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  1. [ISFJ] Career Change Options

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    Hi, I’m looking for some advice on career options and possibly life generally. I’m a male ISFJ in my mid-20s, living in South West England. I currently work as a Software Developer. I feel like this is a badly suited career option for me, because I am unable to embrace my feelings and I am...
  2. INFJ or ISFJ?

    What's my personality type?
    Hi! :) I'm new to this website, but I've known about MBTI for a while now, and I still find myself confused about my personality type. I've taken like 10 different versions of this test online, and I've mostly tested as INFJ. I've never tested as ISFJ, but after reading about the cognitive...
  3. Fe in different cultures

    Cognitive Functions
    Extraverted Feeling deals with value judgments in social and cultural dynamics. It's one of the most common functions in Western society (probably American), but i'd like to see examples of how it works in all sorts of societies. Example: China Fe can be all about "unspoken social contracts"...
  4. Any Touhou freaks here? (music thread)

    Myers Briggs Forum
    If so, how would you type each of the last boss themes (and maybe the last bosses themselves)? These would be my choices. I included themes from the Classic era ahead, because there were just enough themes for the 16 types. (Keep in mind that I am going to go off on stereotypes in some cases...
  5. [ISFJ] ISFJ ENFP communication

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    Hi dear Members, especially ISFJs I'm a newbie, both at the Cafe and mbti. It has been a couple of weeks I learned about the 16 personalities and eversince have thrown myself into the subject. After a 5 year long relationship with my dear ISFJ there is still a lot to learn and the pieces are...
  6. [ISFJ] Confused ISFJ gay male - Good Guy Syndrome?

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    Hi all the ISFJs out there, Just want to get some input from your experience, or what you think about this. Recently I starting to suspect if people within the same MBTI categories could share the same childhood experience or neuro-brain wiring. Does the brain wiring make us who we are as...
  7. ISFJ and Type 5: Is it possible?

    Head Triad - Types 5,6,7
    I'm an ISFJ and an Enneagram Type 5 (possibly 5w6) but apparently it's really rare and I can't seem to find anyone who also fits these two types. Is anyone else here an ISFJ and Type 5?
  8. [ISFJ] Which MBTI types do ISFJs get on the best with?

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    My closest friends consist of an INFP, an ENFJ, and two ENFPs. But are there other personality types that I would better get along with? Of course it depends on the person as well, but stereotypically which type are ISFJs most suited to?
  9. ISFJ or ISTJ?

    What's my personality type?
    When I take personality tests on various websites I always get either ISFJ or ISTJ (once I got INFJ but let's ignore that). However I don't know which one I am. I think I hide my ISFJ inside with a ISTJ outside to make myself seem like I have thicker skin and more logical and analytical than I...
  10. ISFJ or ISTJ?

    When I take personality tests on various websites I always get either ISFJ or ISTJ (once I got INFJ but let's ignore that). However I don't know which one I am. I think I hide my ISFJ inside with a ISTJ outside to make myself seem like I have thicker skin and more logical and analytical than I...
  11. What if you're actually your opposite type?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    What if we just wanted to be our ideal selves so badly that we skewed everything to fit into our alter ego? Maybe I'm just an ISFJ wanting be an ENTP so bad. Am I just a proud ENTP or an ISFJ in denial?
  12. ... how do you work?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    This juicy tidbit of an idea just popped into my head out of nowhere, as I sit and watch stressed teenage students write national tests. :oh: If you look at your week at a glance, or your schedule (or lack there of) on a typical week, what does it look like? Factors to take in to...
  13. [INTP] Right Brain Vs Left Brain (Bo Burnham)

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    While this is extremely funny, I also find it to kind of remind me of myself. Like, my inner INTP/ESFJ trying to find harmony. I figured, well maybe I'm not the only one who feels like this. Anyone else?
  14. Your workspace. Orderly, chaotic, disaster area or pristine...?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    I'm an ENFP with ADHD. To me, the idea of an orderly desk or workspace is unheard of. Don't get me wrong, I know how to clean and organize, and actually quite enjoy it. It's a hobby. The idea of spending a weekend organizing and rearranging classrooms (I'm a teacher) sounds like a dream come...
  15. Monday Survival Hacks

    Health and Fitness
    :bored: ......yawn. It's Monday again. *cue birds singing and teens groaning* what better way to start a monday than with a freshly brewed cup o' joe, am i right? Maybe. But I'm currently trying to wean myself from my severe caffeine love affair. I am deficient of motivation and 'kick'...
  16. YEARS of research and I STILL don’t know

    What's my personality type?
    0. Is there anything that may affect the way you answer the questions? For example, a stressful time, mental illness, medications, special life circumstances? Other useful information includes sex, age, and current state of mind. 1. Click on this link: Flickr: Explore! Look at the random photo...
  17. Introvert Survival Guide

    Myers Briggs Forum
    Hey guys, I've just wrote a kindle book that I think can help all of you. It is called "Introvert: How Introverts Can Improve Social Skills, Communicate Effectively, Make Friends, Enhance Relationships & Conquer Stress And Anxiety In Any Social Situation". If you're interested in the book...
  18. Can an ISFJ be mistaken for an INFP?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    From what I see these two are very different types. I have this close friend of mine whom I pegged as an ISFJ. Recently she has discovered the world of mbti and claims that she is an INFP. I told her the online tests are most likely to get your type wrong so she then studied the cognitive...
  19. ISFJ losing interest/How to get an ISFJ interested in me again?

    Sex and Relationships
    This is a long story- So I'm an INFP. I really liked this ISFJ guy that I met on this video game, and he seemed to like me too. Messaged me goodnight/good morning, always teased and flirted, always messaged me constantly, etc. I was on vacation in the Philippines while he lived in LA when all...
  20. ISFJs - boring?

    SJ's Temperament Forum- The Overseers
    i'm an isfj and i find my type rather means of offence to all yall. it just seems that there's no spark to me, like i'm just a little of everything and not interesting enough to function. if someone were to describe my personality, it's like there's nothing to say.