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  1. Fe in different cultures

    Cognitive Functions
    Extraverted Feeling deals with value judgments in social and cultural dynamics. It's one of the most common functions in Western society (probably American), but i'd like to see examples of how it works in all sorts of societies. Example: China Fe can be all about "unspoken social contracts"...
  2. Email Etiquette: To Thank or Not to Thank?

    Advice Center
    Hello, yes, hi (Dear Sir/Madam), So the hypothetical email situation goes like so: > I write a professionally written email to ask a question on what I have to do regarding a task, and end this email with "thank you and kind regards", (my name). > The person replies, answering my question...
  3. [INTP] Tips on how to be "polite"

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    I'm an INTP and my boyfriend's (an ENFJ, if any y'all wondering) family, well mainly mother, (not so sure about the father or brother) thinks I'm quite abominably rude. Recently I went on a trip with them and it was really pretty much they're first big impression of me, you know, how I really am...
  4. [INFP] Please and Thank You

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Do you say please and/or thank you a lot in real life? I always use them (this I know is from my esfj mom) and I really noticed how much I say it at my last job when not many other people do. Do you think this can be seen in a negative way, such as weak or being a pushover? I really like when...
  5. [INFJ] How important are good manners to you?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    How are your manners? Do you usually make a point to say "please" and "thank you"? Go out of your way to address people by their proper titles? Hold doors open for others? Show respect to your parents? Etc. Does it bother you when other people show poor manners or discourteous behavior? I...