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  1. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I recently met an INFP boy when working in another state. After my first conversation with him, I thought he was quite sweet and felt an attraction to him. The two of us were never particularly close compared to our friendships with other coworkers, but we were respectable and observant with...
  2. ESFJ Forum - The Caregivers
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  3. Myers Briggs Forum
    Hey everyone! I cannot stop overthinking and overanalyzing things and I am in need of some serious help/advice from other ISTPs on my ISTP boyfriend. I apologize in advance for all the length and repetitiveness lol (I am as ENFP as they come). So basically we started dating almost 2 years ago...
  4. ESTP Forum - The Doers
    There's a stereotype that since ESTPs live in the here and now, they are often not good at maintaining relationships/friendships when they don't see the other person in person all the time. Would you say there is any truth to that? If you are away from a person you care about, how fast do...
  5. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Hi guys, So nearly 3 months ago I met this guy on a dating app. We started chatting and eventually decided to switch to another platform to continue texting. I guess the conversation was enjoyable for both of us as we shared thoughts on many topics and debated easily. He was actually very...
  6. ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    Hi everyone! I'm new to Personality Cafe, but I'd really appreciate help in a situation I have with an ENTP. I'm an INFJ, but I put this in the ENTP forum because I am extremely confused by an ENTP's behavior and thought you might understand it better than I can. So I have a very complicated...
  7. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Hello, I am an ISTJ and I'm pining for an ENFP. Here is the backstory: ENFP and I met in class at college, became friendly acquaintances (would sit together in class and chat). We both ended up at the same gig one night, ended up quite drunk by the end of the night and hooked-up. She said it...
  8. ESTJ Forum - The Guardians
    I'm an ISFJ and an ESTJ man and I are (very) interested in each other. We met three weeks ago at an event and spent hours and hours talking--- one day we talked for seven hours straight in the evening. Friends tell me that he's smitten, and I know I am. We're out of contact right now while my...
  9. Sex and Relationships
    I've been severely infatuated / obsessed with a man I met for 6 months now and it's driving me crazy. We met through an university when were worked together and started to become close friends (nothing romantic was disclosed though, but he acted towards me in a very chivalrous manner like...
  10. ESFP Forum - The Performers
    I need insight. I will try to be as brief as possible. Me: 36, INFJ - living in Georgia looking for a job to move to Colorado, longest relationship was 5 months, which ended December last year. Him: 41, ESFP - living in Colorado, job, has his shit together. divorced 6 years ago, was with the...
  11. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hey everyone! I've read many forums on this website before, but this is my first time posting! This is bound to be pretty long and it's totally not necessary to read the entire post to answer the question (so please answer whether you read all of it, skim it, or just the question!!), but my...
  12. ISTP Forum - The Mechanics
    Hi guys! Basically extremely new to this. But honestly, I don't really know how to cope with my breakup with my ISTP ex-boyfriend. Been 3 months and I'm feeling all that grief, anger, betrayal, denial, depression. Long story short (not that short ugh): we met on a pen-pal website in Nov 2015...
  13. ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    ISFJ Boyfriend Helloo~ so I'm an ENTP who is dating an ISFJ in a long distance relationship. We've dated for over a year now, but because we are completely opposites and we are apart more than we are together, I wanted to ask you guys a few things about how you guys would feel! (so that I...
  14. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Hey there! I am a female ENTP and I recently graduated high school. For two years my best friend has been an ENFP male. Now that I am moving away for college, I realised that I am in love with him (and I suspect that he might be in love with me). However, I am not sure if I should tell him : I...
  15. ISTJ Forum - The Duty Fulfillers
    Fellow ISTJ's-- How are you with long-distance relationships? Not just romantic relationships, but also friendships. If you do keep in touch, in what ways do you do so, and how frequently? How does this communication style/frequency differ between a good friend and a SO/love interest? I am...
  16. ESFP Forum - The Performers
    How are ESFP's with long-distance relationships? Not just romantic relationships, but also friendships. If you do keep in touch, in what ways do you do so, and how frequently? How does this communication style/frequency differ between a good friend and a SO/love interest? Also, are there...
  17. ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    Okay, guys. As a typical INTP, I nearly got brain dead from over analysing. So hear me out. I need your help. I was travelling to this small, beautiful town for several days when I met this ENTP lad who didn't really caught my eye at first, but mine caught him. It was awesome. The...
  18. ISTJ Forum - The Duty Fulfillers
    This is my first post and I apologize for its length. I’ve long been a reader here and definitely have appreciation for MBTI- I find there to often be a lot of truth in them. I seem to be somewhere between an ESTJ and an ENTJ. I write about my recent breakup with my 24 yr old ISTJ girlfriend...
  19. Sex and Relationships
    Hey everyone! I've been using this site for a while now, but only just made an account. I'm an INTP female in a LDR with an INFP male. I've been finding it very difficult to find discussions on this match and was wondering if anyone is in a similar relationship and could shed some light or...
  20. ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    So I am at a crossroads here and about to make a big life decision. I have been dating my INFJ guy for about four months now. We have similar core values, interests and more. We don't want a house in the suburbs. We both work in the medical field and want to make a positive difference in the...
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