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  1. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I recently moved to a new town for a job change. The change overall has been a very positive one, but my previous job was on a college campus and so Community was much easier, since it sort of “just happened.” In a new, small town, it is difficult to find community places to meet people. This...
  2. Sex and Relationships
    I've met some people at parties, but now that I'm in my 30's there's less parties and most people have settled down and known everyone else for years. I basically only go expecting to meet friends, never anyone new. I met a few people with Okcupid a few years back, but I'm sooo over online...
  3. ESFP Forum - The Performers
    Soooo, maybe typical of ESFPs, maybe not, but my social circle is very limited, admittedly, because I made it so. And there are no interesting men in it whatsoever. My calendar is overbooked, so any time investment I make has to be well targeted, if I want to expand, and at this point, I don't...
  4. ENTJ Forum - The Executives
    So I've been going board to board asking the different types questions and I've covered all the introverted types. There aren't a whole lot of extraverts I've found, but it seems like the ENTJs are sorta active so I figured why not. I'm actually quite familiar with the type. My best friend is a...
  5. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    So I've been going across the type specific boards asking various type specific questions to get a better perspective and learn a bit more about each type. INTPs have a particularly special place in my heart. I know two who i love very much, and while being INTPs very clearly, they are both very...
  6. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    So a couple days ago I came here and asked some questions and it prompted me to go across all the boards and ask questions for most of the other types. I loved you guys and your responses so much that i came back for more. I'll try not to do too many repeat questions. 1: Do you consider...
  7. ISFP Forum - The Artists
    I've been going across the boards asking questions and I've enjoyed learning about people so i figured why not keep it going? I have a really good friend who's a possible ISFP and i think i love her more than anyone else i know, but she's the only one i've met so it'd be nice to hear from more...
  8. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    So ive been goin across the boards asking questions for various types and I've been enjoying myself with it thus far so i figured why not keep going and get to know more people. Every INFP I've met has either been a total sweetheart or my mom so I'm excited to see what you guys have to say. 1...
  9. ISTP Forum - The Mechanics
    I've been across the boards attempting to get to know various types to get a better more personified view of each beyond the simple descriptions. I've had one friend that i think might have your personality type based on what I've read and I've seen you compared to indiana jones (both of these...
  10. ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    I think i have maybe met two ISFJs in my life, and i haven't really been able to draw the parallels between them. I'm not so sure if I have the best impression of what the type is like beyond what i read in general descriptions so i figured there wouldn't be much harm in reaching out to ask some...
  11. Intro
    Howdie. My name is Mary. I currently live in Edmonton, Alberta, Canada. Recently discovered I'm an INTP. Also realized this explained a lot. lol I'm here to learn more about myself, and meet some people with whom I can relate. -- And hopefully contribute something to others' searches as well...
  12. Advice Center
    I know, I know. Another day, another thread by some introvert feeling lonely and seeking companionship. But all the advice like "go out and meet people" just isn't helpful at all. I'm not one to throw around the term "friend" losely. I don't drink or do drugs or partying or anything like that. I...
  13. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Do you form judgments about people shortly after meeting them? Or do you withhold judgment until you've interacted with them more? What do you judge people on?
  14. Advice Center
    I'm an INFP (thought I was an INFJ) and have always had a hard time making friends. I'm about to turn 25 and I'm finishing up my second semester of Graduate school (getting my MFA in Advertising). I don't really have any friends I see regularly or that live in my city. I'd really like to change...
  15. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Sigh* I had to post this somewhere so that people who can actually relate and care can see it. I'm currently single and I don't want to be. I've been trying to look for "the one" and so far things have not been bad, meaning I've met some great people and made some friends, but I still don't have...
  16. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    It's unnatural to flat-out approach someone new out of the blue and start a conversation. So why do I feel like I have to do it? Well, because I don't get any of the encouraging signs or the incremental steps I need in order to naturally get to know someone. So the only option seems to force it...
  17. Sex and Relationships
    Meeting people: Where and how do you do it? I've only ever been in one serious relationship, and I met her at a friends birthday party. So I can't exactly rely on that for a hookup. Where do you meet new people? How do you form relationships with them, or spark interest? How do you make new...
  18. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hey, I've been looking for a while for another INFP and have been pretty unsuccessful. Apparently INFP is a very rare personality type. I was just wondering how you guys meet other INFPs in real life. Any help would really be appreciated! Thanks!
  19. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hullo, my dears! as some of you might know i just finished my first year of high school. all through grade school i had this one best friend. she was my complete opposite but we were always by eachothers side.but recently we've begun to change into separate people and now we barely speak. so i...
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