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  1. [INTJ] What Happens When An INTJ Stops Caring??

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    What Happens When An INTJ Stops Caring? What do you do? me: 1. As simple as turning off a light switch and leaving the room. The part of an INTJ that matters is simply gone. 2. When an INTJ stops caring, then an INTJ stops trusting. Or Vs Vs. Then. . . #1. 3. When an INTJ stops caring...
  2. [ENTP] Do ENTPs Fear Rejection?

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    Hello ENTPs! Quick question for you guys (guys specifically). As ENTPs, is there a trend or pattern of behavior for when you like a girl, but aren't sure if she likes you back? Do you play it safe for fear of rejection? Maybe for some other reason? Is that a thing for you guys? Are you guys...
  3. [INFJ] Letting Go of an Almost Relationship

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hello everyone, this is my first time posting! I am looking for fellow INFJ advice on how to get out of this mindset I’m currently stuck in. For reasons out of my control, things didn’t work out with a guy I was getting to know. He is amazing in so many ways, and even though I know it has...
  4. Rejection to an INTJ

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    As an INTJ, the idea of “failure” feels distant. Quite often, the two options going into any situation are, as Yoda states, “Do or do not, there is no try”. As a 17-year-old INTJ, having already written a novel, holding a professional degree in mechanical design, a CAD position at a machining...
  5. [ISFJ] Any tips on dealing with rejection?

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    Hello, A male INFP rejected me and I could use some advice on how to get over it. To give you some background information, I had a huge crush on my best friend for several years. He and I would always spend time together and we talked on the phone almost every night for years. He hugged me a...
  6. How Do You Cope With Rejection?

    Sex and Relationships
    I'm not saying that I'm currently in that boat, but I've been there many times before. In the past, It has been so easy for me to slip into a state of depression as soon anything happened that made me feel unwanted or rejected. and sometimes, even just the fear of rejection is enough to send me...
  7. Relationship Advice??

    Sex and Relationships
    Hello PCafe Family!! :) I have had some relationship drama for the past 6 months, which has been the majority of my college year... so I turn to my fellow Personality Theorists who will understand! I am an INFP, who from others peoples points of view, seems to be and ENFP! I am very social, go...
  8. [INTJ] How do INTJs get over heartbreaks?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    I recently met an INTJ who never got closure when his girlfriend dumped him. He says that it doesn't affect him at all anymore. However, a few days after he told me about it, he told me that he couldn't understand why she didn't love him when her family did. I'm used to understanding how a...
  9. [INFP] I rejected someone and all my classmates know.

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I have an acquaintance. He thought of me as a potential romantic partner. I think of him as just a friend. Our values are too different :frustrating:. Other people would be surprised that we even talked to one another. This week, he asked me to homecoming (a school dance) as a date not as a...
  10. [INFJ] INFJ - Does anyone experience social rejection after putting yourself out there

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hello INFJ community. First time inquiry here. I am wondering if anyone else has experienced the brush off as a pattern with others after you put yourself out there. I don't mean this in a romantic way. I mean females with other females, or males with other males. I find it hard to put myself...
  11. [ENFJ] Dealing with Rejection/Disappointment

    ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    Hello friends, I wanted to get a discussion going about the ways you deal with disappointment and/or rejection. As people people, sometimes we have to put our own needs and desires on hold in order to mesh with the rest of the group. So, I would like to hear personal stories of times where you...
  12. Helping Someone

    Myers Briggs Forum
    So, I used to be best friends with a guy. We talked everyday. I kind of knew that he liked me, but i tried to brush it off and ignore it. Whenever he likes someone, he becomes obsessed with them. When he gets rejected, he becomes insanely self-destructive. I can't tell whether he's trying to...
  13. [Enneagram Type 4] Pessimist Venting (Hugs Needed)

    Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    I've gone through a period where I gained a lot of self confidence and initiative and ever since then I found no problems letting out my 4ishness. But the world is kind of stepping on it a little bit and I'm having troubles with my core fears. When I like a person (romantic or not) I go in head...
  14. [INFP] Concrete tactics to deal with Rejection (and commiseration)

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hey guys. I've recently gone through a bad patch with a girl I'd liked for a very long time (5 years) and I find myself slipping into a familiar unhealthy state of mind. On the few occasions I've been heavily invested in someone and they didn't reciprocate, my initial reaction is an implosion...
  15. [INFP] Trying to be more social

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Well, I'm gonna start by saying, I've always found it difficult to make friends. I feel like there is a mental block when I try to make a friend, so I give up. This whole year I haven't made much of a friend since I've started at my new school. I got tired of being lonely, and decided to change...
  16. Anxiety/depression + teenager => I'm a mess => help

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    Hi! I'm 16 and this is the 100000th time I write this line because the page would refresh whenever I go look up sth. :D School I'm in high school atm, will begin 11th grade this autumn, Maths Informatics. Which doesn't suit me much. Maths was never my thing, although I got good at it because of...
  17. [INTP] INTPs- I don't get it.

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Okay so me and this INTP are in a weird sort of relationship kind of .... thing... right now (not official) I read on a forum that INTPs are scared of both rejection and commitment. Here is my dilemma: I often take steps, to make him feel "safe" so he can "choose" us... steps to ensure him...
  18. [INFJ] confusion over infj reaction

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Dear helpful friends, I have been very fond of a very kind INFJ for over a year. He regularly joins in on our (my housemate and my) monthly games nights. This summer he helped me move a piano. More recently I helped him move house. Even more recently I lent him my car because he had left his...
  19. My benefactor (ISTJ) rejected me (INTP)

    Sex and Relationships
    Help anyone? I'm an 18 yo (mostly INTP with some ISTP) who fell in love with an online guy (mostly ISTJ) I don't know how to get over this :'( And I HAVE TO soon because I have exams Monday and projects due the same week I wrote a passionate poem and explanation about how much I loved him...
  20. 30 days of silence. Stressed and hurt.

    Sex and Relationships
    I have started my 30 days without (name removed) today. I have so much pain in my entire body. The reasons for this is the terrible grief i'm experiencing from this loss in my life. I'm afraid of how miserable this is going to be. It is going to take a heavy toll on my mind and body...
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