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  1. [ISFP] ISFP males - mixed signals? leading someone on?

    ISFP Forum - The Artists
    hey my dear ISFPs, could you help me figure this ISFP male out? His behaviour is quite confusing, especially since I can usually read people well (as an ENFP). So we work together. In the beginning we didn't talk to each other much as he is a rather quiet person in general and I was a bit...
  2. [INTP] What are INTP males like in relationships? How do them and female INTPs differ?

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Some of these threads got me thinking. I've talked to several female INTPs and we take our relationships pretty seriously. We can be passive and just go with the flow happy to support our spouses. I go to pretty big efforts to make my spouse happy. We can let our spouses into our inner...
  3. [INTJ] INTJ Males

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    I got an idea for this thread from the INTJ Females; if they have one why can't we? As an INTJ male, I find it difficult to be interested in typical masculine topics like sports, athletes, athletic activities, going to bars to talk to other men about attractive women, being wingmen, bar hopping...
  4. [INFJ] Why intelligent, and attractive INFJ men don't end up on dates. ( No Restrictions)

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Whenever a women likes me, I get the same question, like I'm playing a record player that got scratched in heated rage: how can no one like you!? Well I will tell you! I saw a similar post on here, about an INFJ women who was wondering how her new INFJ bf had never been on a date/had a...
  5. [INFJ] INFJ males make first move?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Would an INFJ male ever make the first move towards someone they like? I've been reading a lot of how the INFJ will never make the first move and also how they will never really believe that "the one" will like them? Also, would an INFJ ever resort to ignoring someone they like or staying away...

    NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    I want to say thank you to all the dreamers out there. I have been blessed enough to have had an INFP as a father. My mother was mentally ill and this man still stuck it out for us and basically was a mom to me. I have held resentment towards him because he didn't protect me from mom but now I...
  7. I feel so bad for INFP guys.

    Ugh, gender roles today are tough on INFP guys. We're all a victim of gender roles... I know for me, they were ingrained into my subconscious from watching Disney movies when I was young. The women were relatable and delicate while the men were mysterious, strong, and level-headed, and my brain...
  8. [ENTP] Signs of Attraction:: Chatting

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    If an ENTP male tells you that he cannot really chat with others (guys and girls alike - actually he mentioned even 'pretty' girls) for a long period of time except for yourself, does that indicate something. [It's usually like cross-continental online chatting for a couple of hours at a...
  9. [ISFJ] What Are ISFJ Males Like?

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    Are you homebodies? Do you like sports or more art/music? Are you sensitive? How would I know an ISFJ male is into me?
  10. [INTP] INTP males and Pot?

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Hey, I have a lot of INTP friends that I often draw from discussing & mentioning intellectual interests. I have noticed a really weird pattern with INTP males that I know; a large number of them have regularly smoked pot and also dealt drugs for some time when they were younger. I get the...
  11. [INFP] INFP males, do you feel like you're more sterotypically female?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I don't know if it's just me, but do you think that society sort of sorts us into the catergory of stereotypically female? With our caring qualities, dislike for conflict and caring values? I find myself often scoffed at for being as a "sissy" etc. What do you think? Is this what most people...
  12. [ESFJ] Any ESFJ males looking for an INFP female? LOVE/HATE relationship.

    ESFJ Forum - The Caregivers
    I'll try to keep this short and sweet, I just want to see what kind of responses I get (I wish they had a dating website specifically for the types!). Sorry if I'm posting in wrong area.. I'm kinda new. I always end up with ESFJs or ESTJs, they obviously didn't work out or I wouldn't be posting...
  13. [INFP] For INFP males out there

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I am in the process of typing myself and would like to know how you guys are in real life? I resonate pretty well with a lot of what INFP's are about, but I am still unsure if this is the best fit for me. I'll give you a profile on me so you will know what I am asking for and this will...
  14. [ISFP] ISFP Males - Dealing with low self esteem

    ISFP Forum - The Artists
    Interested in hearing from my fellow male ISFP's and how you guys deal with or have dealt with low self esteem issues. I've been feeling very useless, invisible, and unloved when it comes to my personal relationships with friends and family and I could really use some advice. Of course as an...
  15. [INFP] INFP males and smiling - is this 'normal'?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I'm very self-conscious of everything I do. Being an INFP male is not easy when I'm with other males. I'm always told I smile too much. Someone said to me in the past that I should stop doing this as it is 'not manly'... In fact when I'm in contact with other people smiling is my first reaction...
  16. [INFP] Infp males getting weird looks all the time

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I was on the bus today and I was getting the eye from two of the three girls that was sitting next to me. I said something and they dismissed me like I was some weirdo or something. Is this common among other Infp males?
  17. [INFP] Question for INFP males

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Suppose a hypothetical situation: You are in a professional situation in which you are somewhat of a mentor and develop a friendship with a pupil. As the situation no longer requires your authority, the friendship is able to blossom. Somehow, signals are misinterpreted by both parties and you...
  18. SFJ males (are there even any here??)

    SJ's Temperament Forum- The Overseers
    ... so most of the SFJ males I know are very uptight with their sexuality and masculinity and have a really big fear of coming across as gay (if they are straight, of course)... not that all of them could be mistaken as gay (though a few could, that I personally know), but most are visibly...
  19. [ENTJ] ENTJs are "alpha males (or females)" ... really!?

    ENTJ Forum - The Executives
    I think most people (on this website at least), when talking about ENTJs, they paint themselves the picture of "THE" alpha male who is taking charge of everything. However, seldom do I ever feel like that. Sure I take charge during my work (because my job demands it) or during group projects in...
  20. [INFP] to females, are INFP males appealing to you?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I'm curious as to what type an INFP male can attract with our set of values and beliefs. FEMALES ONLY! (unless you are a homosexual male)