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  1. INTJ - Torn between identities - Requesting help to change the state of my mind

    Cognitive Functions
    Dear Readers, This is a long story of mine and I request you to read it thoroughly and help me regain myself. Brief introduction: I am actually torn between what I actually desired & couldn't follow and what I am currently doing and cannot cope up with though it is essential & obvious. I am...
  2. Which Personality type is most likely to gaslight others ?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Constant lying Subtle Manipulation Character assassination Etc
  3. INTJ + Depression/Anxiety

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Well hello world! As part of my self-care vacation, I am starting a lovely journal project that is completely open to comments and feedback. Here's a smidge... Myself in bullet-list form: Slightly quirky 33 year old female INTJ Master's Degree in Communications, Minor in Japanese Not married...
  4. Coming back after a break (INTJ 9w1)

    I can't believe it's been 3 years since I've discovered this forum. At the time I was very much into personality theory, but life took over and I lost interest for a while. Tbh I didn't post much during that time as I much preferred to lurk than to post :) Now that I'm back I feel like I should...
  5. Greetings from an INTJ!

    Hello there, good people of this (to me) newly discovered forum! My name is Adam, I'm 26 years old and I'm semi-skeptically getting into this whole psychology of personalities-thing... After several days of fumbling, bumbling and spending way too many hours gathering information about cognitive...
  6. [ENTJ] How long does it take for an ENTJ to get comitted?

    ENTJ Forum - The Executives
    Hello everyone. I was hoping maybe I'll get some help here with my problem in a relationship with an ENTJ male. (I myself can't figure out if I'm an INTJ or INFJ) I'll try to make the story as short as possible. We were friends and I had a crush on him, sadly he friendzoned me but eventually we...
  7. [ISTJ] How do you recognize an ISTJ male in the crowd?

    ISTJ Forum - The Duty Fulfillers
    Hi everyone, I am an INTJ woman and I was wondering how do you describe ISTJ males? I know someone and I can't decide if he is an INTJ or ISTJ, seems both, but I want to know. I barely know him - I know him from church, so I don't want to ask him, yet. Are there any small details that would...
  8. Am I an extrovert? Help me confirm my type.

    What's my personality type?
    After lots and lots of research I have typed myself as an ENTP. The function stacking makes sense to me (especially Ne and Ti) I'm just not sure if I'm really an extrovert. I read somewhere that ENTP's are the most introverted extroverts so I'm still pretty convinced that I'm an ENTP but more...
  9. Who am I : INTP - INFP ? INTJ ? INFJ ?

    What's my personality type?
    Good morning everyone, I have been doing a lot of research on the subject for many weeks now because I want/need to know and understand myself better. I have already read the topics on Reddit or Quora which are in the same theme as my question but I could not find an answer. Let me explain my...
  10. [INFJ] What's the difference between an INTJ (Ni-Fi) and an INFJ (Ni-Ti)?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Background/introduction: Hello, I've returned after a long break with MBTI, after having quit without ever being 100% certain of my type. Most t/f tests also place me somewhere 53/47. As theories have developed more and more over the years, I find myself once again returning and remembered I...
  11. [INTJ] What's the difference between an INTJ (Ni-Fi) and an INFJ (Ni-Ti)?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Background/introduction: Hello, I've returned after a long break with MBTI, after having quit without ever being 100% certain of my type. Most t/f tests also place me somewhere 53/47. As theories have developed more and more over the years, I find myself once again returning and remembered I...
  12. [INTJ] Why is he ignoring me?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    As an intj girl myself, I'm well aware of how awful we can be in term of the social signals that we give off. However, whenever the situation applies to me I seem to lose all confidence in my ability to analyze. So I have known this intj guy for a year and a half now, even though we have lots...
  13. [INTJ] Help for INTJs in Ni-Fi-Loop or Se-grip

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    The title actually says it all. I believe that I am in a Ni-Fi-Loop. For years, actually. I keep falling into self-doubt, even self-hate and some sort of depression. Also my Se bursts out. I once read that every time you want to eat something sweet, you can tell yourself that you will get the...
  14. [ISFJ] [ISFJ] Best Way to Ask for Help?

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    Howdy, ISFJ here. I know that ISFJs REAALLY struggle with opening up about their own feelings and asking for help when they need it. Personally, I can ask for help when it doesn't involve my own feelings, but if I'm in a really bad mental/emotional place I feel like everything shuts down. If...
  15. Infj vs intj

    What's my personality type?
    For years I've thought that I was an INFJ. I've taken numerous online quizzes which have always confirmed this, and for the most part I've related to the cognitive functions and description of the INFJ. But recently I've been noticing more and more that there's some major parts of the INFJ that...
  16. [ISTP] ISTP Mixed Signals [ISTP-M INTJ-F]

    ISTP Forum - The Mechanics
    Im just going to bullet because it seems like ISTPs read the info better/faster that way But I am an INTJ female and I tend to over-explain. - met my ISTP a year and a half ago at a con. He was quiet and didn't speak much but we became acquaintances - Ran into him a month later at another con...
  17. Hi, intj here, always here because of relationship related problem

    The title says it all. Feel free to ask me anything tho, I'm open and honest in this forum
  18. An INxJ - One day INFJ, next INTJ

    What's my personality type?
    I first discovered MBTI about a year ago, took a test and got INFJ. Moved on with my life and promptly forgot about it. Fast forward to about July this year when I heard about it again in a Reddit thread. I could vaguely remember my result but I wanted it in more detail so I retook the test and...
  19. [INTJ] INTJ Male--Is He Into Me or Just Waiting For Sex?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    I'm an INxP female, writing about a mature INTJ male in his thirties. I'm developing feelings for him and I'm confused; I would love to get some perspective from you mature INTJs out there. We've been on several dates now. He mentioned early on that he likes me. He's asked me about my...
  20. ENTP - platonic or romantic?

    NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects
    My question is, how to know when ENTP is showing just platonic interest in you, and when it's something more? Are never-ending questions any indicator?