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  1. [INTP] How to control your nervousness when speaking in forums

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Hi INTP fellow, I and maybe a lot of us in here have a trouble when we speak in front of many people. I try to made a peace with myself, tolerate it, and think that people should understand me. This is my nature. Meanwhile, sometimes I feel annoyed about this situation, especially when I speak...
  2. [ISFP] Awkward and uncomfortable first date/hangout!

    ISFP Forum - The Artists
    So I met this girl a couple years back, but we never talked after. I recently chatted her on facebook and turns out we have a lot in common. We started texting and decided to hang out. As soon as I picked her up I was so nervous to the point of anxiety. So pretty much almost the entire time I...
  3. Chatty Functions?

    Cognitive Functions
    Hi All, I wanted your opinion on which CF you feel is the 'chattiest' in your head? By 'Chatty,' I mean mental noise(thoughts, ideas, feeling, repeated song lyrics- anything really) that is loud, nagging, or distracting. Obviously whichever function this is for you is also helpful in...
  4. [INFP] Ever been told to speak up by other people?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I've been frequently told to do this by almost everyone. I am very soft-spoken and I find it hard to speak up when I'm under pressure, thinking of what to say, and very nervous. My voice becomes light and tense when I try to speak up in response to the statement. Do any INFPS or other...
  5. [ENFP] Fear

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Hi everyone. So I need some xNFP advice here. I have a fear of singing in front of people individually. Its kind of strange because I can dance, play instruments, speak and I've even thrown a fake tantrum in front of an audience once haha :laughing: .But I just cant get past the nervousness of...
  6. [INTJ] Do INTJ's Make Other People Nervous?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    I've never been much of a social butterfly, but, now that I'm in college, I'm making a concerted effort to get to know people. It's going well for the most part, but there are still exceptions. Specifically, some of my fellow students seem withdrawn when they're talking with me. In all...