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  1. [ENTP] Do ENTPs Fear Rejection?

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    Hello ENTPs! Quick question for you guys (guys specifically). As ENTPs, is there a trend or pattern of behavior for when you like a girl, but aren't sure if she likes you back? Do you play it safe for fear of rejection? Maybe for some other reason? Is that a thing for you guys? Are you guys...
  2. ESFP guys look over here!!! *tits *ass pic lmao ;p Analyze what an ESFP guy want

    ESFP Forum - The Performers
    I currently am interested in the ESFP personality because I'm interested in an ESFP guy. I'm an INTP girl who is extremely shy, super logical, and super intuitive as well. I was new in this school and I have one class in common with this ESFP guy(btw I made him take the test) and we never...
  3. [Enneagram Type 9] I'm a number 5w4 in love with a 9w8

    Type 9 Forum - The Peacemaker
    I am 5w4 (INTP), and I have been dating a 9w8 (ISTP) for almost 8 months. Oftentimes, I find that we are not the best at communicating how we feel about each other. I get scared to talk about my feelings. It makes me feel overly vulnerable, and I worry about not being able to handle bringing up...
  4. [Enneagram Type 5] I'm a number 5w4 in love with a 9w8

    Type 5 Forum - The Investigator
    I am 5w4 (INTP), and I have been dating a 9w8 (ISTP) for almost 8 months. Oftentimes, I find that we are not the best at communicating how we feel about each other. I get scared to talk about my feelings. It makes me feel overly vulnerable, and I worry about not being able to handle bringing up...
  5. I'm a number 5w4 in love with a 9w8

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    I am 5w4 (INTP), and I have been dating a 9w8 (ISTP) for almost 8 months. Oftentimes, I find that we are not the best at communicating how we feel about each other. I get scared to talk about my feelings. It makes me feel overly vulnerable, and I worry about not being able to handle bringing up...
  6. I'm almost scared of him and I'm afraid I'll get hurt again...

    Sex and Relationships
    Hi everybody, I'm a new here, so I dont know how it works, but I feel I need to say these something to someone and maybe to know some different points of views. I have been dating a guy for a year and half. It was partially a long-distance relationship. I met him in his country. After a short...
  7. I need help about my INTP crush :'(

    Advice Center
    Hi everyone! I hope you will understand me, because i'm french and my english is not perfect, sorry! I am an ISFP woman and i have a crush on a INTP man. Not simple ! :) Here is the story : I "met" him on a dating website 4 months ago, but never seen him in real life because I wanted to loose...
  8. [ESTP] Suspected Unhealthy-ESTP > On/Off Manipulative Lover?

    ESTP Forum - The Doers
    Hey guys, I'm new so bear with me and let me know if anything is not okay. I'm ENFP so I hope it's okay to be posting here. I need your advice. What do you think happens when an ESTP is unhealthy? Not ill necessarily, just letting the negative aspects of their personality shine through. How do...
  9. sociopaths and relationships

    Sex and Relationships
    Catch if you're partner is have a mental health disorder, being in a Sociopathic relationship can effect you and your day 2 day life, to clear your doubt you may check this 5 signs that proves you're dating a sociopath.
  10. [INTP] (ENTJ, M - INTP, F) Inquiries about INTP general behaviour and attraction.

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Mirror mirror on the wall... Yes, the mirror type, the ENTJ-INTP duo, the one personality-type that I'm strangely attracted to, the one type I always instantly click with every time I knowingly encounter one. The INTP, you guys! Now, I'm in a bit of a tight spot. I'm an ENTJ, and I don't know...
  11. [INFJ] Did INFJ [m] doorslam me [f]?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hello, I'm a long time lurker and finally decided to post on this site. I have been talking and dating an INFJ for the past few months. I can honestly say I am intrigued and fascinated by you INFJs. This guy is the reason I became interested in MBTI in the first place. Once I realized I am an...
  12. Some advice on how to woo my INFP back

    Sex and Relationships
    Hi Personality Cafe, This is my first post, and I'm looking forward to what you have to write. I am an INTP and my (well now) ex-boyfriend is an INFP. He broke up with me about a month ago, which came as a huge shock, as we have been together for 4 years. He seems reluctant to talk about it. I...
  13. INTJ woman asking ENTJ men stuff

    Sex and Relationships
    This is a more complex question: Are any ENTJ man - INTJ woman happy couples out there? Are ENTJ men always confident when it comes about relationships, can they be shy or simply afraid of commitment? And if so, why? When do ENTJ men manipulate people, do they manipulate even the people they love?
  14. [ESFP] ESFP Males - How do you act when you are falling in love?

    ESFP Forum - The Performers
    For the ESFP guys. What are you like when you are falling for someone? I'm an INFP/ISFP and have been seeing an ESFP guy for a few weeks. We used to date a while ago but it was cut short, and we are seeing each other again and it feels like no time has passed. He is the most affectionate guy I...
  15. [INTP] INTP gone on a break from relationship with INFJ after a fight

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Hey everyone, this is my first post here. Me and my INTP man have been together almost for half a year. We're both very calm and collected, I personally am very logical, but my emotions are very deep as well. With that being said I value only healthy exchanges and run away from toxic...
  16. [INFP] ENFJ (female) and INFP (male) relationship breakdown? I thought this was the one?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hi friends, I'm stuck and I am looking for advice, especially from INFPs. I am an ENFJ-T woman and my male partner is INFP-A. We haven't been together long but our connection was fast and furious. Now I feel like I am dating a totally different person. I'm confused and could use some insight...
  17. ISFJ losing interest/How to get an ISFJ interested in me again?

    Sex and Relationships
    This is a long story- So I'm an INFP. I really liked this ISFJ guy that I met on this video game, and he seemed to like me too. Messaged me goodnight/good morning, always teased and flirted, always messaged me constantly, etc. I was on vacation in the Philippines while he lived in LA when all...
  18. INTP/INTP Relationship

    Blog
    I am an INTP, but I'm also on the cusp with a few things... I'm borderline between Thinking/Feeling and I'm pretty close to borderline with Perceiving/Judging. I just started seeing another INTP and we clicked instantly. Spoke for hours about topics we were both interested in or had little...
  19. [INFJ] ENFP Guy (33) starting to date an INFJ Girl (33). Help...

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hey everyone, this is my first post here. Hope you are all having an amazing day. I just want to pick some of the brains of the INFJ females here. I've started to date an INFJ female, and to be honest, so far things have been pretty amazing. Being an ENFP myself, we seem to compliment each...
  20. [ISFJ] ISFJ initiating relationship with INTP? Please help! :)

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    I am an ISFJ female (but I'd like to say that I'm 60% S and 40% N) and I am attracted to my INTP male friend. He says that he doesn't believe he's an INTP because he got various results when he tested himself, but I'm pretty sure he is. I feel really comfortable being and I don't feel obligated...
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