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  1. [Enneagram Type 9] How to deal with an unhealthy 9w1?

    Type 9 Forum - The Peacemaker
    Hi people, as per the title I’m having a hard time with my 9w1 boyfriend (I typed him, but I’m 99% sure it’s the right fit). We’ve been in a relationship for more than 4 years but I still don’t really know how to deal with his depressive states because he just. Won’t. Speak! I am a 4w3 and...
  2. [ISFJ] Inferior Ne in Romantic Relationships

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    I'm curious how my fellow ISFJs handle their inferior Ne in romantic relationships, especially during the early or "casual dating" phase. I find myself getting anxious a lot when I'm dating someone but they don't demonstrate consistency (like texting, etc) - I'd start thinking the worst...
  3. [INFP] Help this INFP heal from relationship trauma?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hello, all my life i've been abused and am now a messed up adult. I recently left my husband who was verbally/emotionally abusing me and am trying to live on my own now. I am currently trying to navigate my way through trying to have a healthy relationship with the most amazing, kind and gentle...
  4. [ENFP] My ex-ENFP best friend ghosted me under very weird circumstances

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    This is gonna be long, so bear with me. So it's about me (25F/ENFP) and my former best friend (22M/ENFP) We met nearly 4 years ago online and met up in person soon after. I developed a little crush on him and immediately let him know, only to get rejected. Feelings didn't run so deep, so I got...
  5. [INFP] Relationship advice for INFP's in need!

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    So, just starting this. I have a major problem. I fell out of love with my boyfriend and I don't know what to do. It's not like anything was wrong. I just... don't feel it anymore. And I feel so bad. I fell for him really fast, and my heart fluttered for everything he did, but... omg I feel...
  6. [ISTP] I went down in flames

    ISTP Forum - The Mechanics
    Hello everyone. I classically f'ed up a social encounter with an ISTP colleague of mine and was hoping for some input if you had a moment to spare. The cliff notes version is a 25-year-old (M) ISTP started working in my department 3 months ago and I developed feelings for him. I (32, M, INTP)...
  7. How To Move On (Please Help)

    Sex and Relationships
    I posted about this issue a month ago on. I genuinely thought I was healing from it and that I was making progress, but something happened today and I am completely shattered by it. A few months back, I (18 F) met this guy (25 M). We didn't have labels, but we did mess around. He asked me for...
  8. [INFP] Male Taken INFPs: what's the type of your girlfriend and how it's going on?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I'm straight and single, and would like to know how to approach to different types (literally!) of women. I never have saw the relationships under a MBTI POV and I believe can help me. I also ask this 'cause I was not looking for a relationship for years, and I'm starting to change this. After...
  9. How Can An INTP Save A Relationship?

    NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects
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  10. Female INTP Late to Realize Feelings

    Advice Center
    NOTE: This will be a long post, so please bear with me. I'm 18, F, INTP and I have troubles with emotions. Not that I don't have any, but it's hard for me to recognise them until it's too late, especially when it comes to potential love interests. I find it hard to know when I am 'in love' with...
  11. Is It Too Late For Me.... For Us?

    Sex and Relationships
    NOTE: This will be a long post, so please bear with me. I'm 18, F, INTP and I have troubles with emotions. Not that I don't have any, but it's hard for me to recognise them until it's too late, especially when it comes to potential love interests. I find it hard to know when I am 'in love' with...
  12. Dating Advice for Young INTPs

    Myers Briggs Forum
    NOTE: This will be a long post, so please bear with me. I'm 18, F, INTP and I have troubles with emotions. Not that I don't have any, but it's hard for me to recognise them until it's too late, especially when it comes to potential love interests. I find it hard to know when I am 'in love' with...
  13. SOS - Type 4/8 marriage is imploding. Advice needed.

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    Husband: ENTP - Type 8w7 Wife: ESFJ - Type 4w3 Ask: I'm looking to connect with people in an 8/4 relationship who can relate to and advise on this stormy dynamic (others welcome to chime in but I'm really looking for folks who have lived it rather than having only read about it in a book). Sob...
  14. When shy people are crushin'

    Sex and Relationships
    Ok, first off, I really wouldn't describe myself as shy, but I am introverted and I do have a 5 wing, so being outgoing and talking to strangers just doesn't feel good like 90% of the time. I know how to flirt with guys and I feel like I'm rather good at it. But like, what do you do when the...
  15. [INFJ] Need Your Advice! INFP Woman in Bizarre Relationship With Incredible INFJ Man

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hello, beautiful INFJ people. New member here! I'm an INFP (young?) woman here. I've been in a bizarre half-relationship with an INFJ man with the most beautiful soul. It was instant attraction when we first met. I actually had seen him before (he hadn't seen me), and I got incredibly pleasant...
  16. an INFP finds it's so hard to break up with an ESTJ

    Myers Briggs Forum
    Hit to the point: I want to break up with my ESTJ boyfriend, but I just can't. /* sorry for my bad english, I'm not a native speaker and still working on to be better */ there're so many point of view in my head: - I need emotional support, while he can't give any to me. - I don't like being...
  17. [ENTJ] How to approach an ENTJ and not make it awkward?

    ENTJ Forum - The Executives
    So it's a weird situation and I'm probably over thinking it, but I want to know what actual ENTJs think. I'm an INTP female and in my high school class there is this one guy. I asked him once for help with something through messenger and after that, I asked him to take the test because he seemed...
  18. [INTJ] Intj dumped infj becuse of work

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Hi everybody This is my first post and my english isn't the best so be gentle :) I have been together with a INTJ for 1,5 year. Im a INFJ. He is 23 and Im 24. Im his first girlfriend. When we met it was just right, we had so much fun and the discussions was endless. We never ever had a boring...
  19. [ENTP] ENTP-ENTP relationship advice

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    So I am a 21 yo ENTP. Been interested in this girl (also ENTP). I felt she was very interested in me too, she was always eager to talk with me about everything because I would impress her with my wits and how ambitious I am with my goals and what I like etc and she really liked that. I was doing...
  20. [ENTP] Do ENTPs Fear Rejection?

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    Hello ENTPs! Quick question for you guys (guys specifically). As ENTPs, is there a trend or pattern of behavior for when you like a girl, but aren't sure if she likes you back? Do you play it safe for fear of rejection? Maybe for some other reason? Is that a thing for you guys? Are you guys...
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