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  1. Blog
    I had this baby picked out, then when I named her, the breeder sent me photos because she was sure I was committed. This is Pieper at 20 days old. She is a Blue Berk (as I call it); technical name: Russian Blue Agouti Berkshire. We should have her home with us in about 10 days. Then...
  2. Blog
    If only I was a little older then I could do what I want... If only I could date... If only I could get out on my own and away from my parents... If only I had a job... If only I had a better job... If only I could get a promotion... If only I could find someone special to spend my life with...
  3. Generation Y Forum
    Fear is the most powerful driving force for change. As we as a generation are today responsible for the world we want to live in, it's interesting to figure out what are those fears so that we can put them behind us to push us, rather than keeping them unconsciously in front of us, stopping us...
  4. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    One of my friends is ENTJ and I am INFP. Our views on this matter in particular differ enormously. She believes that you kind of fall victim to society and to what is generally expected of you by people at a particular point in time. I'm more of the opinion that you can dream as wildly as you...
  5. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    So I've struggled since i was young, (about 12) (i'm now almost 17) with negative thinking and over thinking, and being really sensitive to stuff. Through out those years it has gotten worse-ish but for a while i was able to have this battling mindset of optimistic (logically optimistic and some...
  6. ISFP Forum - The Artists
    This thread is a focus on the ISFP/ENFP relationship type, a particularly difficult matching. However there is a key to success in any pairing type; love and understanding gets you through. Any advisory/strategic tips on how one might evade the doom of a supervisor relationship type would be...
  7. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    You have probably heard of the word 'introspection' before, and as an introvert probably thougth that it must be important to you. It seems the concept of 'introspection' however, is outdated and there is a whole new philosophy outrospection; the polar opposite of introspection. According to...
  8. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I never like 'fake, shallow, superficial made-up' kind of positivity/positive-thinking. But the thing is, I often see soo many people are doing this! for example, it's remarks & comments such as: "oh c'mon, BE POSITIVE!" , "quit complaining! it's NO use!" , "hey c'mon, everything's going to be...
  9. Blog
    The glass is . . . ? The NF / Idealists answer is . . . ? -----The glass is a divine lens funneling a benevolent gaze into an endless ocean, a suspended tempest, a swirling well, just like any other world in its infancy, and such gaze content after riding the sweeping waves, returns to the...
  10. Type 9 Forum - The Peacemaker
    Snippet from http://personalitycafe.com/type-9-forum-peacemaker/19062-type-nine-instinctive-triad.html (a really good description) I read this months ago, and I think it was one of the 'a-ha!' moments that just clicked for me and made me more certain I was a Nine. I tend to look on the bright...
  11. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    This thread is inspired by The Either/Or Game by kaptainblank. Which options do you prefer out of the following questions? Quality or Quantity? - Compassion or Justice? - Is or Should? - Altruism or Egoism? - Optimism or Pessimism? - Confidentiality or Honesty? - Oppressor or Oppressed? -...
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