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  1. [ENTJ] How to approach an ENTJ and not make it awkward?

    ENTJ Forum - The Executives
    So it's a weird situation and I'm probably over thinking it, but I want to know what actual ENTJs think. I'm an INTP female and in my high school class there is this one guy. I asked him once for help with something through messenger and after that, I asked him to take the test because he seemed...
  2. Personal view on love and life together

    I had a lot of pent up thoughts about my specific beliefs in love and how life works and I thought I might post them here. It's extremely long just to warn you, I'm actually going to have to post all of it through the comments, but dont feel inclined to read it all xD This is just how I view the...
  3. [INFP] Emotional Relationship problem

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hey guys, especially towards my fellow INFP's I need to get some feelings and thoughts off my chest that I really don't know how to cope with at the moment. So I have recently started dating a guy (ENFP) that I quickly and deeply fell in love with. Probably too quickly. He was the one who told...
  4. [INFJ] He needs too much "alone time"?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hi guys, well, probably this isn't much about INFJs in general but anyways... I have an INFJ boyfriend, we've been together since a year ago. I'm 23 and he's 25. Everything's going good at first. We're both INFJs and we see a lot of similarities between ourselves, including us being...
  5. [INFJ] ENFJ love

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    So there is this guy I really like, who is an ENFJ. The fact is I'm in love with him. Sometimes I think he likes me, other times I think he wants me to think he likes me, and other times I think he is just patronizing me. Our relationship is a friendship that consists of a ton of banter, and...
  6. [INFJ] About to divorce from my ENTP husband, any advice or comments welcome!

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    So here is the story; we have been married for five years now, living together for seven years and we have à six year old daughter. Our relationship has always been a bumpy ride, but things are coming to a crazy head now. He feels that I neglect him, while I feel that I have given up...
  7. Someone who shares you bad traits; how to deal with them?

    General Psychology
    Recently I've found out that people who share my own faults are those who confuse me and upset me the most. I tend to be extra-understanding with them because I know how it feels like to endure the negative feedback of that particular mistake you don't know you constantly do. But then my...
  8. [ENFP] Why did my ENFP boyfriend break it off?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I know there's a lot here. But thank you for your insight into the ENFP mind.
  9. [INFJ] Has Anyone Been in a Relationship with an ISTP?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I'm curious as to whether an INFJ has dated an ISTP before and whether anyone can impart any kind of wisdom on this pretty cool personality type? As an INFJ myself, I've been seeing an ISTP male for about two weeks now. We met online and talked for a few days and decided to meet up. And the...
  10. [ISFJ] Approaching an ISFJ Girl

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    What will an ISFJ girl do if a person if being 'too friendly'? i.e. OH SHIT THEY FOUND SHE FOUND OUT!!! ALL CREW PRECEDE TO THE GASSING CHAMBERS!!! For context, I've been talking to her daily after our lectures for 2 weeks. It started when she missed a day and asked me to lend her my book for...
  11. [INFP] INFP and ENTJ? Any experiences?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I'm new here and this is actually my first post :happy: But I've been learning about MBTI for the past six or so months pretty in depth, and I think I've got a fairly good grasp on a lot of it. My question for the other INFPs out there, is do any of you have experiences with ENTJs? What was...
  12. [ESFP] Being Friend-zoned by an ESFP

    ESFP Forum - The Performers
    I'm an ENFP and I have been dating an ESFP guy for over 4 months now and we have great chemistry. we share the same interests, never run out of things to talk about, we always have fun together and we're both so spontaneous and just being around him makes me so happy and it's like i have...
  13. How do you deal with rejection ?

    NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    I don't normally do this but I have been feeling down since last night. I don't know how to retreat to a "fantasy" world and probably should not anyway, but an issue has been bugging me since a while and it keeps recurring to me like a recurring sort of nightmare. I have been in a...
  14. Opening up as an INFJ

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hi everybody, I'm an INFJ male (like one of ten on Earth), and this is my first post so I hope I'm putting this in the right place! I'm wondering how other INFJs open up at the start of a new relationship
  15. [INFP] just a general wondering.........

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    alright, so in my past encounters of seeminglessly endless heartbreak and accounts of being led on, i reached a point where i said, fuck it! i just wanna make some good friends with some chicks and that'll be awesome. then as I'm making friends with this one girl, after hanging out with mutual...
  16. question too complicated (messy feelings, advice, trust in unconscious, relationship)

    General Psychology
    Hello! Feel free to redirect me to another forum, I don't know if this is the right one. Do you know when you are watching a movie/series and there's a psychologist who ask an ambiguous question/says an ambiguous statement and the patient answer it with a "self advice"(he thinks the psychologist...
  17. Definitive Guide to ENFP/ISTP Dynamic

    Myers Briggs Forum
    As one of the many ENFP's helplessly intrigued/baffled by an ISTP, I've been trying to read up as much as possible on the subject (blame the Si). I've read a lot of threads that give me pieces of the puzzle (and quite a few of the pieces are still missing), but what I want to compile here is the...
  18. [ESTJ] What do ESTJ men think about INTJ women?

    ESTJ Forum - The Guardians
    I am an intj women and I tend to be attracted estj men. I was wondering about what most estj men think about intj females.
  19. [ENFJ] Any other ENFJ+ENTJ couples out there?

    ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    I am an ENFJ (f) and my boyfriend is an ENTJ. I feel like what we have is incredibly unique, we share a bond that is undeniably strong, we get each other on a level that surpasses words. We just feel powerful together, ready to take on the world. Of course we have our fights, that often stem...
  20. [ISFP] How would ISFPs like the following situation handled?

    ISFP Forum - The Artists
    Let us assume the following real situation. You are an ISFP who has scheduled herself for a 10km run with a male friend. You have two young children(10 and below) and a partner. It is unclear to your partner whether you just like to run, want to have quality time with your friend and are willing...