2) Do inexperienced...

Hi! I am an ENFP girl, deeply in love with an INTJ man. In fact, I've been in love with him for 3 years. He has a wife, so i tried to forget him several times ( I know it is not right), but since I see him everyday, I haven't managed to do that :(. We get alog very well and I've always felt a...

Do INTJs really exist? :rolleyes: After being bombarded by ENFP-INTJ relationship statements for ages, and being unable to locate any INTJs in my radius that I can experiment on, despite my excellent Sherlock Holmes skills, I'm hereby calling you out! Where do INTJs hang out/where can I...

***I posted this on my blog but I meant to put this on a forum*** I recently discovered that I am an IXTJ, leaning towards INTJ. {In the Enneagram test, I am a Type 1 or an 5w6} So I am kind of new to this but I have been looking for answers for a while. I am/was in love with one of my guy...

I recently discovered that I am an IXTJ, leaning towards INTJ. {In the Enneagram test, I am a Type 1 or an 5w6} So I am kind of new to this but I have been looking for answers for a while. I am/was in love with one of my guy friends for over 10 years. He took the MBTI test and he is an ENFP. I...

I am an ENFP, I am in love with my INTJ from the first week I met him. He has dumped me three times in the past year and a half (super embracing) and we are trying things again. I have come to understand his need for autonomy and his lack of communication are normal. What worries me is that the...

I've been doing this with various types that I'm unfamiliar with. I have met one INTJ who is so reserved that we have not become more than mild acquaintances. I came here hoping to get a better understanding of what the type is like. When looking at ENFP matches they always pair us with INFJs...

Hi guys! :crazy: I am actually new in this forum and i never posted anything like that so its qiute an interesting experience for me :D Also sorry for my english, it's not my mother language. Now as for my problem: I am an ENFP girl hopelessly in love with an INTJ. At least that's what i...

I believe those ideal MBTI matchings were done with monogamous relationships in mind, where each partner is active in each others life. But I'm polygamous, so I don't trust this INTJ + ENFP thingy at all. I only want sex at least twice a day and then be left alone in between sex sessions...

I want to date an ENFP. I need someone who can offer me enough outside stimulation in the right way. And I need someone who is able to empathize with me as easily as possible. I don't need someone who challenges me. I was already born into a life that challenges me far more than I would like...

So I've been reading posts around Personality Cafe, including some posts about relationships, and I notice that a LOT of INTJs likes xNFPs. (Cute.) What I'm asking is: What is your experience with xNFPs? What do you think of them? (It doesn't matter if it's a friendly, family, or romantic...

OMG so I found an INTJ that seems dateable and I'm chatting with her online. It's like pulling teeth trying to spark a fluid conversation :angry: We just started talking so I don't know, is she shy? How can I spark her interest? She takes fooooorever to respond uggg. Short answers too Is she...

So...female INTJ here that has fallen into the bottomless pit of charm and wit possessed by the ENFP male. The only problem is that I can't tell if he's interested in me. Any tips?

Hello. Somewhat antisocial INTJ here. A couple of the best friends I've had have been ENFPs, but sadly we grew apart and I am really bad at keeping in touch with people I don't see that often. I'm in a new city and finding it hard to make fast friends, and I now find myself missing the fun side...

Hi everyone, I'm new here, and I'm a female INTJ. Recently I just met this ENFP male and I think he completely intrigues me, up to the point where I just kept being curious about him. But, being an INTJ, I feel at some point that it's getting tiring, especially since I feel he rarely initiates...

INTJs....I need your help! Here's the situation: I've been friends with this guy for close to 3 years. We met in university as part of a close-knit extracirricular activity. He is an INTJ, I am an ENFP. While other people in the group always disregarded him as standoffish, the ENFP in me knew...

INTJ telling me to "leave him alone" for a while, that he'll contact me - is it over? I'm an ENFP female and just met this INTJ male. He's 5 years younger than me. We've only known each other for a month but we quickly had a deep connection. He even sent me a note on social media telling...