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  1. [INTP] Social Praise and Awkwardness

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    I just received my final grades for the Spring 2018 Semester. Unsurprisingly, they are all quite well. The typical thing to do is show my family, because they are going to ask anyway. It is hard to feel proud though. I just do the work and the numerical feedback is spit out a few days later. I...
  2. [INFP] Are You Prideful And Prejudiced Against The SJs?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I am not prideful and prejudiced when it comes to the SJs, the Guardians, the Protectors, or what ever you want to call them. Really I'm not. They have so many valuable qualities. They have logistical extraordinaire, are safety experts, gurus of social acceptability, and many other things. Its...
  3. Pride (is bad) and Prejudice (against ESFJs is worse)

    Yes, i know a lot of types get the bias, the attacks, the whatever. But seriously, those people need to know to judge people, not types. Because i am ESFJ and i know this type better than other types, i'm speaking for us. Look at the title, and think about the book - Pride and Prejudice. Pride...
  4. [Enneagram Type 3] One Versus Three

    Type 3 Forum - The Achiever
    Through self-reflection, I've known for a long time that both One and Three are in my tritype. Though my One side definitely appears to have the greatest influence on my personality, my Three-like characteristics are incredibly powerful, almost too powerful to relegate it to a secondary fix...
  5. [INTJ] Low self esteem...high unhealthy pride

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Hello everyone, Quick question, Can someone understand or explain how is it possible to have literally "hubris" yet no self confidence o.O Thank you, Obscure
  6. [INFJ] Underdog...?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Okay, so i am curious if anyone else has this issue and whether or not its common.. So, i was sitting and thinking a few minutes ago, then I suddenly just felt an ounce of pain hit my heart..I feel like i've always been underestimated, since early childhood years of course..and whenever i break...
  7. [INTP] My Deluded Pride? My place in the world? Utilitarianism? Help me out please

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Hey guys I really need your help. University is starting in a couple of weeks and Im unsure of what to study. I have taken a few personality tests and they tell me I am an INTP and ISTP, initially the test gave me the type INTP but as I kept doing it evaluating my choices and doing it again...
  8. [Enneagram Type 4] Relationship breakdowns... Resolving a Deep Type 4 Wound...

    Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    RESOLVING A DEEP WOUND - (Relationship breakdowns and the Enneagram)... When I was around 18-19 a song called 'Tell Me' by Groove Theory was released, and I immediately fell in love with it. There was a particular line that so imbued my soul that I decided then that my true soulmate would...
  9. [INFP] Deadliest Sin : Sloth or Pride? (Perfectionism + Idealism = Lack of Motivation?)

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I think out of all of the Deadliest Sins, my greatest challenge is Sloth with it's parent, Pride, as a close second. More specifically, I think this can also apply to a fair few INFPs out there... of course, there are individual differences, but I'm interested in other people's opinions and...
  10. The Grey Area Between The Truth And The Lie

    There are people in the world, they are obsessed. Their minds told them, their obsession is the absolute truth. And they make it sound like other people's opinions are deviant, wrong, sick and twisted to the core. And I couldn't understand it. I can't 'brain' it. We live like we know everything...
  11. [INTP] Self Esteem, Pride and Self Confidence

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    How do you think these concepts relate to you? Do people seem to think you have low self esteem because you question everything so much? Do you perceive this as actual low self esteem, or do you think it's something else? Do you think you're hard on yourself?
  12. [INTP] American Pride

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    When I think of the US as a whole, without thinking of the smaller details, I think of: Love of freedom and free speech Music Movies Sports Guns and War Economy Crime Health Care Pride Being outwardly expressive of opinions Where do you think the deep sense of pride comes from? Is it from...
  13. [INFJ] INFJ's and Pride

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    So I was doing some thinking and self-evaluation. I discovered I am very prideful. I am curious whether other INFJ's are also or it is an acquired quality. Also what are other INFJ thoughts on pride itself. Any responses would be very helpful!!
  14. [INTP] What Makes You Awesome?

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    What makes you awesome? Not just a self-esteem/ego boosting thread, but also to find what INTPs take pride in.