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  1. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    I am confused by the behavior of my INTP/ISTP boyfriend. We are both in our mid 20's He is an INTP, but says he is becoming more like an ISTP especially at work and such. We have know each other for over a year, but have been together for 7ish months. At the beginning we use to text almost...
  2. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
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  3. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    So there is this INTP guy that I first met in July. We live a few hours from each other. We text almost daily. He will send good morning texts, ask how my day is going, asks questions, and such. Sometimes he won't respond back for a day or two, will leave mid conversation, and then start a new...
  4. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    This intp male is confusing me to the point of total hopelessness. If an intp male is playing me hot and cold, should I just assume they are emotionally unavailable, or should I continue to be patient...is it some distancing mechanism they have because of their discomfort with feelings, or is he...
  5. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    I met this INTP guy about 4 months ago. He told me that he is an INTP. We then started emailing each other pretty much everyday. Having conversations about an array of things. We live about 3 hours away from each other. We are both in our early to mid 20s. I stated not to long ago that I wanted...
  6. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    There is an INTP I am crushing on. I work with him and he is sending me mixed signals...At one point it seemed like we were close to dating, but then he just ignored me for months. Recently, he asked me to hangout, and then ignored me when I followed up about it. How should I react to this? The...
  7. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    resolved nvm! don't know how to delete threads unfortunately
  8. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    I met this INTP male about 5 (almost 6) months ago. We would usually hang out with a group of friends and had gone to one "date / hangout" before he left for another country. At first I wasn't really interested in this guy cos I found him very awkward. Tho I already could sense that he was...
  9. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    I have debated with myself for a long time on if I should put this here or on-line at all. I can see how it may look like I am trying to get attention or fishing for something other than advice but I really need help. Please be kind, and if not kind at least be helpful. I am going to post this...
  10. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    I met this INTP guy online about 2 months ago and we have been texting every since. For the first month and a half he texted me all day and it was throughout the day. We live about 4 hours away from each other. About a month and a half ago he was visiting a friend close to where I live. He asked...
  11. Myers Briggs Forum
    Hello! I'm an INFP that initially started dating an INTP. I really think he is great so far (been on two dates), and I know its early yet but I'd really like to explore it more. My question is, after the second date should I wait for him to text me? Or is he the type of person that would like me...
  12. ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    Hello all, first post! Well i will cut to the chase, There is this girl in my honors english class that i have a small and somewhat childish crush on, we are friends, but problem is she likes someone else, A teacher (she is underage he is overage). We are both intellectuals which is why we...
  13. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    The idea of shadow attraction is that we are more attracted to personality types that use more of our shadow functions (Te-Ni-Se-Fi) and are just generally more different than ourselves (I mean who would want to date themself?), so by listing the cognitive functions out for each type I've...
  14. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    I dated an INTP girl briefly, and I was super excited about her, but for various reasons it didn't work out (although I wish it had). I've usually dated ExxJ types before, and this INTP experience was so different, it made me really happy. My girlfriend before her was ESFJ... the opposite of me...
  15. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    I have reached this conclusion based on the following unequivocal, objective analysis: - The past four men I have found myself strongly attracted to have been INTPs - One of my best friends (an INFP) is successfully married to an INTP - Another of my best friends (an INFJ) is successfully...
  16. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    New to MBTI and I think I'm an INTP. Relationships & Career. Penny for your thoughts? So about a year ago I came across a book called "Do What You Are" by Paul and Barbara Tieger. I could not put this book down for the life of me. I learned a little about MBTI in college but never really to the...
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