online dating

Hei! one week ago I met a man on a dating app. We had a wonderful evening date and we met at his place after few days. The night was really beautiful. I slept over and all went on fine. We were supposed to meet up yesterday but he cancelled. Apparently he had a problem with the car as it got...

I have a dear INFJ friend named Christina who's an awesome, personable, stable, attractive woman craving an opportunity to date an ENFP man. She's on a number of online dating sites as she does not know any in person. Over the 5 months I've known her she has been repeatedly disappointed by ENFP...

I’ve been thinking about the labels we assign ourselves. This mainly stems from my feeble attempt at online dating and swiping through countless profiles I found to be unimaginative and forced. Spend enough time doing so and patterns emerge in how people define themselves. The same bios seem to...

I agree about the awkward, tiresome online dating or any other kind of "getting to know strangers" by having a blurb and photo: both chosen/frozen. In person, we can observe how the other responds to something unexpected such as a meal being delivered late or missing what was...

My family is always telling me that I'm way too picky and that's why I'm always single. I'm especially picky with personalities. If I'm bored with them by date 3 then I'm out. I use online dating and after awhile I started listing things on my profile of what I DON'T want in a guy. Is that...

1) Would you prefer to be pursued? Or do you like pursuing? As in, do you like seeking out or being sought after? Why? 2) Do you believe gender roles factor in? Ie. Men should pursue or women should pursue, and why? 3) Do you think being a pursuer/pursued says something about someone's appetite...

I'm sure at least a couple of PerC members have used/are using OkCupid (the dating website). Personally, I used it for 2 months and then deleted my profile because I found it really hard to find someone to connect with on an interpersonal level and be at least somewhat attracted to. Also...

We live in a world where beauty and youth is an absolute must in order to survive. The make-up and beauty industry is the cash cow for women who are in the need to keep their youth. In the process, I do notice over the year and a half that I am getting older and worry that I will not be able to...

hello, all! Well, I hunted around for some other threads on the topic but didn't seem to find any so here I am, posting a thread (ohh, i'm nervous) I think I've got two ENTJs on my hands (Eep!) - one is my dad, and one is this guy I've met online... So, I like this online guy and obviously I...

Hello INFJ ladies! (Sorry INFJ guys; maybe we can talk about rockets and cagefighting later?) I've been conversing with an INFJ female (2 years out of college with a decent, stereotypical INFJ-type job, 250 miles away) on a dating website for a couple of weeks now. We've discussed some pretty...

Hi there guys. New INFP here. I have a multi-part question for you ENFJs out there: how do you feel about online dating? are you idealist enough to entertain a relationship with someone who lives far away, if there's potential that person may move to your town for a job? would distance affect...

Let me start this off with a story. One of the bus drivers at my job apparently had been going on an online dating site(like OkCupid or match.com...one of those) And he'd been talking to this woman. They're both 57. He never saw her picture however but they'd talk over the phone and such. They...

** I'm 33. If you are under 18. Move along. I don't want no hassle about being too "mature" in my posts.** I actually started meeting people from the internet around January of this year. I selected three men to have a date with. I had heard that women most often have 3 men they date when they...

I’ve been single since early this year… and I don’t really have the time or inclination to go out and go bar hopping. First, I’m too old and tired to play games with people. Secondly, for some reason some guys find me intimidating. Thirdly, it’s much more difficult to weed through people that...