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  1. Is gender and sex the same thing?

    Member Polls
    It's a poll about language, and what is the most common understanding in the usage of those terms. I'm obviously concerned by this question as I'm trans, and I'm a proponent of a dissociation between gender and sex. But because I know that in english those words tend to be interchangeable...
  2. [ISTJ] How do you recognize an ISTJ male in the crowd?

    ISTJ Forum - The Duty Fulfillers
    Hi everyone, I am an INTJ woman and I was wondering how do you describe ISTJ males? I know someone and I can't decide if he is an INTJ or ISTJ, seems both, but I want to know. I barely know him - I know him from church, so I don't want to ask him, yet. Are there any small details that would...
  3. Hi There!

    I've only recently gotten quite interested in MBTI, Enneagram and different personality types and how they affect us in general. This is one of the first forums, in which I've been active. English isn't my native language so please excuse my weird syntax and use of unfitting words :) I'm...
  4. ESFPs and Jealousy

    Myers Briggs Forum
    Hi! So, I (ENFP Female) was dumped over 5 months ago by an ESFP Male. As an Intuitive, I continue to overthink our relationship... I thought I might finally give up hope, but then my ESFP began to show (what I think) are not-so-subtle signs of jealousy. With that, what are common signs of...
  5. [INFP] Passivity of INFP male?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hello everyone. I have a question for INFP males. So I've known my INFP friend for a few months but we were sort of unaware of our existence. A few weeks ago we started to interact with each other and it turned out we get along really well. I am an INTJ female and it's quite unusual for me to...
  6. [INTP] INTPs and Female Aspies; What is the Difference? (Also INTJs, ISTJs, and ENTJs)

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    So I came across this unofficial list written by a woman who has been around a lot of female aspies.* What's the difference between the things on this list and your average INTP bear? I'm seeing a lot of similarities, but I think the motivating reasons might be different. I also see a lot of...
  7. Statistics on Myers Briggs type and gender ratio

    Myers Briggs Forum
    From Slayerment: April 16, 2015 Key findings: -ISTPs are the type most likely to be male, 75% -ISFJs are the type most likely to be female, 71% -ISFPs and INFPs are the most balanced, 43/57 and 42/58 male/female, respectively -ESTJs are the Thinking type most likely to be female, at 39%...
  8. [INFP] Masculinity Standars - INFP Males

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hello my INFP's community: Today I want to start this topic to discuss several things on Masculinity subject: 1) Difficulties as male INFP with current Masculinity Standars 2) The represion of being truly us 3)- This new "trend" of promote sensitiviness on guys 4)- Be a space to express...
  9. [ESFP] Which MBTI Type Are You Most Attracted To Romantically???

    ESFP Forum - The Performers
    Mainly wanting responses from ESFP types. Both male and female responses: From experience, which of the 16 types have you been most attracted to/had a crush on? * What was enjoyable about it? * How long did it last? * Why did it end? * What was the chemistry between the two of you like? *...
  10. [ENFP] What are some signs that a female ENFP is romantically interested in you?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Hello, ENFPs! I'm just curious. Above all personality types, you ladies are the hardest to figure out. How do you normally act when in the presence of a guy that you have a crush on/romantically interested in? Assuming you don't know how he feels about you, are you more inclined to make...
  11. [ISTP] Does this ISTP like me?

    ISTP Forum - The Mechanics
    I'll try and make this as brief as possible - but It'll probably be long anyway. Sorry! I know there are several threads similar to the whole 'how to know if an ISTP likes you' thing but I suppose it's nice to have responses to your own specific situation, so here goes. I'm in high school and...
  12. What male MBTI type is naturally best skilled at romancing women?

    Sex and Relationships
    Explain your answer using real-life examples if possible.
  13. INTJ Virgo here :)

    I want to know who I truly am. I spend more time in my head. Drunk me is a different me. Don't really like socializing. "All or nothing" is my motto. And, self-introduction is not my kinda thing. Hope I learn something new here :)
  14. [INTP] ENTJ girl and INTP boy

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Sorry for my bad English. So I'm an ENTJ teen girl, who's in love with INTP boy. I've known him for a year, but we haven't even got any real 'talks'. When I'm around, he's very quiet and shy. He even blushes. But whenever he doesn't see me, he's always joking, chatting with others, saying random...
  15. Depression and warping of the mind..

    General Psychology
    Depression is a disease that affects many people all over the world. This is a well-known fact. Do you suffer from depression ? Have you come through the other side ? I think it is one of the biggest mysteries of our world today. I often wonder; Why is depression is so common ? How do so many...
  16. [INFJ] Will this INFJ Male ever speak to me again?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hey all, So let me start off by giving you all some context. I am a 26-year-old female ENFP who was recently in a Friends with Benefits relationship with an INFJ male (I'm pretty certain he's an INFJ) who is just shy of 19 years old. We were coworkers. We became friends rather quickly due to...
  17. Which MBTI Type Do You Find Most Attractive On A Male?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    A general consensus from the members of PerC through comments and poll-taking. Keep in mind the criteria of what is attractive varies for each person. But I guess the poll is just meant to see what type accommodates most of these different criteria and through the comments, we can see the kind...
  18. [ESFJ] Male ESFJs, i have some questions for you

    ESFJ Forum - The Caregivers
    Like other people have said, i think female ESFJs are easier to spot, maybe because society is not very accepting of male ESFJs ( i think you play your feeling side down a bit because of that), because of that i have some questions: Toward which professions to you tend to navigate? is there...
  19. [ENFP] Overiding Fi function with excessive use of Te.

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I'm curious, do male Fi Aux&Dom users heavily suppress their Introverted Feeling side for the sake of society's expectations on males? Also, could this apply to male Fe Aux&Dom users as well? I'm asking this question because I want to know what that's like since I believe that I've been doing...
  20. Hello! INFJ guy here (chance INTJ?) :D

    how's it going? I joined a few days ago, but just found this intro place. Hi, i'm F 2! Recently discovered MBTI and I've been getting really into it. I'm an INFJ male, which is p uncommon I understand. never been a member of a forum. been enjoying my time here so far, look forward to maybe...