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  1. ENFJ Losing Interest?

    ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    As an ENFJ, what are some of the things you do (or stop doing) when you're losing interest or have lost interest in your romantic partner?
  2. [ISFJ] Help this INFP understand ISFJ male in a tricky relationship setting please?

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    So, this is not an easy situation to describe. I am madly in love with an ISFJ who is madly in love with me. Here's the tricky part: we fell in love with each other while i am still married (separated in process of divorce, not bcuz of him) and he is living with his current girlfriend. Yeah, i...
  3. What Tritypes match best with each tritype for marriage? Include wing

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    I am starting a dating app based on the enneagram. I need to ensure that my dating app has the highest success rates. Any advice? Also looking for anyone interested in launching the dating app with me <3 I'm an (4w3) 8, 7, with a sexual instinct ENFP in case anyone is wondering. <3
  4. New relationship - communication issues

    Sex and Relationships
    I've been dating an INTP guy for about 3 months (although it feels much longer since we are living together - we started off, and basically still are roomates). We have many things in common such as worldviews, some interests, we attend the same university, and have similar-enough personalities...
  5. Should I try to date my best friend (IxxP)?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I messed up. Since last year, there has been a guy whom I’ve been good friends with. We were in the same friend group, always hung out together, and just enjoyed each other’s company. After most of our friends left the school, we began spending more alone time together. Aside from the classes we...
  6. Which is Better to Date (Not by Personality Type)

    Sex and Relationships
    I'm wondering what people would say in regards to this: Is it better to try (or) to date someone you already have known for a bit and are friends with? Or is it better to try (or) to date someone you barely know/ recently met? If an example is needed, I will gladly give one.
  7. [ENFP] Just another restless ENFP?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
  8. [ENTJ] ENTJ and ENTP pairing?

    ENTJ Forum - The Executives
    Hey ENTJs, what do you guys think of an ENTP as a potential romantic interest? I have a good friend who is an ENTJ and sometimes he practically treats me like his gf. When we first met, there was instant attraction but as we gotten to know each other we have had some blatant differences. He...
  9. NEED HELP! Juggling School / Boyfriend's Expectations? And more... ugh.

    Sex and Relationships
    Alright, so bare with me here and thanks for reading. I'm a 22 year old college student who is in a relationship with a 23 year old guy. We've been together since I was 16 and he was 17. We met in high school and are approaching our 5 year anniversary. He works full time making ok money for...
  10. [ESFP] Do You Have A Problem With Keeping Intrest After Sex?

    ESFP Forum - The Performers
    I gotta figure out if this is an ESFP thing or an "I have a chain of unhealhty relationships" thing. That's not to say those two things aren't mutually exclusive though :) But no seriously, has anyone else had this problem? I understand the initial spark fading away if you haven't built any kind...
  11. Can a Person Grow Their iNtuition Even If It's Naturally Low?

    NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    Hello, NFs! I find myself in a difficult situation. I've found a lovely, adoring ENFP; we are dating again after already breaking up once. Usually, once I find an ENFP, our conversational chemistry is through the roof. However, with him, it's different. We can talk about shallow matters, but...
  12. I'm first-timing hard at relationships, INTP failing

    Sex and Relationships
    In advance of text, take note of orange escape line lower. Storytime is optional EXPOSITION I am an INTP and for most of my life I had a really low drive for relationships. It takes some unusual circumstances for me to think about someone romantically. And I am not good at telling if people...
  13. [INFJ] INFJ Male - Do you guys lead people on?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I'm hoping to gain some insight on a recent weird fling I had with someone I've determined to be an INFJ. He is very charming, friendly, almost coming across as ENFP. But he seems to be a bit more withdrawn and harder to read when we are alone..lots of things make me think he was INFJ. We met...
  14. So I like this ISTP

    So I'm an ENTP and I've been interested in this ISTP. At first things were going great, and she even said she liked me. Even though we were just going to be sexual partners, I could see something develop and she didn't deny it either. I feel like as I've opened up to her things have gotten bad...
  15. [INTJ] INFP female throroughly confused by INTJ male

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Greetings INTJ commuunity, I am currently seeing an INTJ male, a relationship which began a few weeks ago. We met through work approx. 5 months ago, over time we began to like each other and finally admitted to each other our feelings on somewhat of a superficial level. Now we both are...
  16. Personality Compatibility: Who's good with who?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    Based on research/personal experience, which MBTI types are best suited for another? (i.e: ENFP+ENFJ=terrible, INTJ+ENTJ=downright scary, etc.) Thoughts? Note: Not necessarily romantic relationships!
  17. [ISFJ] How to avoid being hurt by an ISFJ

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    Dear all, I met an ISFJ at a dating event and initially it seemed like everything was going great -- he started texting me right after, and asked me out almost immediately. We went out twice but the second time he was a) 20 minutes late because he overslept and b) avoided eye contact, both of...
  18. [ISTP] INFP female in a relationship with ISTP male... how to overcome differences?

    ISTP Forum - The Mechanics
    I am an INFP female in a relationship with someone who I am very sure is an ISTP. From what I have read in general of the INFP-ISTP relationship dynamic, there are a lot of basic misunderstandings of the other's general personality traits and expectations. I am experiencing that right now...
  19. Dating Dilemma

    I am dating again and could use advice. For some reason I am often attracted to 'non-feeling' types which is obviously not a good thing for a 'feeler' like myself. Anyway, the last guy really did a number on me. I would guess he was an ISTJ, though he would never take a test for something like...