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  1. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hello~! I am an ENFP female currently dating my absolute soulmate, an INFJ male. I’ve known him for 7 years now, been best friends for 3, and recently started a relationship together which has been nothing short of passionate and intense. Mutually there’s no one we trust more, respect more...
  2. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    hey guys, first post here. i'm an ENFP male (24) and i'm dating an INFP female (21) we've been dating for the past 7 months, long distance. we've been extremely close friends for 7 years so we know each other in and out. our relationship has been extremely passionate and loving and i really...
  3. Sex and Relationships
    Someone talked on stream about how in high school, there is a man she is interested in, who also liked her and attempted to court (or "pursue") her. She has the idea that if a man is interested in her, he will pursue her nonstop, though the man she is interested in pursued her for awhile, then...
  4. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    A few days ago me and my friend got into an argument. For some insight, me and this friend never argue. We’ve been friends for ten years and have only gotten into 4 big fights throughout. The thing that bothers me is the 3rd recent biggest fight we’ve gotten into happened in May. And it’s...
  5. Type 9 Forum - The Peacemaker
    Hi people, as per the title I’m having a hard time with my 9w1 boyfriend (I typed him, but I’m 99% sure it’s the right fit). We’ve been in a relationship for more than 4 years but I still don’t really know how to deal with his depressive states because he just. Won’t. Speak! I am a 4w3 and...
  6. ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    I'm curious how my fellow ISFJs handle their inferior Ne in romantic relationships, especially during the early or "casual dating" phase. I find myself getting anxious a lot when I'm dating someone but they don't demonstrate consistency (like texting, etc) - I'd start thinking the worst...
  7. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hello, all my life i've been abused and am now a messed up adult. I recently left my husband who was verbally/emotionally abusing me and am trying to live on my own now. I am currently trying to navigate my way through trying to have a healthy relationship with the most amazing, kind and gentle...
  8. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    This is gonna be long, so bear with me. So it's about me (25F/ENFP) and my former best friend (22M/ENFP) We met nearly 4 years ago online and met up in person soon after. I developed a little crush on him and immediately let him know, only to get rejected. Feelings didn't run so deep, so I got...
  9. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    So, just starting this. I have a major problem. I fell out of love with my boyfriend and I don't know what to do. It's not like anything was wrong. I just... don't feel it anymore. And I feel so bad. I fell for him really fast, and my heart fluttered for everything he did, but... omg I feel...
  10. ISTP Forum - The Mechanics
    Hello everyone. I classically f'ed up a social encounter with an ISTP colleague of mine and was hoping for some input if you had a moment to spare. The cliff notes version is a 25-year-old (M) ISTP started working in my department 3 months ago and I developed feelings for him. I (32, M, INTP)...
  11. Sex and Relationships
    I posted about this issue a month ago on. I genuinely thought I was healing from it and that I was making progress, but something happened today and I am completely shattered by it. A few months back, I (18 F) met this guy (25 M). We didn't have labels, but we did mess around. He asked me for...
  12. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I'm straight and single, and would like to know how to approach to different types (literally!) of women. I never have saw the relationships under a MBTI POV and I believe can help me. I also ask this 'cause I was not looking for a relationship for years, and I'm starting to change this. After...
  13. NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects
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  14. Advice Center
    NOTE: This will be a long post, so please bear with me. I'm 18, F, INTP and I have troubles with emotions. Not that I don't have any, but it's hard for me to recognise them until it's too late, especially when it comes to potential love interests. I find it hard to know when I am 'in love' with...
  15. Sex and Relationships
    NOTE: This will be a long post, so please bear with me. I'm 18, F, INTP and I have troubles with emotions. Not that I don't have any, but it's hard for me to recognise them until it's too late, especially when it comes to potential love interests. I find it hard to know when I am 'in love' with...
  16. Myers Briggs Forum
    NOTE: This will be a long post, so please bear with me. I'm 18, F, INTP and I have troubles with emotions. Not that I don't have any, but it's hard for me to recognise them until it's too late, especially when it comes to potential love interests. I find it hard to know when I am 'in love' with...
  17. Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    Husband: ENTP - Type 8w7 Wife: ESFJ - Type 4w3 Ask: I'm looking to connect with people in an 8/4 relationship who can relate to and advise on this stormy dynamic (others welcome to chime in but I'm really looking for folks who have lived it rather than having only read about it in a book). Sob...
  18. Sex and Relationships
    Ok, first off, I really wouldn't describe myself as shy, but I am introverted and I do have a 5 wing, so being outgoing and talking to strangers just doesn't feel good like 90% of the time. I know how to flirt with guys and I feel like I'm rather good at it. But like, what do you do when the...
  19. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hello, beautiful INFJ people. New member here! I'm an INFP (young?) woman here. I've been in a bizarre half-relationship with an INFJ man with the most beautiful soul. It was instant attraction when we first met. I actually had seen him before (he hadn't seen me), and I got incredibly pleasant...
  20. Myers Briggs Forum
    Hit to the point: I want to break up with my ESTJ boyfriend, but I just can't. /* sorry for my bad english, I'm not a native speaker and still working on to be better */ there're so many point of view in my head: - I need emotional support, while he can't give any to me. - I don't like being...
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