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  1. Is gender and sex the same thing?

    Member Polls
    It's a poll about language, and what is the most common understanding in the usage of those terms. I'm obviously concerned by this question as I'm trans, and I'm a proponent of a dissociation between gender and sex. But because I know that in english those words tend to be interchangeable...
  2. INTJ woman asking ENTJ men stuff

    Sex and Relationships
    This is a more complex question: Are any ENTJ man - INTJ woman happy couples out there? Are ENTJ men always confident when it comes about relationships, can they be shy or simply afraid of commitment? And if so, why? When do ENTJ men manipulate people, do they manipulate even the people they love?
  3. [INFP] Stealing money from a blind man (social experiment)

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    How do you feel about this social experiment? I was shocked and inflamed. The former can be initially seen as confusing, because I feel like I always rant about how much society sucks, but then at the same time, I feel pretty naive. In the sense that it's still hard for me to comprehend how...
  4. Type this guy!

    Guess the type
    I have known this guy for seven years or so as an acquaintance and a couple months ago I became his friend. So here is some information about him to give you an idea of what he is like. 1. He LOVES comedy and his current favorite movie is The Interview. 2. He can turn anything into a joke and...
  5. Women, Men, and Facial Hair

    Sex and Relationships
    What are you? What is your facial hair status? How do you feel about your facial hair status? What do you find attractive about other people specifically on the subject of facial hair and why? I am Sexually a Man with no Non-Physical Gender. I have a fully grown natural beard. I like my...
  6. [ISTP] ISTP: Did anyone ever tell you "you are old"? Why?

    ISTP Forum - The Mechanics
    So, i was thinking about this. It's not about looking physically older than you actually are i don't care about that, it's about looking older because of... behavior, i guess. Did anybody ever tell you you look old, maybe that you have an old soul? Did you ask them why? Do you have any idea...
  7. [INTP] A strange love, for a strange INTP

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    This happened around thanks giving of 2014, the event happened at my grandpa's house. We go to his house around this time of year for games and friendly gambling, but the last time this happened something out of the ordinary struck me... I saw the most beautiful girl I have ever seen sitting on...
  8. [ENFP] When an ENFP has a crush

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    How would an ENFP (specifically male) act when they like someone romantically? I'm often confused by the ENFP behavior because they have so much love for everyone all the time, and are so warm and bubbly the typical signs of attraction may not apply. One that I'm thinking of gets along with...
  9. [ISFP] Type my friend? ISFP or ESFP?

    ISFP Forum - The Artists
    Your opinion is appreciated! I'm on the fence with typing a friend of mine and it's driving me crazy. Here's a description of him. He's very musically gifted and plays the drums, trumpet, piano, and anything else he can get his hands on. He's a dancer, particularly good at ballroom dancing and...
  10. [ISFP] ISFP in a relationship with another ISFP?

    ISFP Forum - The Artists
    I haven't seen a lot of stuff on here about what happens when two ISFPs are in a relationship. Does it work? What are some problems? Does anyone have any examples of someone they know like this? Are you in one yourself? What are the benefits? I always seem to be most attracted to guys who are...
  11. ENFP 2w3 Guy, been lurking a while, decided to make it official

    Hey all... Had a very hard life from ages... 8 to 25 I guess. From the age of about 14 I really started to lose that ENFP fire, except for occasional good moments, and never typed as an ENFP. This all came to a head last week when I had a panic attack and went to hospital in an ambulance. I...
  12. [INTP] Pedophile lives in my house,need advice urgently..

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    (I also posted this same thread in the Advice column as I need help asap.) Hello everyone. I am in desperate need of some rationalization and advice and I figured I'd post my dilemma here. I will be eternally grateful if you could give me your advice and state the reasons why you think I should...
  13. Pedophile lives in my house,need advice urgently..

    Advice Center
    Hello everyone. I am in desperate need of some rationalization and advice and I figured I'd post my dilemma here. I will be eternally grateful if you could give me your advice and state the reasons why you think I should do so. I am a 14 year old girl and I live with my parents, living as...
  14. [INFP] Ladies, what is a "man"?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    It's all subjective isn't it? We all have different desires for what we want to see in someone, but what is it for you? What does being a 'man' encompass? What stage are they at in their lives -- or maybe it doesn't even matter? Does a 'man' value ________ above all else? What makes a man wake...
  15. [ENTP] Male and Female: What Difference Does It Make?

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    I have grown up with the experience that men and women are very different on a fundamental level. I might be able to name one or two things that make females different from us, but I don't pretend to know the ins and outs of womanhood. However, personality theory aside, men and women are very...
  16. What is the personality type more prone to hide his homosexuality?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    Please don´t judge my question too early, let´s see what people have to say about their life experience. We probably don´t know the answer right away because we haven´t done any study, but maybe we know the personality type of some people, perhaps many, that did hide it for a long time. I´m...
  17. Should sex difference be included in MBTI?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    Knowing the thinking and differences in preference between man and women, shouldn't there be an inclusion for Man (M) and Woman (W) in MBTI? For example, I am INFJM (not INFJW), and not just INFJ, because this will also include the sex difference thus allowing for a more specific type...
  18. 'Cause Every Girl's Crazy 'Bout A Sharp Dressed Man?

    Sex and Relationships
    In Selene's new clothes thread, PeacePassion posted: Now that quote just stood out to me. And I've been turning it over in my mind Nick Carraway-style ever since. I have some questions for the ladies here, and maybe the men could help too. -How does the average dressed man change when he puts...
  19. Stag O Lee was read bad man, can you tell?

    General Psychology
    Stag O Lee was real bad man, can you tell? Can you tell when people are being fake or insincere or if they are basically good? I knew she meant to do me harm, when she could not keep her paws out of my wallet. Do you trust people that eat Kit-Kats...