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  1. Going to see a therapist for the first time ever. Kinda scared.

    General Psychology
    I've suffered from anxiety and depression for most if not all of my adult life. I always remember saying I wanted to see a therapist, hell I even have it written down in one of my old diaries from highschool. I don't know why I never bothered doing it. I was never well off, so I think I just...
  2. Type 5 Confession(s)

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  3. INFJ, 8w7 possible?

    What's my personality type?
    Hi I often feel like I have a contradictory soul. Pretty sure I'm Ni+Fe but not sure which order. Also my enneagram is 8w7. Any questions I can answer to help decipher myself?
  4. I am fully f***ed up

    Intro
    Sorry for the words, but I am really is and much more lately. I have been depressed ( a lot) for more than 9 months. I was depressed before it too from a long time I can't even remember the exact time. I have been on medication from 6 months, it helped me out and then I had an accident and after...
  5. [Enneagram Type 9] Emotional Self Defence

    Type 9 Forum - The Peacemaker
    As a 9; I have a tendency to try to make sure that everyone is in a good mood. I like to give people hugs, pay them meaningful compliments and try to keep a laid-back attitude. However I am terrible at dealing with people when they are angry. When others are angry, I automatically smile/ laugh...
  6. [Enneagram Type 7] Ca you predict the course of your passion?

    Type 7 Forum - The Enthusiast
    Hi! I'm not a 7 but have a stron 7wing and 7 in my tritype, so I blame my problem on that :P I've been really agitated lately and jump into new fascinations or hobbies frequently, and some enrich my life tbh, others are just a waste of time. I want to integrate and behave more like a 5 would...
  7. The tests give me ISTJ, but that's nothing like me...

    What's my personality type?
    I've taken quite a few different test for my type and they ALWAYS yield ISTJ, but reading about the type it clearly doesn't fit me, I even asked some friends and they agree but still didn't know what actually fit me. So after doing more research, ISFJ sounded like the next best thing but far...
  8. [INTP] Friends

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Hello, fellow INTPs. I was just wondering, do you ever just, I don't know, randomly start thinking about your friendships and start questioning your relationship with everyone, like, are you even really friends with your friends? How can you call your friends your friends? How can you tell a...
  9. [INTP] Help Me Please!

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    So, there is this girl that I find really fascinating and I want to be her friend. recently though, she's really been trying to push me away. ~she completely ignores what I say unless the people around her are acknowledging my existence and talking to me. ~she cuts me off when I try to join in...
  10. [ISFP] Confused by ISFP, please help!

    ISFP Forum - The Artists
    ENFP Boy Confused by ISFP Girl, please help! I'm sorry, I know there are already a ton of threads similar to this, but none of them relate to me as much as I would like.. There's this girl who I like A LOT and am sure is an ISFP due to how similar she is with their description (very artistic...
  11. "I Need Air" (Poem)

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    I want a tank of air to breathe So the blood can pump to and from the heart on my sleeve I'm so suffocated and scared They're yelling at me daily, and I'm hearing impaired I need a place of refuge, a sanctuary of bliss Protected from the deluge of their maddening hiss They're banging doors and...
  12. Expert needed! Xoxo

    What's my personality type?
    Hey guys, I am really confused... I have actually just heard of this personality categories and have done a couple of test etc. I have read up about it and stuff... Aaand I have fallen into ENFP... Almost all of it sounds like me except for being add/ADHD similar and being quite closed off about...
  13. Gender of the friend depends on the personality type....mixed with a bit of "help m

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    From a very young age I never had a problem with making friends. I did have a problem with keeping the females around though. Of course there were females who have been around for a while, but the number of long time friends leans closer to the guys team. It never really bothered me before, but...
  14. Trashy or Fascinating? Sexy or Trashy? Expressive, or Just a Regret? TATTOOS.

    NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    Since NFs are an expressive group, I'm wondering how many of you have tattoos. Or how many of you want one. If you have one, what is it? Why did you pick it? Do you find you are drawn to others with tattoos as well? What advice would you give someone considering one? I never really thought much...
  15. Interadesting...I can't figure out my type. Care to help?

    What's my personality type?
    0. Is there anything that may affect the way you answer the questions? For example, a stressful time, mental illness, medications, special life circumstances? Other useful information includes sex, age, and current state of mind. -I believe I have a fairly in-depth idea of how MBTI works and...
  16. Should I make a decision with my MIND or my HEART? PLEASE HELP!!!!

    Advice Center
    I am going to be moving sometime in the next 2 weeks. My plan was to move to an area of town where I feel like I have more of a community. I moved to this city just over a year ago for work and have yet to find a place where I feel home. (Finding companions through work has been a dead end)...
  17. Super Serious Guy Drama

    Intro
    My brother noticed I was super sad, he's really bad at talking with people so he suggested I make an account simply to lament my sadness about how crappy I'm treated by guys. Joy. I've never been the biggest fan of guys, being the youngest in a family of six children, four of those being old...
  18. My personality type mystery

    What's my personality type?
    Hello everyone, I've entered another period of questioning my type. I've been placed in about every type at some point and I would like to have some more opinions on my type. As a side note my mother is a probable ESFP, as is my sister. My dad however is an ISTJ. This is basically how I've...
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