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  1. [ESFP] How important are looks for an ESFP in a romantic relationship?

    ESFP Forum - The Performers
    On a scale from 1 (least important) to 10 (most important), how important are looks for an ESFP in a romantic relationship? specifically for ESFP women, how important are man's looks in a romantic relationship?
  2. [Enneagram Type 9] What do you really want in a relationship?

    Type 9 Forum - The Peacemaker
    I did this a while back as an exercise. The idea is to clearly spell out how you want to be treated in relationship, regardless of whether you think you deserve it or if you think you're asking for too much. As a 9, I know I have a problem with not wanting to be demanding, and I will sometimes...
  3. [INTJ] Staying in a relationship?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    I am beginning to wonder if it's really possible/feasible for an INTJ to stay in a long term relationship. Early last year I went through a divorce - I don't know what his personality type was, but it definitely had WAAAY too much emotion for my INTJ to handle... and his alcoholism sent me...
  4. [INTP] Are INTP's the perfect type to maintain a long distance relationship?

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    considering our fairly minimalistic needs, or would our imagination get the better of us (i.e. we would get paranoid the other was cheating or something)? Of course I am just generalizing that all INTP's don't have many needs by the way.
  5. Can Wal-Mart Make or Break A relationship?

    Sex and Relationships
    I was wondering if differing views on Wal-Mart could sever the potential for romantic relationships. In a relationship, what if person A "believes" in Wal-Mart and shops there regularly and their partner B, is adamantly opposed to everything Wal-Mart represents. Is there much hope for the...
  6. [INFJ] How do other INFJ's get out of a bad relationship?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    It's almost impossible for me to break up even when every fiber of my being knows it's got to happen eventually. The reasons for staying always hold more weight than my reasons for wanting to leave. For example, if my significant other actually hasn't DONE anything to warrant a break up, then...
  7. [ENFP] What's the longest you've been in a committed relationship?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    ENFPs, what is the longest you've been in a romantic, monogamous, committed relationship? And do you consider yourself the "marrying type"? Why?
  8. [INFP] INFP People More Vulnerable To Getting Involved in an Abusive relationship?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    This topic came to my head a bit earlier today. About 6 months ago I finally ended the 3 year relationship I had with a woman whom I believe has narcissistic personality disorder. This is a self help video I made and put on youtube to help people understand NPD. So this is my question...
  9. [INFP] Do you 'lose' your identity when you're in a relationship?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I have always done this, I sort of 'meld' into the other person and totally forget or override myself... It can be on the negative side or on the positive.
  10. [ISFP] What are your needs in a long lasting / enduring relationship?

    ISFP Forum - The Artists
    Ok, I'm engaged to an ISFP and I was curious, what are some general needs that most ISFPs tend to share. I'm an INFJ and we have worked through many things just as any two individuals would do to make a relationship work and I feel we are very solid but I always am looking to improve and in one...
  11. [INTJ] INTJ females : what do you look for in a relationship / partner?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    INTJ females: what do you look for in a relationship? can you describe your ideal partner? (this is a shameless copy of Callie's "INTJ males : what do you look for in a relationship?" ..)
  12. What types would you have in a polygamous relationship?

    Sex and Relationships
    k so you have more than one partner. What do you think would be a good 3 way relationship? 4 way relationship? 5 way relationship? Etc.
  13. [INTJ] INTJ males : what do you look for in a relationship?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    INTJ males : what do you look for in a relationship?
  14. [INFP] INFP - INFP relationship?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Was just thinking how two INFPs would be in a relationship.Can any of you Myers-Briggs enthusiast shed some light on the matter, or an INFP who was/is in a relationship with another INFP?
  15. Acting like your shadow in a relationship?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    I had a sudden insight. I realized that I behave like an ESTP in the relationship with my bf. maybe this is just a crazy figment of my brain, but it somehow makes sense to me..... I know ESTP is not even always considered to be the shadow of the ESTP, but somehow I found many things in my...
  16. How Healthy is My Relationship?

    Sex and Relationships
    Below are two lists, one of healthy relationship characteristics and one of unhealthy traits. Many relationships have a combination of both. The point is to figure what things in your previous, current or future relationships that are healthy or unhealthy, so you can gain appreciation for the...
  17. SJs, What Are You Looking For in a Relationship?

    SJ's Temperament Forum- The Overseers
    How do you define things that you looking for in a relationship? How do you find it? I'm 25, and I found myself wiling to find a partner for marriage. What I afraid most of is if I fall with a person that is not loyal, or a person whose easily gave up upon the relationship without even trying...
  18. Whats The Nicest Way To End A Relationship?

    Advice Center
    How do you guys dump your dates?
  19. Defensiveness - useful ego protection or poison to a relationship?

    General Psychology
    There are few things that annoy me as much as defensiveness in a person. I'm talking about the knee-jerk reactions to things that are said which are perceived as being critical of the person, even when they are not. These reactions usually start with either a flat-out denial ("No! You're...
  20. INFP: What do you look for in a romantic relationship?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    INFPs -- What do you look for in a romantic relationship? What are some tendencies that you have noticed in your romantic relationships (if you have had any) & what type were they (if known)? What were some conflicts or struggles in those relationships?