making friends

Hello guys, hmmm for killing this endless boring self-quarantine, I registered this account to make some friends here. I will introduce myself to you first, then share some stories maybe, and ask you some questions. First of all, my personality type is infj - t. I knew it in an evening two...

DUPLICATE - Does he want to be friends? (Married INFJ/f, Single INTJ/m) Duplicate post (admins please delete!)

Questions to my fellow INFJs, I'm here because I feel like you might understand better what I'm dealing with and be able to speak to straight to my soul :) What's the deal with this INTJ/INFJ connection I've read about? Is there a connection or am I just lonely because I don't have many...

So... Where to start. I feel like I'm in high school again lol, just a few decades late and with the complications of adulthood. I'm a happily married/f/INFJ, mid 30s, (hubby is ENFP). He is single(?)/INTJ/mid 30s? I'll call him Gary. I attend a one week class with Gary a couple of times a...

I know, I know. Another day, another thread by some introvert feeling lonely and seeking companionship. But all the advice like "go out and meet people" just isn't helpful at all. I'm not one to throw around the term "friend" losely. I don't drink or do drugs or partying or anything like that. I...

Hi, I'm an INFP and I'm a teenager. If there are any other young people on here that would know, that would be great. So, I'm wondering about other NFs. I want to meet other NFs because I get along best with them, and I might even want to date one at some point. (I'm not trying to make online...

Hello everyone. Now I have been stressing out a lot at school and I mean really stressing out. Now you probably have seen me on this forum before asking about my type but now I kind have figured that out. Though now my problem is now at school as it just has started. I am in my last year of High...

An area of interest for me which I'd like this community's input on: What is the best way to go and initiate relationships (platonic or otherwise) in a setting where you haven't got pre-existing social proof? Say you've just moved to a new town or something. Are there specific places where...

Since INFP's can be shy, I was wondering if this was something that a lot of us deal with. I am quite socially awkward and have a lot of trouble making friends. To put it into perspective, the closest friend I have is on then their side of the planet from before I moved three years ago. I go...

I have trouble making friends easily, and want to get some help, tips, and learn to navigate my personality to create a more balanced life for myself. I'm very friendly, I enjoy chatting about meaningful subjects, and learning interesting things about other people. I've heard that I'm...

Okay, first of all, kudos if you got the Spongebob reference in the title -- "I'm ugly and I'm proud!" Anyway, I'm studying abroad in Madrid right now (as some of you guys may already know), and my host mother was commenting on the fact that I don't have any friends here. I wanted to ask you...

Hello! My name is Jacob(made up name) and I am on this blog because of this user discoverhiddenjules , i read one of her post and I could so relate. I am a second year college student and for those who realize they are or were socially awkward, I am here to hear about your journey and...

I'm a semester through my first year at university, and even though I'm living at a residential hall/dorm, I'm finding that I have not made any close friends. They say that making friends after graduating from university is extremely difficult, and that the friends you have from high school and...

Hello everyone, since everyone introduces their type, I'll introduce myseld too: I'm an ISTP type, or maybe INTP :rolleyes: I am a girl that's studying graduate program in university, still a first year, going strong! I'm experiencing my fair-share of...

It's unnatural to flat-out approach someone new out of the blue and start a conversation. So why do I feel like I have to do it? Well, because I don't get any of the encouraging signs or the incremental steps I need in order to naturally get to know someone. So the only option seems to force it...

Do you make "Profiles" Of your friends. Or Mental notes of their Characterists As an Enfj I really care to truly truly get to know somone... So I make that a personal goal of mine when making new friends.. I was wondering if the following is a ENFJ type thing? Or just somthing wierd I do. Now...

Okay so I'm not totally freaking out, but I'm pretty nervous, yet excited. Anyway, I just had some questions about it and all... 1. How did you make friends even though you are introverted? (I'm not the most outgoing person in the world...) 2. Speaking of being an introvert, how did you find...

[post from the forums with some basic tips that folks can broadly apply if they want to expand their social skills, from ESFP because we are known for making friends easily, and the question on the boards was posed to ESFP... feedback in thread said it was really helpful so I'm posting it as a...

I've never actually read The Three Musketeers but I couldn't think of anything more suitable... I've always sort of pined for a one or a group of best friends that passed the time by making cynically comic remarks about life as they watched from the sidelines. Okay, not that specific, but you...