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  1. [INTJ] Do insults, or failures, give you a renewed sense of clarity, & confidence?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Do insults, or failures, ever give you a renewed sense of clarity, & confidence? (Regardless of whether or not, you agree with them, or think they are fair) Do negative results, ever make you "feel good"? Does it make you resilient, like you want to defy that assumption, or...
  2. [INTP] An INTP in college | motivation problems | need help

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    An INTP in college | motivation problems | need help!!!! Hello everybody. I am 17 years old, male, and it's my first year in college. I was wondering if there is any advice to how to manage studies, especially that i didn't do very well in high school because of me being a very lazy intp. I am...
  3. an INTP in college | motivation problems | need help

    NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects
    Hello everybody. I am 17 years old, male, and it's my first year in college. I was wondering if there is any advice to how to manage studies, especially that i didn't do very well in high school because of me being a very lazy intp. I am smart, yes. But I can't help but change my interests, i...
  4. [INFP] INFP Antagonist Motivations

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hi Everyone, I'm currently writing a fantasy/sci-fi series and currently having trouble writing my INFP antagonist and his motivations. Ironically I am an INFP, yet I'm having a hard time establishing my antagonist's motivation because I don't know what would be a believable motivation for...
  5. [ENFJ] How to help my ENFJ boyfriend finding motivation

    ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    Dear ENFJs, I'm an ISTJ and I would really like to have a piece of advice from you: my ENFJ boyfriend asked me to help him find the right motivation to finish the last 6 months of his internship (he’s doing a 18 months internship at a law firm) and then the bar exam. I am still finishing my law...
  6. [ENFP] How to get through the boring parts? And looking for self-employed advice!

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Ideally, no part worth doing would be boring. But in reality, I find my passion towards the things I care about to wane very quickly. This is most prevalent in my writing life, and I do try to push through the lulls where it's become routine (get up at around this time every day, write this many...
  7. Changing Diapers Sucks

    I changed a diaper for the very first time the other day. I got the magical power to lose my appetite! ~~~ Anyway, I had my first official babysitting gig, and with my professor's kid. He's a toddler, and maybe he's close to a year old. (My professor is not a toddler, and he is 34 years...
  8. [INTP] Limitless Motivation

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Okay,I'm 18 and an INTP apparently , I mean I don't think I'm intelligent or even have the potential to be smart, maybe I find a liking to INTP so I lie to myself to match up to it and feel good I guess, I don't know. I don't think you can guess my MBTI but if you can go ahead love to hear you...
  9. [INFP] When are you most productive?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I'm just wondering how you get anything done as an Fi-dom. I don't know if it's different but whenever I feel strongly I just want to crawl up in bed and do nothing. So that got me wondering: what motivates INFPs? And also how productive do you typically feel (say, on a scale of 1-10), and in...
  10. Men are more motivated to become better after approaching women, even if it fails

    General Psychology
    When men put themselves in a vulnerable position like approaching women and introducing themselves hoping to get a date, they also become more motivated to become better and stronger, even if the introduction fails or they failed to get the date. Likewise, women possibly feel better and more...
  11. [INFP] Can any INFP relate to this?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hello everyone! I was feeling a little down recently and i was writing some lines about that. And I would be very interested if any INFPs can relate somehow to this and what you are doing if you find yourself in these type of situations: The constant yearning for…SOMETHING! can drain an INFP...
  12. [INFP] What motivates an INFP to take action?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hello everyone! This is my first post and English is not my native language, so please don't be to strict with me ;) Throughout my life I have always experienced a lack of motivation. I have a lot of ideas and i daydream a lot, but I always fail at the point where I would have to turn my...
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  14. [ENTJ] Even Cancer Can't Put Down an ENTJ's Spirit.

    ENTJ Forum - The Executives
    Hello ENTJs, It has taken me a long time to share this sacred memory with others. I truly commend the amazing ability to shine in your brightness in the face of adversity. Just to give you all a little background, I dated this great ENTJ Man for five years, not only was it one of the hardest...
  15. Question for Fellow INFPs (or Anyone)

    Advice Center
    (Feel free to answer even if you're not an INFP. I was just particularly interested how other INFPs might answer considering I suspect they may experience similar problems.) I'm particularly wondering how you guys motivate yourselves to get stuff done and if you had any advice. This...
  16. [ENFP] I don't want anything

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    (INFP) I don't want anything Greetings, my ENFP cousins. Here's something I posted on the INFP forum: I got some great answers over there, but I realize I've been remiss in failing to also seek the advice of those who have as major strength the very function that seems to have...
  17. [ISFP] What do you guys do to stay focused?

    ISFP Forum - The Artists
    Hi hello my ISFP buds!! I'm a third-year university student, who is being progressively hindered by my poor time management and inability to focus. When the pressure's on and submissions are quickly looming, that's enough to get me going, but I'm finding that alone is just not cutting it...
  18. [INTP] What music or quotes kept you alive?

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Post music or quotes that kept you alive.
  19. [ENTP] Productivity Guide For The Modern ENTP: The Missing Manual

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    Introduction Many of us have given in to powerful beliefs, such as, "These great ideas I have will never get going." or "I will follow through, but not today." Perhaps it is not really our fault. The discovery of personality type, something that at first delivers hope, later becomes easy to...