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  1. Type my partner based on random discord texts he sent to me over the course of 3 years

    What's my personality type?
    Hey, so I've been wondering whether it's possible for some of you to get close (as in, obviously it is not going to be that accurate based on simple projections of text) to a person's type based on what they project themselves as in various text messages. Decided to try this out with my partner...
  2. How Do You Respond To Loved Ones Being Angry

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    Basically, how do you react when a loved one (family, mate, friend, etc.) is expressing their frustration and anger, not necessarily towards you, but rather on something you don't have any relevancy in the matter. I'm asking this because I'm extremely sensitive to my partner's mood and...
  3. [INFP] Relationship advice for INFP's in need!

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    So, just starting this. I have a major problem. I fell out of love with my boyfriend and I don't know what to do. It's not like anything was wrong. I just... don't feel it anymore. And I feel so bad. I fell for him really fast, and my heart fluttered for everything he did, but... omg I feel...
  4. Has your taste in partners changed over the years, if so how?

    Sex and Relationships
    Has the type of person you've been attracted to changed from adolescence to adulthood, or stayed the same? It can be personality and/or looks, etc... What has been consistent in your choice of partner? What has changed in your personal taste? Or for next time, what would you look for or...
  5. Women and hair?!

    Sex and Relationships
    "Click bait title, kinda" This thread is not limited to a sex, gender or MBTI. This thread is specifically about HEAD HAIR. (hairstyles?) Question 1 Do you even care about hair? Question 2 Do you rather one length over another? "I have often heard long hair is seen as more attractive"...
  6. [ENFP] Do ENFPs Prefer Introverted or Extraverted Partners?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    In a relationship, whether dating or in marriage, do ENFPs generally prefer their partner to be Introverts or Extroverts? (For example: an I or an E on the MBTI scale). ENFPs are said to be the most introverted of the extroverts, so I could see them getting exhausted when paired with an...
  7. [ENFP] Here's The Biggest Turn-on For ENFPs

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    So I was viewing different blog posts on ENFPs and came across this post: (Quote) Here's the biggest turn-on for ENFPs - Individuality. ENFPs love someone who shows a sense of individuality and independence. A person who has their own dreams and desires is going to be completely intriguing to...
  8. [ENFP] How Important Are Other's Physical Appearances (attractiveness) To ENFPs?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    How important is physical looks/appearances/attractiveness to ENFPs? I would assume there are more male ENFPs that place a greater important on physical appearance versus females. On a scale from 1 - 10 (10 being the most important attribute to see in a partner) rate how important are these...
  9. [ENFP] Friendship or Romantic Interest?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Do you ENFPs prefer ESFPs as friends or romantic partners?
  10. What People Want: be loved, a supportive partner, energetic, meaning, wellness

    General Psychology
    Erin Pavlina has thousands of clients around the world, and she can summarize what they all want with the following: Be loved for who we are, not what we can be Have a loving companion to share life with, and who can support us Want fulfilling and meaningful careers; feel like we matter and can...
  11. NF's: Which Type Are You Most Attracted To?

    NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    Yes, it's time for your one and only dose of romance for the day. I kid. I'm sure as romanticists of the MBTI your romance lives are rocketed daily with novels starring fictional heroins and the tragic heroic prince and the sugar plum fairy and the falling star all of which end in a marriage...
  12. NTs: Which MBTI Type Are You Most Attracted To?

    NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects
    Want to observe who is the fairest of them all in the eyes of the intuitive thinkers. Which category of people are your eye candy? Eeeh, lets pretend that wasn't forever published in a community forum-thread-article thingy. Anyway, so I made a thread a few months back about what type is most...
  13. [INFJ] A question for you about dual/balancing types... with a twist?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I've been gone from the forums for too long and I am not asleep still LOL This is bit random but it crossed my mind, wanted to see what others' could cook up from it... Curious. What we know: Say that two dual types come together (ex ESTP-INFJ, ISFP-ENTJ etc), they can either really feel...
  14. [INTJ] What do INTJs value in a romantic partner?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Curious about the general consensus.
  15. [INFJ] How do INFJs want to be cared for?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I'm in the midst of a breakup/re-relationship with an INTJ that doesn't always know how to best care for me. I'm curious, how do other INFJs feel like they are being cared for by their partners? I feel like my partner cares for me when they: - offer a space to listen to me wholeheartedly. -...
  16. [INFJ] What MBTI-Type do you prefer for a relationship? What things are important for you...

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Q1) What MBTI-Type do you prefer for a relationship? (love/marriage partner) Q2) What things are important for you in partners listed below? a) in a friend + MBTI-Type b) in a boy-/girlfriend + MBTI-Type c) love of life + MBTI-Type Q3) What MBTI-Type would you prefer your children to...
  17. [INTJ] Can you help me put a plan together to meet a partner?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    My dating experience includes (these are broad generalisations of course): xNFP: Suffocating, effeminate men who make me feel like the “man” in the relationship. (I have dated one ENFP guy for a year, who came out as gay shortly after I broke it off (because I thought he was gay)) xNTP: Take...
  18. How Do You Woo?

    NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects
    I want to know how you have wooed, are wooing, will woo, or would have wooed your ideal romantic partner or your real life romantic partner? Wooing and pursuing. How's it done, NT style? Walk me through your process (mental and concrete). I'm interested. Please do tell all.
  19. Atheists: What is your openness to ideology for a romantic partner?

    Sex and Relationships
    This is a written poll for Atheist Personality Cafe members and their comfort zone for a potential partner's ideology. No different than dating site preferences of a potential partner's political views. Please List Your: - Type - Gender - Age or Generation - Sexuality - Would you be willing...
  20. [INFJ] A Polyamorous INFJ?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I'm an iNFJ. I know that without a doubt in my mind and I don't think I need to prove that to anyone (though immediately I want to justify the above statement). Every article I've ever read on INFJ's in love is that they're strictly monogamous, fiercely devoted, etc. I am fiercely devoted, I...