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  1. [INFP] Exploration vs Stability

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hi everybody! I've been lurking here the past while, but this is my first post. As with so many of us, I thought I was an INFJ for quite a while, but lately I've come to see the light, and here I am. Anyway, I've got a dilemma, and am wondering if any of you are having/have had similar...
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  3. My Halloween Wish.....

    Hello Everyone, my name is Chris. :happy: I will be relocating very soon and want to make some new friends for social support during the transition - I'm an ENFJ and alone time FREAKS me out! A few weeks ago I dropped a penny in a fountain and made a wish - my wish was to meet nice, friendly...
  4. [ENFJ] Need Advice About Long Distance Relationship

    ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    So I am at a crossroads here and about to make a big life decision. I have been dating my INFJ guy for about four months now. We have similar core values, interests and more. We don't want a house in the suburbs. We both work in the medical field and want to make a positive difference in the...
  5. [Enneagram Type 4] You Super Nostalgic, Too?

    Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    AHHH I PRESSED THE BACK BUTTON & LOST THIS WHOLE THREAD!: So how many of you guys feel like you’re more nostalgic than most people you know? Because I reeally feel like this. I wonder if 4s have a tendency toward heightened nostalgia, since I’ve read that many 4s specifically feel nostalgic...
  6. [ENFJ] Resistance to Change

    ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    Do any of you fellow ENFJ's and any other personality profile have an especially difficult time with change. My own resistance is not because my habits are changed, but rather the people I am with change. I am about to move out of my apartment and I am extremely anxious. The last time the other...
  7. [INFP] Good towns for a musical INFP?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hello! I currently live on the east coast of Virginia, in the complete middle of nowhere. I have to drive at least an hour to see a good concert... and being an avid music lover and aspiring musician, this just doesn't work very well. I'm looking for somewhere to live that I'll actually enjoy...
  8. [INTJ] Do you Sing?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    I thought about this, so since we're not F, we are considered as "emotionless" so how the Hell could an INTJ sing? (other than in the shower or singing alone). Personally, I sing. I don't feel what other people describe while singing neither express that childbirth face. When it's high notes, I...
  9. [INFJ] Planning With P Types?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I'm currently planning a move to university with my INFP boyfriend. The ease with which he procrastinates drives me crazy sometimes! :bored: How do you guys deal with having to plan big things with P types?
  10. Did you move a lot as a Kid, and do you now have many or few Friends?

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    Lets see if being moved around when young has any correlation to how we make and keep friends. Please include MBTI if you would. I moved 13 times in 11 years as a kid, and had alchoholic parents, so tough making/keeping friends. I ended up having one main friend at a time, one in particular...
  11. Should I make a decision with my MIND or my HEART? PLEASE HELP!!!!

    Advice Center
    I am going to be moving sometime in the next 2 weeks. My plan was to move to an area of town where I feel like I have more of a community. I moved to this city just over a year ago for work and have yet to find a place where I feel home. (Finding companions through work has been a dead end)...
  12. Reality

    "Sometimes, it's much simpler to see things that aren't there than seeing things that are,"he said. "For instance, if something is there, you can only see it with your eyes open, but if it isn't there, you can see it just as well with your eyes closed. That's why imaginary things are often...
  13. [INTJ] Moving

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    So I'm moving to a new place with my family soon, but I feel really apprehensive about this because my family is having alot serious drama about it. I can't really vocalize this because I feel that I am now a pillar for someone, but how do you guys feel about moving? Or maybe just new settings...
  14. Moving for a romantic opportunity

    Sex and Relationships
    I've been wondering. How many of us would move for a chance of love? I don't mean JUST a scenario like, where you love somebody far away and want to move to go see them, no. I mean several things by this. I'll list the questions for you :) (By the way. Please, don't bother with the "it's not...
  15. Moving Tips: It's That Most Wonderful Time of the Year

    Moving can be horrible, stressful and life changing. Let's help others make it a more positive experience. Share your stories and tips!
  16. Moving Tips: It's That Most Wonderful Time of the Year

    Advice Center
    Well, it's summer, which is when most people move normally! On top of that we have new prospective university students packing up the car or the moving truck, couples moving in together the first time and others fleeing mothers who chase after your sex toys. Needless to say, it's time for us...
  17. [INFJ] Do you enjoy moving?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I'm moving interstate in about 3 weeks. I got a job in a larger city (Sydney) which I love. I plan to live there for maybe 2 years and then get another job back home. I love exploring and new things, which is why I'm taking on this adventure, and I'm moving to try to better my career and...
  18. [INFJ] Homesickness

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hi I've just moved away to University and this is my first time being away from home for a long period of time and I'm incredibly homesick. I knew I would be, but it's much worse then I expected. I've met quite a few people that are not homesick at all and I was wondering how other INFJs felt...
  19. [INFP] The Moving Situation

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Here's the situation: We live almost a thousand miles apart and want to live together as soon as possible. The original plan was for him to finish a semester early and move to my city. But he would need to find a job to last 8 months until he starts grad school next fall. Then we both move to...