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  1. INFJ Articles
    long story short. I (INTJ 25F) met my BF (INFJ 28M) on tinder and he pursued me first, asking me for dates, he even asked me to become his girlfriend. We basically are official but he disrespected me by cheating on me when he went on a date with a girl i know (she pursued him through my...
  2. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Alright. I almost posted this to reddit… but then I remembered both of us are INFJ-As. She 26(f) grew up relatively sheltered, conservative, religious and slightly enmeshed in her family dynamics. This has resulted in quite a bit of uncertainty for her, a distinct lack of autonomy, and some...
  3. Sex and Relationships
    I’m INTJ male dating ENTP girl, she feels insecure, how do I help to eliminate that? (I meet her in person before and then now it’s only online texting) I know the thread is short cause I don’t have a lot of time but please try to give advice, also advice me on how to make INTJxENTP...
  4. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    So I've been dating an INFP girl for a few months whom I met at my workplace. However, we haven't actually ''dated'' much. We are technically in a relationship but she has many unhealthy traits of a typical INFP. Such as; Narcissism Detached Avoidant Extremely self-centered Substance abuse...
  5. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hey there infps! I was looking for some advice about a infp woman I was in a relationship with. We was dating on and off for about 4 four years online and though out that time we was super close and had a very special bond. When I first met her I fell fast for her charms and in a way she...
  6. ISTJ Forum - The Duty Fulfillers
    Hello ISTJs!! I was hoping some of you could give me some advice. I am an ENFJ who after having broken up with a controlling and boundary pushing ex two months previous I went on a blind date (my first!) with an ISTJ (who has had very bad luck dating) through a mutual friend. At first I found...
  7. SJ's Temperament Forum- The Overseers
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  8. NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects
    So, I have found myself in a weird situation. (not English native) In the beginning of the year one of my childhood friends added me on social media. I have not seen him for ages, we are both in our late twenties now. I am an INTJ, he seems to be an INTP (a socialized one). We started chatting...
  9. Articles
    Realizing a partner has cheated on you can be life-shattering. You might feel angry, sad, hurt or even physically sick. But above all else, you are probably wondering “Why?” A 2017 study published in The Journal of Sex Research utilized an online survey to ask 495 respondents who had cheated in...
  10. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Hi. This is a last ditch attempt at getting some sound advice. I've known this ENFP for 2 years now and we are honestly very close friends. I've had feelings for him this entire time and had initially told him via text 8 months in to our friendship. His reply was 'thankyou' and was very...
  11. Sex and Relationships
    I understand no one can tell me what is really going on here but I hope you can give me food for thought and reflection. Edit: I feel like the utility of this post has run its course and it is so complicated and specific it can't be of much use to others, so I've deleted it. Thanks to those...
  12. ESFJ Forum - The Caregivers
    Hello😊 So I am an ENFJ dating an ESFJ. I have honestly never been happier with someone, I feel like we have this amazing emotional connection and everything is so passionate and full of spark. In our day to day life we just work together so nicely and smooth. There are so many pros. Most...
  13. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I’ve been having a problem for quite awhile now with my step sister who has been living with us for a year now. I made a post months ago but that problem was solved with communication. Or at least I thought it was. I’m use to dealing with passive aggressive people in the outside world but it’s...
  14. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Dear INFPs, how do the other mbti subtypes know if you like a person or are actually serious about the relationship? Right now, I'm dating this really great INFP guy, but I don't know if he's serious about me. He trusts me with a lot, but I can still guage that he isn't revealing everything and...
  15. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    How do you know an INFP likes you via texting??
  16. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hey guys!! First off, I would just say that I absolutely adore you guys for existing!! You are the best friends I know and even better confidante. So, I have known this INFP guy for almost two years now, we are pretty close and he tells me some pretty personal stuff that I'm sure he wouldn't...
  17. Advice Center
    Hallo, I'm looking for an advice how to approach my INFJ boyfriend who is at the moment under a lot of stress to the point that he starts questioning everything and is not sure about anything, he said he needs time for himself to go through his feelings and to understand them. He struggles with...
  18. Other Personality Theories
    hello p-cafe i am looking for help to publish my research thesis in the field of personality psychology on the topic of interpersonal compatibility wikipedia (the worst source in the world) says: "no general theory of interpersonal compatibility has been proposed in psychology"...
  19. Sex and Relationships
    Hello dear people, I try to make this as short as possible. In my education class a woman is sitting next to me. Over the time I grew feelings for her and I am not sure if she did to me as well. The catch is, she has a boyfriend and I am definitely not the person to destroy someone's...
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