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So, this is not an easy situation to describe. I am madly in love with an ISFJ who is madly in love with me. Here's the tricky part: we fell in love with each other while i am still married (separated in process of divorce, not bcuz of him) and he is living with his current girlfriend. Yeah, i...

Hi, INFJ here. So I made a mess with an INTP, and I have no clue on how to fix it. We had a thing it didn’t work out. I asked to be friends, it was strange. Besides every time I wrote him, it took him forever to answer. I grew tired, I told him goodbye for good. But I regretted it. I haven’t...

This is a long story- So I'm an INFP. I really liked this ISFJ guy that I met on this video game, and he seemed to like me too. Messaged me goodnight/good morning, always teased and flirted, always messaged me constantly, etc. I was on vacation in the Philippines while he lived in LA when all...

Below is a long tale of my legnthy journey coming to terms with my type 4 unhealthy responses to both healthy and unhealthy type 9-leadership. I was recently introduced to the Enneagram and have been exploding with insights, many of them perhaps pure bullshit! I don't expect any of you will make...

This is originally from my posting in an INFP forum and originally by me: http://personalitycafe.com/infp-forum-idealists/1056506-really-rough-time-right-now-my-infp-so-made-account-pretty-much.html [Begin Quote] So... In January, only 11 days after first talking to her on discord, I admitted I...

I'm got my eye on an INFJ male (I found the unicorn, guys!) and I'm trying to get him to ask me out. I'm an INFJ female and I've been thinking that maybe I should do what I would like done towards me if a man liked me. The hold up is twofold. First, he's a man so there would be some differences...

im an entj female and im currently dating an enfp male. we connect deeply, both being abstract in comunication. hes my first serious boyfriend and weve been dating for a year on and off because of family issues. i couldnt see him for a while sort of like a stupid romeo and juliet scenario...

Hey INTJs , Hoping you guys can shed some light on this. I'm a ENTP guy that has a crush on an INTJ girl. I heard INTJs and ENTPs match pretty well and I do have some INTJ guy friends that I can talk to well(not really any deep conversations though). So basically this girl doesn't give much...

I, first and foremost, would like to state that I'm likely over thinking this to the point where it should be a crime. Yet flirting is likely something I've done less times than I have fingers. I'd like to believe we both like each other; however, with the touch barrier still unbroken would it...

I've been talking to an ISTJ for almost 4 months. If we're not hanging out in person, we're talking on the phone daily. Not txt, but actual phone conversations usually initiated by him. He puts in the effort to see me and I him. We have weekly meetings at church where we sit together, we work...

Hey yall. I've been ghosting personality cafe for a little over half a year now and felt compelled to create an account and contribute something to you wonderful people. You guys and gals have helped me out through a rough time, as I've been depressed for around three years now (according to...

Hello all female ENFPs! I am a male ENFJ, 17 years old and single, and I need your advice. :) I met an ENFP at a high school speech and debate tournament in Alabama around two weeks ago. That's when I met her, and wow. Our eyes met, and I think fireworks lit off in my brain. I have met several...

I met this girl back in March that I'm crazy about. I could go on about the reasons, but the point is, I'm crazy about her. How can I tell if she has feelings more than friendship? She's an ISFJ type, if that helps. We've both talked about this and agreed that there is a connection between us...

I read about ISFP's being too trusting and concerned with the needs of others, and I wanted to ask some ISPF advice on their behavior. So, right after my boyfriend and I started dating, he let his ex-girlfriend, who is now a lesbian, move in. She had taken most of his books and dvds, his...

So in my short time here at this forum some of the most interesting talk that I've come across is about relationships and compatible types. I now come bearing questions of my own and was hoping some of you could help me. This might sound stupid, but what's the point of entering a relationship...

When I have kids, I want them to be raised in a secular environment. By "secular", I do not mean anti-religious but, rather, nonreligious. If my children decide that they want to be religious, I will not stop them, but I will not participate. When my significant other has kids, he wants them to...