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  1. [INTJ] INTJ Men with High-functioning Autism or Asperger's, please respond...

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Do you ever have the tendency to not know that you're feeling deep feelings for someone until you've inadvertently hurt them by saying there wasn't a connection (when there was. we talked every day and had been physical after a revelation of feelings), there was an emotional ending to your...
  2. [ESFP] ESFP men - Do a lot of people assume you are gay?

    ESFP Forum - The Performers
    I have an ESFP friend (20 yers old) who has been struggling with this issue for years. A year ago he moved to a new place and because of his quirkyness / random dances ect people started believing he was gay. It got to a point where people tried to tell him he was gay when he clearly said he...
  3. [INFP] Masculinity Standars - INFP Males

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hello my INFP's community: Today I want to start this topic to discuss several things on Masculinity subject: 1) Difficulties as male INFP with current Masculinity Standars 2) The represion of being truly us 3)- This new "trend" of promote sensitiviness on guys 4)- Be a space to express...
  4. What male MBTI type is naturally best skilled at romancing women?

    Sex and Relationships
    Explain your answer using real-life examples if possible.
  5. [INTJ] Are men more successful than women professionally because they want it more?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    I stumbled upon this video the other day and amongst other things it made me wonder about women in the workforce or more specifically the low amount of highly successful women in it compared to men. When I say highly successful i mean: exceptionally successful in their area of interest either...
  6. [ESFJ] Male ESFJs, i have some questions for you

    ESFJ Forum - The Caregivers
    Like other people have said, i think female ESFJs are easier to spot, maybe because society is not very accepting of male ESFJs ( i think you play your feeling side down a bit because of that), because of that i have some questions: Toward which professions to you tend to navigate? is there...
  7. [INTP] Do men really like intelligent women?? I highly doubt that...

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    In several ways, *some* men tend to say that they are charmed by intelligent women. They might even be *turned on* by witty and genuinely smart women. But will those men think the same when they come face to face with a battle of wits, in which the woman has equal if not more 'weapons' than...
  8. NT Women: What do you think of NF men?

    NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects
    Inspired by a post I saw basically asking the exact opposite and I want to see the other side of the coin.
  9. [ENTP] How can you tell if an ENTP male likes you?

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    Hi, I know this question's been asked a bunch of times already but I still wanna give it a try based on the situation I'm in. I met this guy on a dating app, the first couple of weeks I noticed the amount of questions (some of which are strange and too personal) he's been asking me which I found...
  10. [ISTP] Men - When did you decide to stop being casual with women?

    ISTP Forum - The Mechanics
    Hey ISTP Guys, For those of you in your 20's who are either too busy or do not care to begin a serious long-term relationship, when do you think you will and what would it take? For the rest of you, at any age, when did you decide to date seriously and what did it take? Also, what is the type...
  11. Any men who have struggled with unwanted friendships?

    General Psychology
    Unwanted friendships have been a persistent irritant in my life. People who I don't really like (find annoying, or just not interesting, or whatever) decide they want to be friends with me, and since it's not really socially acceptable to outright reject someone as a friend (to even hint that...
  12. Men, How Much Do You Suppress Your Feelings?

    Member Polls
    Do you always suppress your feelings in front of other people or only sometimes? Or do you like to make your feelings explicitly known to everyone? Were you raised to suppress your feelings and if yes, do you think that has influenced the way you express your feelings? Do you think that the...
  13. Women cope better with being single than men?

    General Psychology
    Interesting post I wanted to share: The post is essentially saying that men don't cope as well because they want sex more. Meanwhile, women can use hobbies and activities (cooking, kids, etc.) to get their minds off being single. While it may be true in some cases, it all depends on the...
  14. Women, Men, and Facial Hair

    Sex and Relationships
    What are you? What is your facial hair status? How do you feel about your facial hair status? What do you find attractive about other people specifically on the subject of facial hair and why? I am Sexually a Man with no Non-Physical Gender. I have a fully grown natural beard. I like my...
  15. What makes a woman?

    General Psychology
    I was reading this article: And it was saying that there was such thing as a 'female' brain. Do you think it's true? A woman can't be defined as someone with female genitalia because what about the transgenders: the...
  16. Is it easier for men to live without women, or women to live without men?

    Sex and Relationships
    On average. Or is it equally difficult? Or do you have no idea like me? :p And what's your reason for your opinion?
  17. Blowjobs

    Sex and Relationships
    Do many women like to suck dick, as much as we like being sucked off by women, or is it purely the reaction of men that seems to turn women on about performing oral sex? I ask this, because I know a lot of women explain it as enjoying the power to make men react like that.
  18. Handy Men or Women? This Girl Needs Help With Robot!

    Science and Technology
    Hi! If I need to put this post in a better spot, please let me know. I am making robots out of found objects and need a bit of advice from ones 'in the know'. I bought a dremel tool to cut the metal objects into shapes I want. Ie. Fitting an old brownie camera as a "Head". My question is...
  19. On the Phone...Men Please Explain the Significance?

    Sex and Relationships
    If during a relatively short phone conversation between two new acquaintances, a man clears his throat several times (but when asked laughs and says no, he does not have a cold or sinus issue :) does this infer any mind/body connection? Nervousness, desire or anything else, in your male...
  20. ENFJ or ENFP guys!! I need your help!

    Myers Briggs Forum
    Ok so this is my first time posting on here so I hope I do it right - go easy on me! haha. Apologies in advance for how long winded it is, I just want to make sure I explain properly. I am an INFP female and I need some advice. I've kind of had this thing with a guy (don't know what to call...