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  1. INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    I need advice from INTJs (preferably males, but any advice would help) regarding this guy I've recently become involved with. I've been talking to this INTJ for about four months. I used to work at a bookstore he frequented, and when I quit I started seeng him around this coffee shop. I had...
  2. INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    So I've been reading posts around Personality Cafe, including some posts about relationships, and I notice that a LOT of INTJs likes xNFPs. (Cute.) What I'm asking is: What is your experience with xNFPs? What do you think of them? (It doesn't matter if it's a friendly, family, or romantic...
  3. INTJ Forum - The Scientists
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  4. INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    I've known this guy for a while now, but I've never been able to really figure him out. I have friends that have asked him to take the Myers Briggs test, but he simply dismissed it (they asked online). I've read the INTJ profile, and I think it fits him. But I'm not quite sure, I'd like to see...
  5. INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Hello, I am an INFP and I am new to the forum. Hi guys! I have a question that I'm hoping any of you INTJs can help me answer! I've become close to my INTJ co-worker who I feel is absolutely awesome in every way (you INTJs are certainly fascinating). We grew closer when he mentioned to me...
  6. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    So, I just made this profile today because I had been reading on topics between INFP and INTJ. I read so many threads, and it's just crazy how similar they are to my own situation with an INTJ guy. I kept wondering what it is that draws INFPs to INTJ people. I just find myself attracted to their...
  7. INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Just curious, I've seen quite a few posts dedicated to relationships between INTJ and either INFP or ENFP so I started wondering whether, generally speaking, INTJs tend to get more along with INFP or their extroverted counterpart.
  8. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    INTJ FEMALE/INTP MALE Breakup INTP boyfriend of 3 months and I (INTJ) broke up. His reason was that he felt he wasn’t the right guy for me. And that he wasn’t making me happy. (What does he even mean by that?) He said he thinks we were missing “him wanting to grab my attention at all...
  9. INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    INTJs: What do you think about being in a relationship with an INFP? My boyfriend of 5 months is an INFP (I think; he's about to confirm it) and I need some insight. He's 18 and I'm 16, and we're eachother's first gf/bf. Now, I know most of us INTJs wouldn't be able to stand their PDA, but I...
  10. Intro
    i found out about mbti through a guy friend (intj) several month ago, i got intp and started researching about things and got quite interested since intp is an interesting type. i am quite a good student in school apparently. people often call me smart because im one the best students in math. i...
  11. Advice Center
    Hello everyone, This is a question regarding a male INFP that won't let me move forward with my life. I'm wondering how I should live my life if he won't stop with this emotional torment. Back-story: He and I connected instantly when we met, he pursued me and I played hard to get. It seemed...
  12. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I'm an INTJ female in the performing arts (yep, really!) My mentor is an older INFP male. We get together every month or three to talk shop. It's a good professional relationship, mutual respect, our spouses know each other, etc. I've spent years working in a different, more analytical field, so...
  13. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Dearest INFP, I love you with all my heart being with you feels magical I am not myself when I am with you and yet I am completely fine with that because you're such a beautiful creature you add colors to my blacks and whites Now WHY WHY WHY are you such a timebomb! Why do you keep pointing...
  14. INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    My INFP friend is writing a novel and he decided that he's going to create the villain's character based on my personality. Why do we always get to be the villain?
  15. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I have an INFP friend whose company I greatly enjoy. It seems when we are together, everything is in its right place. I can say anything without judgment and she can be as lost in her thoughts and fantasies as she wants to be and the silence will never be awkward. However, I feel sometimes I...
  16. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    The INFP I'm dating is under a lot of financial stress lately. Our relationship is relatively new and he feels frustrated and limited by his recent lack of income and this in turn is affecting his self-esteem and how he feels about himself in general. He was venting to me the other day about...
  17. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I'm a INTJ girl with an INFP boyfriend who constantly spoils me with compliments, and him describing how in love he is with me. I really appreciate hearing everything, but often I feel like I don't have anything to say back to him. I have trouble coming up with sweet things to say on the spot...
  18. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hi, I have been having a lot of trouble understanding the actions of an INFP girl I know. Part of this has to do with the fact that I like her, and when ever I think about her my emotions cloud my judgment. He is the story. I met her this summer while volunteering at hospital. We are both...
  19. INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Hey there, I'm still a newbie to the site and was turned on to it by my INTJ boyfriend. He loves this stuff, which is great because now I can try to understand him more through all of you guys. He's absolutely fascinating, but still throws me for a curve at times. I'm slowly learning the quirks...
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