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  1. ENFJ Articles
    Hello fellow ENFJs, I need your opinions. I'm an INFP and I met an ENFJ on gaming community 3 years ago. We hit it off. He was super flirty. He showed interest in getting to know me from the start. He seemed very interested in me. He asked me for coffee. I said no. He kept hinting at how good...
  2. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hey hey, When I was younger I got into a car accident and I was at fault and refused to drive for a year and a half after. I was angry with myself and felt absolutely terrible and ashamed that I put someone else's life at stake. It wasn't even a serious wreck but I catastrophized it. About 5...
  3. Advice Center
    Do any of you struggle with moving on from certain events, or from certain toxic relationships? I've been driving myself crazy over a particular relationship that I can't seem to get over and would love advice. --- (Disclaimer: I generally don't hold grudges and tend to forgive others very...
  4. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hello everyone, this is my first time posting! I am looking for fellow INFJ advice on how to get out of this mindset I’m currently stuck in. For reasons out of my control, things didn’t work out with a guy I was getting to know. He is amazing in so many ways, and even though I know it has...
  5. Sex and Relationships
    Hello y'all, ENFP male here who recently got rejected after asking someone out. I met someone on the New Year, and I was really interested in her so I wanted to get to know her a lot better. I managed to get her phone number and eventually scored a date a few days later, and we got as far as...
  6. General Psychology
    Hi All! Its late at night and I can't sleep. I have a little issue that's bugging me... I've never really had a 'normal' mother-daughter relationship with my mother. She's always been very much protective of my brother and even my other family members notice the difference in how she treats me...
  7. Advice Center
    I need some advice. I've been going through some good changes in my life, but unfortunately, I feel like I'm starting to outgrow my circle of friends. I don't fit in with them anymore, and I don't know where I fit in. What should I do? Thank you. I'm just feeling really sad.
  8. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Hi guys! First of all, I have to admit that I'm from Czech Republic, so I am sorry for my English. :D I wanted to ask you all, how can you get over someone? I had this 2 years long crush on my best friend. We became friends because he wanted to date me first and our friendship was kinda...
  9. ISFP Forum - The Artists
    I'm a twenty year old ISFP college sophomore student, and I have been struggling with motivation and caring about school since last year, and I don't totally know why. Last year, I was really excited to be auditioning for vocal performance at my school, and I was rejected. Since then, I have...
  10. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    So I made one of the biggest mistakes ever: I fell in love with one of my best friends. He's an INTJ male and the most incredible guy I know. I didn't do anything about it for a long time because I didn't want to ruin the friendship, but my feelings got too strong for that. So I told him how I...
  11. Blog
    “What makes me cry?” Right now, I’m searching the internet for tips to help me find my creative voice and this question, which isn’t an easy answer for me as it might for others. I really can’t recollect in recent memory any moment I’ve sobbed into a pillow over the death of a loved one. I...
  12. Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    BPD, Break up, and Moving On Hello folks, I'm a 20 year old woman diagnosed with borderline personality disorder (BPD). In May this year, my ex-girlfriend broke up with me after more than a year of being together and 2 years of knowing each other. We are now best friends but I am not entirely...
  13. Sex and Relationships
    Poll included because polls are cool. Vote your relevant ease and again if you feel you can rebound, meaning you can transfer your emotions from a loss to a new romance, staying emotionally intact. Anyone else suffer from chronic attachment to lost love? It took me about 5 years just to open...
  14. Blog
    Last night I passed out around 11:30 and slept like a rock all night. I had slightly more of an appetite today. I am trying to go back to sticking to my pescatarian diet. I ran/walked again, although this time it was already dark when I went out. I couldn't see very well most places and got...
  15. Blog
    Today I got woken up by my cat at 4:45am :rolleyes:. I had a lot of trouble getting back to sleep. I kept hearing noises in the house and my mind kept going to places it shouldn't. I finally got back to sleep before my alarm went off. My plans for studying got so messed up over the weekend and...
  16. Blog
    All of the crazy stuff I'm feeling right now is all in my brain. I've been researching it and living it all at the same time. Last night (night of breakup) I barely got any sleep. I didn't fall asleep till almost 5 in the morning! I kept almost drifting off and then I would remember something...
  17. Blog
    I need to use this blog to vent and help me get over my recent breakup. I don't have much of a support system irl, so I am going to use this place to dump all of these thoughts and feelings so I can move on! Breakups are hard. Luckily so far this one hasn't been too awful, but I think that has...
  18. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    So this is my first serious post on this forum and I shouldn't be that surprised that it's about an old friend that I can't seem to let go of that is taking hold at the number one spot for my first post on here. Anyway, I've read time and time again that it is really difficult sometimes for...
  19. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I'm new here so please forgive me if this is the wrong area to post this. If so, please point me in the right direction, thank you! Anyway, I met this guy a year ago and fell for him pretty hard. When I met him he had just fallen out with his friends (a massive argument over an ex both of them...
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