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  1. Hi from KatRubie, an ISTJ and 1w2

    I just joined today. I am here to learn more about myself, how to improve myself (lol! This sounds absolutely hilarious coming from a perfectionist!), and to improve my lot in life. Though I am 1w2 more often, I tend to jump back and forth between the 9 and 2 wings pretty regularly depending on...
  2. I think i have been mistyped due to my mental illnesses, please help me find my type!

    What's my Enneagram type?
    I have been typed as 135 (tritype), but i'm not sure if i really am type 1, because i think i might have just got that type because am i sooooo much of a perfectionist, enough that it is a leading cause of my anxiety, depression and chronic stress. I wasnt sure what questionnaire to take, so i...
  3. Visual DNA Test Results wLink - Dec 2016

    You're the Olympian (A methodical achiever) Your methodical approach takes you further, faster, higher. Openness 96% Conscientious 54% Extraversion 31%...
  4. Why, Whatever Could I Be?

    What's my personality type?
    Bonjour, tout le monde. Let me preface this by saying that I am glad to have found this website and look forward to constant usage in the future. Now, I've taken multiple versions of the MBTI and have come away somewhat confused. Sometimes I type as INFP, other times as INFJ, and sometimes as...
  5. She's a Mess - Translating J vs P

    The question was asked, "One area of friction between Js and Ps can be neatness/ order in the household. Have you an your husband found this to be an issue? If so, could you please share any hints/ tips of how ENFPs can diminish the friction with their J partners, in this realm?" It's difficult...
  6. [INFJ] Perfectionism

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Is there anyone here who is, or once was, a perfectionist? I've noticed I exhibit the classic signs of it; failure to enjoy successes due to focusing on the small parts that were incorrect, procrastinating on and on because I know, if I try, I'll make a mistake and thus, I'll get hung up on...
  7. [Enneagram Type 5] Depression and College. Do very well at first but reclusive and pathetic at end?

    Type 5 Forum - The Investigator
    Hi, I'm a 5w4. I have severe depression... I have recently started to go to a counselor and psychiatrist about it, though. I'm wondering: Has anyone else has experienced depression while in college? How did/do you cope? I am a Biochemistry and Molecular Biology major. I like science and want...
  8. My ESFP cousin gets on my nerves!!!

    SP's Temperament Forum- The Creators
    I'm an INFJ and my cousin two years younger than me is an ESFP. She is almost ALL of my pet peeves. I'm a perfectionist and I get straight A's in school. I focus on the future. I always tell people that I'm not just going to school to just go to school. I'm going to school to give myself...
  9. Seriously what's my type?

    What's my personality type?
    I need some advice on what my type is. I had an idea but now I'm not sure. Here's some stuff about me: ............ I dress pretty wild--the crazier the better. I tend to dress how I want and hate it when anyone tries to change me. I tend to take things to the extreme. I'm creative--love...
  10. Introverted Sensing (Si) and Attention to Details

    Cognitive Functions
    Attention to details is the ability to see things critically from an objective point of view. People who have high attention to details are often described as being a ‘Perfectionist’. Attention to detail is the inherent characteristics of a strong degree of Introverted Sensing (Si). The more...
  11. [Enneagram Type 1] Enneagram Type 1: Perfectionist (video)

    Type 1 Forum - The Reformer
    Finally released discussion about type 1, after a very long wait. Enjoy!
  12. [Enneagram Type 9] Describe your "dreaming" 9w1s

    Type 9 Forum - The Peacemaker
    Hello! I'm a 1w9, and having small doubts again on my 1w9. I've noticed how strong my 9 wing is, Though I'm always coming back to my stronger 1 sides. 9w1s are also called "Dreamers" while 1w9s are called "Idealists". This is usually nails it for me, though I'm getting unsure when I hear 9s...
  13. [INFP] What's all this I hear about INFPs being perfectionists

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Any description you read about INFPs, it says that they are perfectionists. I'm not! I have zero determination and I'll be procrastinating forever. I have no will power. I'm just really careless about things and I also am lacking a work ethic. I mean yes yes I have huge, unrealistic dreams...