pushing people away

Hi All, I have recently discovered that I am an INFJ. When I read up on my personality everything clicked into place and I feel a lot more at ease with myself. However, there is one thing that is bugging me. So, yes I have an in-built knack for 'cracking' people. I can see straight into their...

There is this issue I'm not getting over. I used to date an ESFJ till about a year ago. We got along very well, had a lot of common interests, had a great time talking to each other, and above this we enjoyed a fantastic sex life. But he had a hard time committing to the relationship, and went...

I am a 7w8 and spent 3 months dating a 4w3/so recently. This guy seems to me to be extremely unbalanced but as he is a 4 and the first of their kind that I have ever dated, I am not sure as to how much of this is down to 4-ness or regular emotional turmoil. When we first met, he knocked me over...

I've liked an INTJ for quite a while now, and we've become really great friends. I can't help but feel like we'd be so compatible for each other. We have similar interests, similar music tastes, similar everything. I've been 89% sure he likes me too, and lately we've been noticeably closer than...