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    I put this on the INFP confession thread, and I wanted to blog it here: Hey, my boyfriend and I broke up. It's rough because I fell in love with him, and he's the only one that I've ever fallen in love with. Basically, he didn't have enough time for us. He has a lot going on—he is a single...
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  3. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    My best friend ( Supposed ISTP, Her personality used to be INTP) and I were best friends since Freshman year, we are now in Junior year. She randomly just stopped talking to me last week. She ignored everything I did message her. At the time I didn't think anything was wrong, so I was just...
  4. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    ...This might be a question for people older than myself... I'm 25 and I've realized after a recent breakup that I'll continually lose the ones I love as I grow older... It's inevitable. I can still count on the fingers of my hands the people, pets, and places that I love or have loved, but...
  5. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hey INFJs, I'm curious how you all deal with a loss or death of someone you know. It's weird for me, I don't really feel anything until I see my family of friends upset. That's what gets me. Maybe because I know death is inevitable and is going to happen to everyone eventually? Maybe because I...
  6. Myers Briggs Forum
    So, I used to be best friends with a guy. We talked everyday. I kind of knew that he liked me, but i tried to brush it off and ignore it. Whenever he likes someone, he becomes obsessed with them. When he gets rejected, he becomes insanely self-destructive. I can't tell whether he's trying to...
  7. ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    Saw this thread in the INFJ forum. We ENFJs need a place to mourn too. This is the thread for you to post tributes or obituaries to lost family members, loved ones, childhood items, pets, what have you. May this be a safe space to grieve. Offering for Grief Look! I have made this bowl for...
  8. Sex and Relationships
    Long story short, I met the most charismatic boy of my life (ENTP) fell head over heels, was obsessed with him. We had the best days/ nights of our lives together, that was a sentiment expressed by both of us. He retreated, yet confessed he loved me (all in the same period of time, which I find...
  9. Blog
    I am feeling a little introspective today. I guess because I'm listening to "You will catch me" by Flying Lotus.... and so I feel compelled to write, a freestyle writing, lacking punctuation, just right from my mind to the type. I am sitting here, drowned in the feeling of melancholy at the...
  10. Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    Hi everyone! I typed myself as a phobic 6w5, but I was reading an article the other day and now I'm confused again... Lol, I don't know what's wrong with me but I don't think I'm a very self-aware individual. Bear with me, this video is kind of long (you don't even have to watch it all) but if...
  11. NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects
    Lost is a crazy good tv show. And I don't care for those shallow people that only cared about the fact that in the finale they didn't solve all the mysteries. It was one heck of a show that really matured me and cured my depression through its moving scenes, soundtrack, and everything about it...
  12. NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    I'm amazed by those individuals who, for whatever reason, retire their accounts after logging countless hours, possibly years of their life on forums and blogs such as PerC. I feel saddened and elated, by endings and new beginnings. Is this at all normal? I suppose I take everything so much to...
  13. NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    Oh okay, thank you!! All I really want to do is split the paragraphs and make it easier for people to read like this: "So I decided to type this because I am in some kind of mood after watching plenty of shows and movies representing bonds...and...togetherness... I feel something deep...
  14. Sex and Relationships
    I have started my 30 days without (name removed) today. I have so much pain in my entire body. The reasons for this is the terrible grief i'm experiencing from this loss in my life. I'm afraid of how miserable this is going to be. It is going to take a heavy toll on my mind and body...
  15. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Not in the sense that they passed away--more that someone important to you is no longer in your life for whatever reason. I recently lost a friend, a fellow INFP that I had considered really close to me. It's been a while coming, after several months of non-communication, but she just recently...
  16. ENTJ Forum - The Executives
    Hello My fellow Personality Cafe members. I'm new here, and this is my first post. This is my story. All I'm trying to accomplish is to succeed in my life. [Before we begin let me say that I took the MBTI test first time around 3 years ago with the aid of a professional career consultant at my...
  17. Blog
    All is gone, All is dark. Far away; Far apart. All a dream, Once so real! Now we can, Can never feel. Never go! Never fly! Let me be By your side! Though we are Far apart, You still own, Own all my heart! Never go! Never fly! Let me be By your side! I'm not real, Can't be felt. Only seen...
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    Earlier today I got a rather cryptic message from an old lover, one that I just knew what it meant. The message I got was short: I've been down the path of suicide myself more than once and I immediately recognized that brief 11 word message for what it was, someone saying goodbye for good...
  19. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Wondering what tips and strategies other ENFPs have found useful when dealing with heart break of all kinds. Dealing with the anguish of a loved one's death... the end of a romantic relationship... parents' divorce... getting fired from a job: anything that caused you great emotional pain...
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    As her eyes wandered over the room, they stopped suddenly on an elegantly silver-framed photograph. She instantly recognized the woman, although she wore a giant smile and her soft chocolate-colored hair flowed over her shoulders. Around her neck, she wore a strikingly beautiful shiny...
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