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  1. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    [Limerence] ========Apology============ First off: I apologize for rechewing knowlege of limerence that has already been stated. Furthermore I want to add: Most of the stuff I wrote down is in no way Science based. Mrs. Tennov would probably be rolling in her grave if she read this. However...
  2. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I think I have reason to doubt my sanity. Haha, okay, it's not that bad yet, but I have a horrible habit of getting infatuated with guys who are sort of strangers. I want to see if you ENFPs experienced this before. I first became infatuated with my friend's brother - but I had hardly spoken to...
  3. Sex and Relationships
    Have you ever experienced LIMERENCE which was unrequited? Have you ever experienced limerence for someone with whom you only met online (never face to face)? How did you get over limerence? I have been passing through an "awakening" stage where I have finally been braced for a crude reality...
  4. Sex and Relationships
    Do you think you are, or used to be in the past, an LO (limerent object) of some sort of unrequited limerent? Would you like to share your personal encounters and thoughts on how you felt being an LO, and how you felt about the person who was fixated on you? I am just trying to get over my own...
  5. Sex and Relationships
    Hi Guys, Would you like to contribute to a list I'm making on films that depict unrequited limerence? Any film rings a bell? Thanking you in advance for your input! Cheers!!
  6. ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    Limerence is a topic I doubt many of you know by name, but I'm sure most people in general can relate to the subjective experience of it. Basically it's obsessive, intrusive thought about a romantic interest. Here's the wikipedia article for a more in depth description: Limerence - Wikipedia...
  7. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    For some reason and yes you might think this is stupid an I am foolish and highly unrealistic I sometimes tend to develop strong feelings for someone I saw on television or in a movie for example a few years ago I saw a movie with a girl who did everything I ever dreamt of doing and I guess I...
  8. Blog
    I don't normally feel much emotion and when i do it is not usually this strong, and it somehow numbs my mind and makes me physically sick. I get headaches, stomach aches, acid reflux, dizziness, insomnia, nausea, high blood pressure, shaking, fatigue, loss of appetite, and muscle cramps. Just...
  9. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    It's pretty well accepted that INFPs crush hard! It makes sense -- we idealize, we feel deeply, we envision the future. Today i'm thinking about how this tendency toward emotional entanglement isn't always healthy. To an extent it's OK, but when we grant one person such control over our sense...
  10. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    So i probably shouldn't be surprised that the same INFJ friend is generally very engaging with me individually and seems to go to great lengths to avoid interacting with me "too much" in group settings, right? This pattern seems to hold true in both f2f and electronic communication. I sort of...
  11. Sex and Relationships
    So I'm a dude and There's this one girl I can't get off my mind. For some odd reason, its been like 8 months, being an ENFJ in college, there's plenty of other girls around but the more people I meet, the more I realize there's nobody even close to being similar to this girl. well, First of all...
  12. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Limerence - Article series http://personalitycafe.com/infj-forum-protectors/52382-limerence-article-series-part-1-what-thing-called-limerence.html http://personalitycafe.com/infj-forum-protectors/52616-limerence-article-series-part-2-subdefinitions-limerence.html...
  13. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Limerence - Article series http://personalitycafe.com/infj-forum-protectors/52382-limerence-article-series-part-1-what-thing-called-limerence.html http://personalitycafe.com/infj-forum-protectors/52616-limerence-article-series-part-2-subdefinitions-limerence.html This is part 3 of my series of...
  14. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Limerence - Article series http://personalitycafe.com/infj-forum-protectors/52382-limerence-article-series-part-1-what-thing-called-limerence.html This is part 2 of my series of articles on limerence :). Part 2 - Subdefinitions of limerence Subdefinitions of limerence During her original...
  15. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hello fellow PersonalityCafeers, since there are repeated questions about limerence, I decided on writing a series of articles about it during the next days and weeks to come :). So let's get started right away: Part 1 - What is this thing called limerence? Introduction and characteristics...
  16. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    There once was two INFPs who grew up together at the age of 2, but was split up at the age of 10, the Male INFP was madly in love with the Female INFP at this time, and would continue to think about her through out his teen life, until one day he gets a message from the female INFP he loved...
  17. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Are INFP's inclined to fantasize about love........romance.......and idealize their partners in a not realistic way........? or if they are single do INFP's tend to desire this perfect person, as if it were a princess/prince from a fairy tale and when they finally reality hits them they end up...
  18. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    they made one of these in the enfp forum, so i just thought id start this thread here and see what emerges from the INFJ wilderness.. and quickly more of a personal question from me.. are you guys generally capable of being fickle about guys? like say someone seemed to like you, then once you'd...
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