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  1. [INFP] How often do you see your friends?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Self explanatory title. I only see my "friends" at least, once or twice a year. Hence why I put friends in speech commas. I know these people, I get along with them, but do I really know them? To be honest, not really. They're not acquaintances, but it feels like they're not close friends...
  2. Would you like to call sometime?

    NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    Hi! ... *5 minutes later* Well I can't think of a good way to begin this, so I'm going to awkwardly draw attention to that and then move on. :) I'm lonely, would like to make new friends, and am wondering if anyone would like to Skype sometime? Or WhatsApp call? Typing is great and all - and...
  3. [INTJ] What Does An INTJ Do When Feeling Lonely ????

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Of course, an INTJ can be alone and not feel bad or lonely. In fact, sometimes a lot can be accomplished by oneself. And, sometimes? Solitude is an INTJ's friend. But. . . . . What Does An INTJ Do When Feeling Lonely?? Can an INTJ feel overwhelmingly alone?? Or. . . . is it just the way...
  4. [INTP] whats the difference between feeling alone and feeling lonely?

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    To you? Is there any difference?
  5. [INFJ] Is this what your loneliness looks like? (All types welcome)

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I know there have been a few threads about loneliness in the past few months, but I wanted to see other people's view on this video. How accurate is it for you? Are you ever lonely? Do you feel lonely rarely? When did you first acknoweldge you were lonely? Have you ever said it out loud? I...
  6. A Young Romantic - INFP

    How can I express the amount of hopelessness that permeates around me? Every day, I have to watch and listen to people needlessly suffering from things that have little to no lasting value. Perhaps it is presumptuous of me to project my values upon others, but it has become increasingly...
  7. Inspiration to believe in love again

    NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    Hi beautiful NFs, So, long story short... my romantic life has been a roller-coaster. I parted with my ex a few months ago (I believed, and still believe to some degree that he's a soulmate... lots of unrequited love here) after being together for 2 years. It's left me struggling to believe...
  8. Boyfriend Extremely Lonely

    Advice Center
    This has been an issue for awhile, but most advice I’ve read has suggested that he will find his own way out of it and to just be supportive/understanding of his situation. Unfortunately, I’ve been doing exactly that, and there’s no sign of changes. I’m suspecting that that advice might not...
  9. [ENTP] How often do you change your social circle?

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    I feel i almost never fit in any group because of my vast interest on things, than i usually get bored of the same situations and conversations of a group who seems 'stagnant' to me, and this also makes me feel lonely several times, how about you?
  10. Why is it so hard to make friends as an INTP ?

    Wether it s a girl or guy I try my best to make friends, but I usually fail. I dont know if you have been looking into numerology , well anyways I have life path number 7 and I only get along with those who share same number as mine. We become very intuitive togather and its usually those...
  11. [INFJ] Depression and worthlessness

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hey dear community, I hope you all had some awesome christmas days! Today I found something out, I really enjoy thinking a lot (I am very introspective), so I am diagnosed having depression and since I am depressed, everything feels so worthless... It´s not that I think that I am worthless...
  12. I'm New! Pick At My Brain (INFJ, 4w3)

    Hey everyone, So I'm apparently meant to introduce myself. I've known I'm an INFJ for many years now, and have generally always been quite certain of it. I understand and can relate to INFPs but I must conclude that INFJ is very prominent for me. I'm an enneagram type 4, and it's a freaking...
  13. [INFP] My Best Friend Betrayed Me {Advice please?}

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    My best friend ( Supposed ISTP, Her personality used to be INTP) and I were best friends since Freshman year, we are now in Junior year. She randomly just stopped talking to me last week. She ignored everything I did message her. At the time I didn't think anything was wrong, so I was just...
  14. Work and the Loneliness Epidemic (article)

    General Psychology
    Work and the Loneliness Epidemic Thoughts, discussions? I've been out of the corporate world and been a small business owner for close to a decade now. Naturally, despite knowing I'm not alone in this, I have to fight...
  15. [ENFP] ENFP dating an ESFJ. HELP ! CRAZY?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    For a year and a half, I (the ENFP male) was dating an ESFJ (female). I broke it off. However, I've been recently reconsidering getting back together. We recently talked about where we failed each other, could have tried harder, and reflected on what we've learned apart. PROS: we have...
  16. [INTJ] Loneliness and Jealousy

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Hello, I'm currently dating an INTJ and I am also friends with someone who I'm pretty certain is one as well. About a month ago my friend told me he has been depressed lately and after a little coaxing he let me know it was because he was feeling lonely and at 18 he's never has a girlfriend...
  17. I will be writing a lot! / Estaré escribiendo mucho!

    I will be writing a lot, in case you are interested in meeting me and more than anything to make me feel accompanied! It was very hard to stop having suicidal thoughts every day, to have a little emotional stability and to deal with all the frustrations and disappointments that I have had in...
  18. Loneliness in the City -- Watching life pass you by

    Saw this great post on reddit and thought it may be applicable to a number of people during at least some moment(s) of their life.
  19. How Do You Cope With Rejection?

    Sex and Relationships
    I'm not saying that I'm currently in that boat, but I've been there many times before. In the past, It has been so easy for me to slip into a state of depression as soon anything happened that made me feel unwanted or rejected. and sometimes, even just the fear of rejection is enough to send me...
  20. [INFJ] Encouragement for INFJs

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    As INFJs, we know how hard it can be feeling like a permanent outsider. It can feel like there's no place for us in the world and like no one sees us for how valuable we are. So I thought it would be nice to make an encouragement thread with any pictures, videos, quotes, poems, or words of...