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  1. ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    Hi! So when I’m ready to date again I want to date and marry an ENTP man. I’m an INFP 4w3. What do you like to see in your relationships? What should I be doing more of and what should I be doing less or? What is helpful and unhelpful? Thank you
  2. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I met one a couple years ago and we started getting close last year. TBH he’s the closest guy friend I ever had since we do lots of fun projects together. We write stories, work out, play music and do other random creative stuff. He’s weird like me. Uses with dad jokes like me. Lol Can be...
  3. Sex and Relationships
    I'm only 19, so I can't say that I know much about life; yet something that really bothers me about our time is how much marriage is seen as something you probably shouldn't do. I understand that it can romanticized far too much and that it's far from perfect. However, whenever I see videos...
  4. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I’m an INFJ married to an ESTP. Married young and didn’t understand differences and need for compatibility. Perhaps I was also looking for stability and the ESTP definitely provided that. But over and over I find myself feeling lonely, misunderstood and controlled. The differences are grating on...
  5. Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    I am starting a dating app based on the enneagram. I need to ensure that my dating app has the highest success rates. Any advice? Also looking for anyone interested in launching the dating app with me <3 I'm an (4w3) 8, 7, with a sexual instinct ENFP in case anyone is wondering. <3
  6. ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    To ISFJs, Which MBTI type have you had the deepest and most meaningful relationships with and which one can you envision yourself marrying or have married? ~Cheers :heart:
  7. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    A question for ENFPs. Which type can you envision having a long lasting relationship with, marriage and platonic: INFJs or ISFJs? If you would, explain the reason for your answer and any personal experience in this scenario you may have. ~Cheers :heart: (If you're too lazy to write a response...
  8. Sex and Relationships
    This is a more complex question: Are any ENTJ man - INTJ woman happy couples out there? Are ENTJ men always confident when it comes about relationships, can they be shy or simply afraid of commitment? And if so, why? When do ENTJ men manipulate people, do they manipulate even the people they love?
  9. The Generations
    About how old were you when you learned that "love is a choice" and that if you are ever going to have a stable, long term relationship, you are going to have to discipline yourself to treat your partner in a loving manner, after the initial "romantic" feelings have disipated?
  10. ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    Hi ENFJs (or any NFs or types that dated NFs), What personality types have you dated/married, where it has been good relationship for you? What were the pros and cons, and what did you do to strengthen the relationship? Any relationships that were more challenging and it didn't last? You can...
  11. NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects
    Hi NTs, I’m an ENFJ female in my late 20s. I want to find the love of my life before my mid 30s so I can get married and have babies that are not at risk of health or neurological complications. I’m looking for input on whether ENFJ is compatible with NT- intellect group. I would appreciate if...
  12. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Confession: I stole this from an ENFP thread :kitteh: I'm curious, which type on PerC have INFJs married the most? And for those of you that aren't married, which types have you had the most successful relationship (romantically) with and why? :heart:
  13. Type 8 Forum - The Challenger
    Hi there, personality cafe people and fellow Type 8's, I am a 22 year old female with a 30 year old husband. He is a type 6. I've known about being a type 8 for a little over a year, and it is spot on with how I am. My husband discovered he is a type 6, which is also incredibly accurate and...
  14. General Psychology
    Some of my best friends tend to be ENTP and ENFP, yet I'm unsure if this translates to the realm of long-term relationships with the opposite sex. The main cause of this uncertainty is due to sharing similar views, interests, and possibly lifestyles with other Ni-Se users, which makes me wonder...
  15. ESTJ Forum - The Guardians
    Hi everyone, I'm an INFP (9w8) married for 4 years to an ESTJ (2w1) – so our lives are never boring! I'm here to gather advice on how best to care for her when she's upset or in pain. Her default response is to completely shut out the rest of the world: the shutters come down, and she'll...
  16. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    For a year and a half, I (the ENFP male) was dating an ESFJ (female). I broke it off. However, I've been recently reconsidering getting back together. We recently talked about where we failed each other, could have tried harder, and reflected on what we've learned apart. PROS: we have...
  17. Advice Center
    Hi everyone, I hope Im posting in the right place :) Im a 21 year old INFJ, and Ive been married for about 2 years to an INTJ, hes amazing in every way, and Im always grateful for him. But recently since having our first child who is 1 month old, hes been distant, and criticizes me often about...
  18. Sex and Relationships
    My ESTP boyfriend and I are looking at getting married after 7 years of dating. I've been extremely reluctant because it means me moving overseas but have decided it's time. I recently went to live with him for 3 months to see how it would go. I realised: I laugh more around him - he...
  19. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    INFP+ENTJ is the traditional pairing, but INFP+INTJ intrigues me. Thoughts? Experiences? Ranting? Gushing?