istj relationship

Hello fellas! I am an INFJ girl who is having a crush with an ISTJ guy. Honestly, we met on a dating site like six months ago. I stumbled upon his profile, read it, and I could see that he is a very kind man and that he is just different from the other men I had dated previously. So, I...

Knowing a lot about type and a lot about him, I fully expected things were over and done, forever and ever, with my ISTJ ex after we broke up this past fall. I felt he'd wronged me, he felt I'd wronged him. C'est la vie. Then, in January, I had what I guess we can call an attack of conscience...

Could use some insight on how my ISTJ crush feels about me from you awesome ISTJs, or anyone else really that has any ideas for me. : ) Pretty positive he’s an ISTJ: - He’s quiet, and reserved. When we first met, I thought he hated me or something. I’d always ask him how he was and all he’d...

I'm fairly new to PerC, so hello! :kitteh: I am asking for advice from you wonderful people because: a) The advice I am requesting pertains to a friendship with an ISTJ, and b) You all seem to be action-oriented advice givers, which is precisely what I am looking for. I would love to know...

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My boyfriend is ISTJ but i don't feel very depth about him, you know... he never share abstract ideas and thinks about the Universe. BUT we get along very well I uderstand his logical persuits and he has sense of humor. What are the benefits of having INTP x ISTJ relationship? And what are the...

Now i am INTP and i've been on a stable relationship with an ISTJ. :proud: I was always a loner and finding someone was almost a miracle. We used to get along, but sometimes i argue with him almost because the huge difference between S and N: As an INTP, i just want to talk about Life Crisis...

Hey there :happy: Sorry this is so long, it's just very important to me. :happy: My name is Sydney. I am an INFJ, and about seven months ago, an exchange student from Russia came to live with us (He's my mom's godson.). He's 23 - six years my senior. We go to the same college. Over the time...

I'm not sure how to show interest or tell if he's interested. I also don't know how a relationship with these two personality types would be. Any tips or suggestions? (Don't judge me too harshly if I sound like an idiot; I'm not the best at these things.)

HELP! I've tried posting in the relationship thread but I need advice fast! I'm an ENFJ female looking to marry my ISTJ male friend. We've gone out a couple of times, nothing serious. He really is the perfect husband. I love absolutely everything about the ISTJ. I want to let him know I want...

Hi everybody, I know there’s a ton of information on here about this topic, but I know it’s been helpful for me to read people’s individual advice, as it has helped me gain a greater understanding of how other people function, not just as a type, but as individuals. So, I went ahead and wrote a...

I've read so many posts/threads about opposites and how they interact (or clash). I personally am an ENFP female who has been dating an ISTJ male for about 6 months and could use someone to talk to for advice, venting and just plain to keep me sane. Any takers? I could especially use some ISTJ...

I'm an INFP married to an ISTJ and while things are going great, I kind of feel at a loss for as to the best ways to make him feel loved. I know that it's probably just my INFP insecurity, but he's so much less expressive than me that I don't really know if I'm hitting or missing the mark...

Is it really that complicated? Has anyone had any experience, or opinion on it? :unsure: