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  1. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Would you guys fare well in long-distance relationships? Why or why not?
  2. ENFJ Articles
    Please tell me how you handle being separated from your significant other (boyfriend, girlfriend, spouse, etc), due to work, distance, military deployments, etc. Do you do well with temporary separation (a period of anywhere from two weeks to several months)? What do you worry about during the...
  3. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    I'm not sure if I want advice or I'm just looking to vent. I feel like I may know what I have to do logically, but... I'm falling in love with someone who I'm really quite certain is not going to work for me. It seems totally ridiculous, because it's only been a couple days--literally--but just...
  4. ISTJ Forum - The Duty Fulfillers
    Fellow ISTJ's-- How are you with long-distance relationships? Not just romantic relationships, but also friendships. If you do keep in touch, in what ways do you do so, and how frequently? How does this communication style/frequency differ between a good friend and a SO/love interest? I am...
  5. ESFP Forum - The Performers
    How are ESFP's with long-distance relationships? Not just romantic relationships, but also friendships. If you do keep in touch, in what ways do you do so, and how frequently? How does this communication style/frequency differ between a good friend and a SO/love interest? Also, are there...
  6. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    okay so here is the dealeo. about 6 months ago i met someone online who helped me through real rough situation. we clicked pretty much instantly an kept in touch. and what started as a goo friendship blossomed into something more. I've fallen totally head first for this girl. I'm 22. and she...
  7. Sex and Relationships
    Have you dated someone new while you're still thinking of an old flame? I thought getting under someone new was supposed to help you get over someone else? That just made me more angry at my past long distance flame how he gave up like that knowing we would always think about each other, but...
  8. Sex and Relationships
    Edit: I don't see the "No Contact Rule" as a game. I see two people taking time off from each other to see if they can reconnect better at a later time. For those that have been supporting me with my troubles with the LDR, thanks. I appreciate those with helpful* inputs and hope that you have...
  9. Sex and Relationships
    You know the one, to message other women/men and start crap after people break up. I never got people who did that, why? Once it's officially over and if they're with someone else, I say screw 'em, their loss. I've been on the receiving end of someone's psycho ex who has harassed every female...
  10. Blog
    I've never wanted to seek more revenge on someone than I do my LDR. He doesn't do anything for me but I keep seeing him add these women that are in Texas and New York that he'll tweet. If he's not going to drive or do shit for me 8 hours away, he surely isn't going to visit these women in...
  11. Sex and Relationships
    *Edit: This is a long distance relationship, not a close distance. If it was in person and I can see the people myself to see that they wouldn't be any harm to our relationship, I don't care, but because I cannot see any of these people, I don't know how their demeanor are, I'm wondering if...
  12. Blog
    Yay. The boy called me yesterday and we ended up talking and sending each other messages the whole night. I knew he would come around after a good scolding. I don't understand, though. Even from the tone of his voice he sounded sad when he said, "Let's just be friends with benefits," when I...
  13. Blog
    The girl who was being mean to me at work ended up being nice to me now. She asked about my lunch one day and had a real conversation with me with none of the dirty stares or anything. I was surprised she came up to me. I'm glad I kept my cool with that because I knew it was going to work...
  14. Blog
    So I don't really feel like doing anything I don't have to do: I'll go to work and come home to write or not do anything at all but sleep and hang out with my dog. Whenever a friend asks me to hang out, I barely want to do that. Some people I know aren't okay with being by themselves the way...
  15. Blog
    My projects are coming along quite nicely. I can't wait 'til I finish my books. I keep coming up with idea after idea. I hope I'm not like a one hit wonder where people know me off of one book I write. I want to continue to write. It's been great just getting everything off my chest, and...
  16. Blog
    Ahhhhhhh he FINALLY called me on the PHONE and answered! And we talked for 10 minutes! He's a lot more mature than I thought. For being eight years younger, I gotta say, he is handling all this pretty well. Yes, we talked about my 40 voice mails I always leave him and the texts. His voice...
  17. Blog
    Today I cursed my far away man out, but when am I not cursing at him? He is really frustrating. I mean really. He knows I'm siting here writing a book about us, trying to save money to go visit him. He knows he could help speed up the process in meeting by saving money also and scheduling a...
  18. Blog
    Sometimes my ex of five years who is in town will still try to hook up with me but I always say no. He knows he messed up and that there isn't anyone better than me here and I've moved on. Last night I really tore him one about the men I encounter in my city. He apologized to me on all their...
  19. INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Hi, INTJs! I'll try to make this brief--but I'm an ENFP woman and I've been in a long-distance relationship with an INTJ woman for about a year and a half now. We try to visit each other as often as we can and in spite of a lot of resistance from my family (who I'm financially dependent on at...
  20. Sex and Relationships
    People often tell me that I should talk to the guy who makes the most time and effort to be with/see me and if they can't see me they would text, call video chat and/or Skype with me until they can see me. Currently, I have been occasionally talking to someone from Canada...another far away...
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