regret

Do you ever have the tendency to not know that you're feeling deep feelings for someone until you've inadvertently hurt them by saying there wasn't a connection (when there was. we talked every day and had been physical after a revelation of feelings), there was an emotional ending to your...

When I was a senior in high school, I was so lazy that I only applied to a few small private denominational colleges where the applications were overly simplified. There were no essays and you didn't need high scores to get into them. I literally had to fill out one application, which allowed me...

It is said that INTPs can tear someone to shreds with words. Knowing this, whenever I feel like ripping someone's heart out with words, I refrain, choosing instead to communicate something that may assist with their future development. It still may be mildly hurtful, but the intent is...

Since NFs are an expressive group, I'm wondering how many of you have tattoos. Or how many of you want one. If you have one, what is it? Why did you pick it? Do you find you are drawn to others with tattoos as well? What advice would you give someone considering one? I never really thought much...

About a month and a half ago I stopped seeing an IN?J girl (she's pretty evenly balanced on the T/F, might be slightly F leaning though, I'm not sure). I was the one who broke it off with her, but I'm having second thoughts about that decision. It was a long-distance thing (not across the...

Recently I've been thinking a lot about my last relationship. I would rather put it behind me, but it's been looming in the back of my mind for a while. I went to him when I was in a weakened state because I thought he would support me. He used me. At the time I couldn't even admit it; how could...

I came to a conclusion in my early twenties that to regret something in the past that cannot be changed was useless and took up the choice to never regret things that cannot be changed. Change what you can, make amends for mistakes as best you can. But release regret. Regret can cripple with...