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  1. A Young Romantic - INFP

    How can I express the amount of hopelessness that permeates around me? Every day, I have to watch and listen to people needlessly suffering from things that have little to no lasting value. Perhaps it is presumptuous of me to project my values upon others, but it has become increasingly...
  2. I'm New! Pick At My Brain (INFJ, 4w3)

    Hey everyone, So I'm apparently meant to introduce myself. I've known I'm an INFJ for many years now, and have generally always been quite certain of it. I understand and can relate to INFPs but I must conclude that INFJ is very prominent for me. I'm an enneagram type 4, and it's a freaking...
  3. How are you today?

    Books to read for anyone interested: Was That Really Me? by Naomi L. Quenk and Neurosis and Human Growth by Karen Horney.
  4. [INFJ] Will this INFJ Male ever speak to me again?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hey all, So let me start off by giving you all some context. I am a 26-year-old female ENFP who was recently in a Friends with Benefits relationship with an INFJ male (I'm pretty certain he's an INFJ) who is just shy of 19 years old. We were coworkers. We became friends rather quickly due to...
  5. What's my type? Based on my intro description and writing style

    What's my personality type?
    What's my type? Based on my description INFJ? INFTJ? INFP?? Hi everyone , most of the "intro" and what I want to say can probably be found in the "intro" :laughing: Anyways, I anticipated it to be a short intro but it turned out to be quite a comprehensive description of myself. I decided to...
  6. What do y'all think of Spam World?

    SJ's Temperament Forum- The Overseers
    I mean, SJs stereotypically hate things that are WAY apart from conventions, but i want to know what you guys REALLY think, not what your types STEREOTYPICALLY think. Spam World is definitely an unconventional idea. But also a practical one, in my POV - that way, it's less likely for people to...
  7. The Pink Crayon (Re-Uploaded)

  8. Who are we supposed to like?

    How do you keep up with who your supposed to like? Does it ever feel like you'd be banished from certain groups of "friends" if you didn't go along with the same opinion as the group... or just certain people? President Obama is a great example of this type of "must hate" or "must love"...
  9. [INFP] Candid INFP talk about conflict anyone?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    It's been a problem I keep avoiding but it seems that INFPs (or at least me) don't really understand what they're aiming for when in a conflict, which obviously makes conflict resolution almost impossible and then makes them want to avoid conflict in the future. Let's once and for all get our...
  10. [INTJ] New to Personality Cafe 'Introduction to the community'

    Hello community of PersonalityCafe. I just joined. I am currently in high school in my gr. 12 year. Yes, I am a INTJ (as it says in title and maybe somewhere else?). I will answer any questions about me if you guys have any, relating to my personality, how I see things, and how it interlocks...
  11. Warrior/Scholar Dichotomy

    Member Polls
    It is often said that most people can view themselves as either a scholar, a warrior, or both. While the concept of a "scholarly warrior" is praised in some cultures while mocked in others, this poll is more about personal perception than cultural beliefs. Which of these three types do you see...
  12. [ENTP] The ENTP perspective of the INFJ

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    Hello ENTP's! I came to your part of the woods to try to gain some insight into how your type see us INFJ's. I have several ENTP friends that revolve in different social circles, and I've noticed a pattern in my relationships with them. Now I'll give my perspective of how I have seen ENTP's in...
  13. Unique Theory? What do you think about this?

    Socionics Forum
    Ok. So I've recently discovered this video, and it definitely caught my interest. I'm not well-versed enough in Socionics yet to really feel comfortable judging the accuracy of what he is saying, but what are your guys' opinions on this? There's probably a good chance most from this...
  14. [Enneagram Type 4] What is Blocking a 4's Path to Self-Love

    Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    I've been currently reading about "Involution" which seems to be the growth of your inner self. It is mentioned that there are seven basic steps from self awareness to self mastery one of which is Self Love. I've noticed that I've only gotten over that hurdle once and it wasn't a conscious...
  15. Writing perspective

    NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    Hey guys! :) I'd like to start my post with a disclaimer: I just started thinking about the subject of writing perspectives this morning (at least in this context) as I noticed that my writing style at work has changed a bit (but the subject far surpasses just work). I would say that it's been...
  16. Your experience of Te?

    Cognitive Functions
    In the Beebe model, Te would be my "Trickster" function, and I find that it really does play that role in my life. I know that my experience of it isn't necessarily universal or accurate, and is filtered by my own psychology. Still, I experience it in the following way: It feels to me like Te...
  17. [INTJ] Loss of Time and Place

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Recently, I've been examining my perception of time and the difficulties associated with an inherent, loose grip on reality. As I can only use personal experiences to a limited degree -- or run the risk of user bias obscuring palpable results -- I want to ask the INTJ community its opinion on...
  18. [INTJ] Do you see the glass as half empty or half full?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Do you see the glass as half empty or half full? INTJs can answer this about themselves or if you know an INTJ, then answer it about them.
  19. [INTP] Since I Found MBTI..

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    What sorts of new ideas or life situations have come about that probably wouldn't have otherwise for you?
  20. [INTP] What is Truth?

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    What does "truth" mean to you? Discuss in whatever framework you like: relatively objective, philosophical, subjective or as devil's advocate.