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  1. [INFP] Relationship advice for INFP's in need!

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    So, just starting this. I have a major problem. I fell out of love with my boyfriend and I don't know what to do. It's not like anything was wrong. I just... don't feel it anymore. And I feel so bad. I fell for him really fast, and my heart fluttered for everything he did, but... omg I feel...
  2. Lessons learned from your worst relationships?

    Sex and Relationships
    Sooo, i had my fair share of relationships, even at a young age, my longest being 2 and a half years, I've been dating for around 5 years now and while i wish i could say, that every relationship is unique and uncomparable to each other (which they are to an extend) I can easily put them i'm an...
  3. 7w6 sp/so dating a 4w3 (I think!): hot mess! insights???

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    Hey everyone I'm new to the forum, and new to the enneagram. I took the MB a long time ago and have always been either IE/NFP, and my extraversion has dominated as I've gotten older, fairly substantially. I grew up in a horrifically dysfunctional home, passed around to different family members &...
  4. [ENFJ] ENFJs, What Do You Look For In A Partner/Relationship?

    ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    What kind of standards do you have for partners, and what kind of relationship/partnership would you say is your "ideal" one? :happy: In particular, would you say you're perfectionist, especially re: how kind/moral a partner is? I'm 20 going on 21 and I've never had a proper boyfriend, though...
  5. [INFJ] Do you create friends or enemies during group projects?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hi ! So I am new here and it took me forever to come up with a topic for my first post (possibly even more finding out how to). But I love this website and I'm excited to navigate through it and embark on this journey to discover myself. :) Since I know I'm talking to other INFJ's (super...
  6. Do you behave different when being with (around) a specific e-type?

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    Just for curiosity. For example, do you behave different when being around a 3(or any other number)? How different?
  7. [Enneagram Type 4] 4w5s, what kind of life partner would you like to have?

    Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    I have realised that this is a major problem in my life. Since my teens, at least, I have felt different. Thought differently, didn't socialise much. Was always the odd one out, who would be interested in art, spirituality, psychotherapy, philosophy sometimes. I always felt that I would like to...
  8. [INFJ] What personality type is your partner?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I was just curious to see what types INFJs are paired with. Maybe we'll even find a common answer amongst us all. My partner is an ESFP, we have tons of fun! We've been together since high school, going on 4 years now. I find it so funny that I'm posting this on Valentine's Day. Your turn!
  9. [ISTJ] ISTJ and INTJ - friends or enemies?

    ISTJ Forum - The Duty Fulfillers
    I've talked a lot about the INTJ girlfriend I have, but I'd like some other opinions on how/whether these two types get along - not just as partners, but also as friends. Do you think it's a sublime logical compatibility, or a sub-zero logical impasse? I'm aware that "any two types can get along...
  10. [ISFJ] Are ISFJs really that bad in relationships?

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    I keep reading all these things about people having difficulty keeping up a relationship with an ISFJ. I can somewhat understand their situations and reasons why their relationship didn't work out but it all makes it seem like ISFJs are inadequate partners because of their lack of communication...
  11. [INFJ] Do you have a burning desire to open up to people...???

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Do you often feel a burning need to be totally honest about certain deep-down parts of yourself with friends/family/significant-other? IMPORTANT NOTE: All joking aside I'm not an INFJ. I wrote this out in a text file and was ready to copy it over to the INTP forums (and it is still written as...
  12. Availability of Potential Partners based Demographics

    Sex and Relationships
    A relative of mine who is recently divorced and lives in a small town is having a hard time finding a new love. I've tried to explain that the pool of compatible people based on age, marital status, geographic area etc is very small and that they might consider widening the search - via maybe...
  13. [INFJ] Partners liking the things you hate about yourself.

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Mainly I am talking about physical things. like one of my ex's loved my beer gut, that I got during the first few years of college. and I hated it. but he liked it, and would touch it and stuff. and I would be kinda weirded out cause I wanted it gone. he said he would kill me if it went...
  14. [INTP] INTP Partners

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    INTP Partners For males. In theory, the following seem best (In order) ENFP INTP INFJ ENTJ INFP ENFJ Not really suitable: INTJ ENTP Not suitable at all ISTP ESFP ISFP ISTJ ISFJ ESFJ ESTJ ESTP Analysis: it is Idealists that are preferred, Rationals appreciated and Dictators...
  15. [INFJ] Men Top 5 - Things they like about Women - prospective or current partners

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Please List- Top 5 Qualities you like in Real women Top 5 Qualities you hate in Real women Top 5 Places to meet your Dream women Top 5 Qualities they would like to find in your Dream women Top 5 Physical Trait Requirements and/or preferences - Lets hear it: Eyes, Legs, TNA - Whatever I'm...
  16. Judging People By Their Partners

    Sex and Relationships
    I have a tendency to do this. I don't necessarily think it's right, but it happens. Especially women who date guys that are overly abrasive and display a visibly aggressive demeanor. Guys who can't afford a belt to hold their pants up, but have various ornaments hanging around their neck and...
  17. INFJ and ENFP.

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I'm just curious. Are there any Infjs here together with Enfps? What do you think of us as partners and friends? :proud: or what have your experiences been... I seem magically drawn to you guys... It's like automatic/natural somehow. Happens everytime for those I fall really Deeply for...
  18. ISFP great partners for ENTJ

    ENTJ Forum - The Executives
    :frustrating: So it is true i am a ENTJ this is my 5th test and the results still are the same. :laughing: Results - 41 Questions Hello People, I have a question i think we should discuss here. It is about ISFP, i have been speaking to an ISFP lady for a long while. I got to say they make a...
  19. Tips for Rationals with Non-Rational Partners

    Sex and Relationships
    I got this in the Kiersey newsletter and thought Id share for those who dont get it.. Love the One You're With: Tips for Rationals with Non-Rational Partners By Dr. Lovegood "Our relationship would be so much better if only she was more like me..." How many times have you heard this sad lament...