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  1. [ISTJ] An ISTJ on arguments

    ISTJ Forum - The Duty Fulfillers
    Hello all! I just wanted to share my thoughts on arguments, and how they should be held. I'm not sure what this post is going to be but, we'll see as I write. Btw I'm not a native speaker, so you're a legend if you read through this without getting confused. People think that because I am...
  2. What are your experiences with ISTJs?

    NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    Things that bother me: - He takes hard efforts for granted. I will invest a lot of patience, focus and time into something and he will just put it off like it was nothing. I find this very demotivating. Lack of Fe. - Can be quite judgmental and demanding. - Reports about his activities in...
  3. ISTJ ladies' advice to ESTP starting to get interested to an ISTJ female

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    For the ISTJ ladies, please bear with me since I'm getting a bit crazy not sure about what I'm feeling in regards to an ISTJ female. I will lay in the data first for you to understand: We grew up together and had a brother-sister relationship when I was dating her older sister. My relationship...
  4. [ISTJ] ISTJ ladies' advice to ESTP starting to get interested to an ISTJ

    ISTJ Forum - The Duty Fulfillers
    For the ISTJ ladies, please bear with me since I'm getting a bit crazy not sure about what I'm feeling in regards to an ISTJ female. I will lay in the data first for you to understand: We grew up together and had a brother-sister relationship when I was dating her older sister. My...
  5. [ISTJ] How do you recognize an ISTJ male in the crowd?

    ISTJ Forum - The Duty Fulfillers
    Hi everyone, I am an INTJ woman and I was wondering how do you describe ISTJ males? I know someone and I can't decide if he is an INTJ or ISTJ, seems both, but I want to know. I barely know him - I know him from church, so I don't want to ask him, yet. Are there any small details that would...
  6. Why do SLI's hurt the ones they love?

    Socionics Forum
    Hi hi.. This question is for my duals, Whyyy do SLI's enjoy hurting they ones they love? I have some close SLI's in my life who confide in me and have admitted to enjoying/ and intentionally hurting their significant others. My ex was also an SLI and after years and years of drama, during a...
  7. i'm istj or infp?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    hello, i'm in doubt of my mbti, i know my functions, so i'm just wondering their organization. I can be istj or infp, since I know I'm an introvert. I always had my different feelings from my family, I don't feel very ambitious, but there are some times when I have fantasies in which I am like...
  8. what's my type?

    What's my personality type?
    I'm really in doubt please help me. SCENARIO 1 "Your significant other just ended your 2 year relationship quite suddenly and with no apparent explanation. Up until this point you had both been talking about marriage and last week you even went to look at rings together. Now he/she won't even...
  9. i am infp or istj?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    I like to spend my day wondering, most of the time romance, I'm not good with deadlines and I'm very nervous, I have little confidence in my creativity, I think I'm very bad, I like art, I don't usually be good with school materials which has a lot to decorate, but I am also very selfish...
  10. How often do you feel dumb?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    So, I am wondering how long people spend instrospecting...especially for those with lower Te or Ti. How often do you find yourself questioning your own cognitive processes? How often does someone say something that makes you feel like "I should have known that fact", or "How come they know...
  11. I don't agree w/ my personality type. Am i really an ISFJ?

    What's my personality type?
    Every personality test I do has the same results: ISFJ. Well, there were one or two times where the results were ISTJ and INTJ. I, personally, don't think I am an ISFJ. I agree in parts that my Dominant Function is Si but my Auxiliary one is definetly Te, although, when making decisions, i think...
  12. MBTI types of characters from characters of Classic Literature:

    Guess the type
    Jane - ISFP - Favorite literary heroine ever, and one of the first ones from fiction I really related to as an ISF/TP myself, though I feel I’d be way more suspicious of Mr. Rochester’s bizarre behaviors and dark secrets than she is, and start badgering him with tons of questions about what the...
  13. [INFP] Relationship advice for INFP's in need!

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    So, just starting this. I have a major problem. I fell out of love with my boyfriend and I don't know what to do. It's not like anything was wrong. I just... don't feel it anymore. And I feel so bad. I fell for him really fast, and my heart fluttered for everything he did, but... omg I feel...
  14. Is it possible for SLI's to have a complete trusting relationship void of any secrets

    Socionics Forum
    From what I've read online and from the real life examples I personally know, it seems like SLI's enjoy their secrets and getting away with things that even their partner "knows nothing about". Isn't that lonely? wouldn't you want to have someone you can share everything with? or does that take...
  15. What are the best subjects to talk with SJs?

    SJ's Temperament Forum- The Overseers
    What are the best subjects to talk with SJs? I have a big problem to talk about something interesting with SJs - maybe it's because every SJ I know is only talking about daily life and it's so annoying for me.
  16. [INFJ] Advice for coping with change and stepping out of my comfort zone

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I'm back, asking for advice, yet again, haha. So, I'm an INFJ, as you can see. Though for some reason when I take a test, it says that my intuition and sensing are pretty split, which makes sense at times. Anyway, I'm now moving off to college. I have orientation this Thursday, it is a two...
  17. Do ISTJs drive everyone crazy?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    Any anecdotes to confirm or deny the ISTJ stereotypes?
  18. Double sided personality here!

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    Hi, im new here! Decided to register after reading a thread about relationship problems between personalities :D I'm an INFJ-t according to the 16personalities test and ISTJ according to personalitymatch, where i suspecting myself to be an infp or something else, i thought i was extrovert...
  19. Curious what others think I am in terms of type (usually get INTJ, INTP, & ISTJ)

    What's my personality type?
    1) What aspect of your personality made you unsure of your type? The N vs. S and J. vs P. aspects. I am 50/50 for those two. 2) What do you yearn for in life? Why? I yearn to master knowledge in anatomy, find close friends to be with me for life and be financially stable. 3) Think about a...
  20. How do I identify an SLI??

    Socionics Forum
    How do I identify an SLI? Im ready to find my dual.. I read that they can be found in the suburbs and not in the heart of the city lolll (I feel like im hunting gazelle). But really how would I pick one out of a crowd? Is there anything in particular I can look for? Are they typically athletic...
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