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  2. [Enneagram Type 4] A History of (Passive-Aggressive) Violence

    Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    Below is a long tale of my legnthy journey coming to terms with my type 4 unhealthy responses to both healthy and unhealthy type 9-leadership. I was recently introduced to the Enneagram and have been exploding with insights, many of them perhaps pure bullshit! I don't expect any of you will make...
  3. [INTJ] The INTJ Family and friends

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Here's the problem, Im very misunderstood and complicated for my family and friends. Everyone describes me as 'different', 'difficult', 'careless', 'detached'... as for these reasons I try to stay in the background, keeping to myself and I've now become extremely frustrated and upset at the same...
  4. [INFJ] What should I do about this infj?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    First of all I should mention that I am a INTP/J but I think I'm slightly tilted to J rather than P. I fell for my INFJ classmate 6 years ago in college and confessed to her 2 years ago. It didn't go well because she is the kind of girl who had more than 100 guys having a crush on her in her...
  5. [INFP] INFP and ESTJ... Can I gain his trust back? Plzzz

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hello :)) :laughing: I just want to tell you that I'm INFP and my boyfriend is ESTJ And he is REALLY a good boyfriend, I really appreciate him and what he does. I love him and care about him SO MUCH. But I have a question... If you have time, please be kind and tell me XD ... I and my...
  6. [ENTP] ENTP Expressions of Love/Intimacy/Gratitude

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    There's a tl;dr at the bottom if you don't have the patience for this because I got a little carried away. I'm an INFJ female in a relationship with an ENTP male (probably leaning towards I). We're both college sophomores. We met via mutual friends and became close very quickly (the fabled...
  7. How do you deal with rejection ?

    NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    I don't normally do this but I have been feeling down since last night. I don't know how to retreat to a "fantasy" world and probably should not anyway, but an issue has been bugging me since a while and it keeps recurring to me like a recurring sort of nightmare. I have been in a...
  8. [ENTJ] entj//entj?

    ENTJ Forum - The Executives
    does an entj//entj relationship have more cons than pros? ive recently been in a serious relationship w an enfp and had a handful of romantic encounters w some artisans and guardians. from this, i thought i needed someone more like me. ive considered an intj, but was curious about another entj...
  9. [Enneagram Type 5] Why 5�s have a hard time admitting you are attracted to somebody else?

    Type 5 Forum - The Investigator
    Why 5’s have a hard time admitting you are attracted to somebody else? I know a 5’s , early on she was attentive and very tender. After 3 month of flirting, Many things have happen like reciprocated touching, looks and attentions I decided to ask her out. She didnt make eye contact and denied...
  10. [INFP] Help with (leaving) unhealthy relationship

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I've stayed too long with someone that really no one in my life likes. The thing is that I think I see the larger picture of him and have seen his sensitive and hurt sides, and think I'm pretty perceptive, so I think I understand some of what is going on and what is behind his actions, though...
  11. [ISFP] Help! ISFPs Please Help Me

    ISFP Forum - The Artists
    Alright, so I'm an INTP, obviously, and my mother is an ISFP. (I'm 99% sure of this.) We're practically complete opposites function-wise. I know you know your functions but here's a comparison between both of ours: ISFP: Fi, Se, Ni, Te INTP: Ti, Ne, Si, Fe They're so different it's...
  12. [ENTP] Need ENTP help

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    I'm an INTJ female who recently just got dumped by her ENTP boyfriend. i know why he dumped me, he didnt think it was fair to me to maintain our long distance relationship and I'd been nagging him about it the last few days. i know he still loves me and i love him, and i sincerely want him back...
  13. [ENTP] INFJ-ENTP Interaction Conflict

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    I left my ENTP boyfriend of three years two months ago. One of the central reasons I left him was because I've always struggled to connect with him via conversation. I've read a lot about INFJ-ENTP interactions and most of what I've read is promising. Very promising. But after leaving the...
  14. [INFP] Relationship Struggles - please help [beware I wrote a book] :(

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    [BACKGROUND] I did a personality test when (2007 or 2008) I did Psych 101. It was interesting to me at the time, however I didn't really think too much about it past that class, and definitely didn't commit my type to memory. Back in 2010, I considered myself so lucky. I came back from a...
  15. [INTJ] Are INTJ's commonly attracted to ENFP's?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    My family is full of poor relationships between INTJ's and ENFP's. Does any other INTJ have this issue or pattern in their lives?
  16. I'm an INTJ and my boyfriend is an ENFP. I thought he was suppose to be the bored one

    Myers Briggs Forum
    I'm an INXJ with a stronger thinking side and my boyfriend is an ENXP who identifies more with his feeling side. I started our relationship with no intentions to keep it going and they he showed how mature, patience and accomodating he could be and I slowly started to fall for him. I found...
  17. [INFP] Need help with my friend :(

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    So I'm finding out that my ENTP friend is really selfish. The first couple times I noticed it it only concerned me. For one example, we were working on a group project for history and decided on the topic of medieval weapons because we both know a lot about them. We had been between that and...
  18. [ISTP] Help! a 29-yrs old INFP Asian eldest son's "eternal" conflict with his ISTP father

    ISTP Forum - The Mechanics
    Help! a 29-yrs old INFP Asian eldest son's "eternal" conflict with his ISTP father (Note: for those of you who want to skip to my main, core questions, without needing to read the details, you can just skip right away to my 2nd post just below this one. thanks) It all finally comes down to...
  19. [INFP] Being the only INFP (or NF, N, or I) in your family

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Anyone the only INFP in their family? Or have a low number of I and/or N members? How has that affected your relations with them? Do you often feel lonely or that you family just doesn't get you? I'd be especially keen to hear how those with lots of SJ relatives have managed. I'm a very strong...
  20. [Enneagram Type 8] How to Treat 8s?

    Type 8 Forum - The Challenger
    As in the capacity of romantic relationship/ partnership. I found the other thread, but it's more how to avoid conflict with 8s, and (mostly?) in the context of casual/ formal acquaintance. As far as I can tell, 8s seem to single out their partners from the rest of the population (correct me...