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  1. Type 9 Forum - The Peacemaker
    Hello :) I've been doing stuff with the enneagram for some time now, but there's one thing I still can't understand of the Nine: the basic fear "of loss and separation; fragmentation". There's also another thing I believe is rather interconnected with this, the Nine's value seen in...
  2. Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    Anger and Conflicts in my childhood used to make me feel shaken up inside (hidden from them). What Enneatypes experiences this in their childhood. I am a 9w1. I have 8s in my family, so I wonder does that play a role on my being so timid on the inside. I just like exploring this topic.
  3. Type 9 Forum - The Peacemaker
    Hey, I am just curious to know does Nines like receiving nurture as much as they give nurture? I know Twos and Nines are the known as nurturing and merging types, so I am curious to know if they are attracted to each other in romantic relationships? Or as best friends? What is your take on this?
  4. Type 9 Forum - The Peacemaker
    I have a friend who may be a 9w8. I am wondering does he have a Sexual variant because he gets frustrated when he is single (hate being alone) and when he has a girlfriend...she becomes his whole world outside of work, especially with the 2w3 he is with now. I think he is merging or codependent...
  5. Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    What core type and wing(s) are you? Which of these conversations can you relate to most? What are your stacking? I wonder what variant(s) that enjoys discussions about religion, politics and sex without getting emotional about it? Topics SP (Self-Preservation) types might bring up in...
  6. Type 9 Forum - The Peacemaker
    I thought I could have been a Social Nine because I can be friendly, personable and engaging. I am a 9w1. (I am confirming that 9w1 is really my type as stated in my profile.) I have been told that I am a "Nester". I have always enjoyed a lot of alone time. I have been that way for most of my...
  7. Type 9 Forum - The Peacemaker
    I've heard it mentioned, and I've felt it myself. What is this calming effect that nines give off? Closed by op request.
  8. Type 9 Forum - The Peacemaker
    Hello, nines! That is a very important question for me and I would really like to know, do you feel comfortable at place where you live (country/city)? I myself live in Russia and I find it terribly annoying for nine to live here. It is totally 8 dominated country, not in the sense that...
  9. Type 5 Forum - The Investigator
    A detailed comparison and contrast between Fives and Nines is warranted because so many Nines mistakenly think that they are Fives; typically, the misidentification almost never happens the other way around. Particularly if they are well educated and intelligent, average male Nines tend to...
  10. Type 9 Forum - The Peacemaker
    Hi type nines! I'm really fascinated by you. As the crown of the enneagram, you seem to be the least noticeable of all. And that reminds me the theme from hundreds of books who tells us the story of an invisible hero/heroine :laughing: (figuratively invisible, that is) Now, after all of that...
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