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  1. [ENFP] Any ENFPs here dating/dated an ENTP?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I met one a couple years ago and we started getting close last year. TBH he’s the closest guy friend I ever had since we do lots of fun projects together. We write stories, work out, play music and do other random creative stuff. He’s weird like me. Uses with dad jokes like me. Lol Can be...
  2. Is it possible to rekindle INFP ex gf's feelings?

    Sex and Relationships
    Hello everyone. This is my first post here. I'm not sure where else to go for something like this. I'll try and keep it short. I am a male INTP and my ex is a female INFP. We met around two years ago, online, but only chatted as friends for several months. I expressed my feelings to her...
  3. INFJ + ISTP Relationships

    Myers Briggs Forum
    Hi there! I'm an INFJ in a relationship with an ISTP. If you're an ISTP or INFJ who is friends with or in a relationship with an INFJ/ISTP respectively: What do you guys consider the pros and cons about the other person and what are the pros and cons of the relationship itself? Thanks! :)
  4. Why does modern culture look down upon marriage so much?

    Sex and Relationships
    I'm only 19, so I can't say that I know much about life; yet something that really bothers me about our time is how much marriage is seen as something you probably shouldn't do. I understand that it can romanticized far too much and that it's far from perfect. However, whenever I see videos...
  5. The Nuclear Family

    Why is the nuclear family the norm? Well it’s because men-women relationships are the majority of relationships in the world and easier for them to have children rather than men-men or women-women, who naturally can't have children together and thus go down unnatural procedures to have children...
  6. [ISTJ] How do you recognize an ISTJ male in the crowd?

    ISTJ Forum - The Duty Fulfillers
    Hi everyone, I am an INTJ woman and I was wondering how do you describe ISTJ males? I know someone and I can't decide if he is an INTJ or ISTJ, seems both, but I want to know. I barely know him - I know him from church, so I don't want to ask him, yet. Are there any small details that would...
  7. [INFJ] Familiarity with INFJ

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    How do I know that INFJ has fallen in love? Please for help :unsure: We are friends every day we talk to each other, lately we often argue about insignificant things.
  8. [ENFP] My ex-ENFP best friend ghosted me under very weird circumstances

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    This is gonna be long, so bear with me. So it's about me (25F/ENFP) and my former best friend (22M/ENFP) We met nearly 4 years ago online and met up in person soon after. I developed a little crush on him and immediately let him know, only to get rejected. Feelings didn't run so deep, so I got...
  9. [ISTP] ISTP Mixed Signals [ISTP-M INTJ-F]

    ISTP Forum - The Mechanics
    Im just going to bullet because it seems like ISTPs read the info better/faster that way But I am an INTJ female and I tend to over-explain. - met my ISTP a year and a half ago at a con. He was quiet and didn't speak much but we became acquaintances - Ran into him a month later at another con...
  10. I have no sex drive unless I am connected to you

    Sex and Relationships
    I noticed that I can find a guy attractive, but I don't ever have sexual fantasies about them. If I ever want to get frisky by myself I come up with a made-up fantasy and actually make up a relationship in my head to get turned on by. Something about fantasizing a deep loving connection is such...
  11. [INTP] How should a Tinder profile look like for an INTP?

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    I´m at loss. How should one give some idea about the complex personality of an INTP, while attracting the suitable kind of woman, in only 500 characters? Do I really need to lure her in by pretending being that social, normal, cool guy with a bad boy streak, but with hint of promise of...
  12. romance

    i have a strange relationship with romance in that i find myself being more "flirty" with guys i'm not actually into... which - honestly, isn't great. and i've been thinking a lot about why that is. i think there's a part of me that in this regard, is able to separate or dissociate myself from...
  13. [ENFP] How Do You Show Love?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I'm talking specifically about how they show love to romantic partners. I've been dating an ENFP for a few months now. I'm not really well aquainted with the dating or romance world, but if I had to read the situation for my own perspective, I'd say he isn't there yet. But I don't exactly...
  14. My INFJ Love Song <3

  15. [INFP] Relationship advice for INFP's in need!

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    So, just starting this. I have a major problem. I fell out of love with my boyfriend and I don't know what to do. It's not like anything was wrong. I just... don't feel it anymore. And I feel so bad. I fell for him really fast, and my heart fluttered for everything he did, but... omg I feel...
  16. [ENFP] Quiz: What's your ideal type in a soulmate?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I've always loved doing these where I take an mbti test that I trust to be better than others (still not 100% accurate) and I pretend to be the person I want as a mate and have them take the test to see what result they get. Test: Personality test based on C. Jung and I. Briggs Myers type...
  17. [INFP] I Don't Know How to Be in Love

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    For the first time in my life, I've started to wonder if love is, perhaps, not real. I've been in a relationship for about 1.5 years now. I love her but I know she's not the one, and I don't think I'm in love with her. There are moments where I've felt ridiculously giddy and head-over-heels for...
  18. Write Love

    Sex and Relationships
    Write a poem, or a short story. Write it for yourself, for somebody else, or everyone. Everybody (well, mostly everybody) is capable of love. Unconditional love, romantic or platonic. Love is the best thing. Show us how much love you can feel. It might make you feel better, and others. Raise the...
  19. [INTP] How do you know if you are in love already?

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
  20. [INFP] How did you meet the person you care most about?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    The more detail the better!