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  1. ESTJ Forum - The Guardians
    Hi. I am an INFP-T (female). I had a 7 year relationship with an ESTJ which ended last year. Reason - I cheated. Twice. Without going into the details of it, it was devastating. I'm beyond ashamed and my focus now is working that sin out my life. Its been a year. I still have a long way to go...
  2. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    https://www.erikthor.com/2020/11/15/intp-perfectionism/ "INTP PERFECTIONISM & INTP NITPICKING. When falling in love, most of us are known to romanticise our partners and to only look at the good qualities in another person. We enter into a honeymoon stage where everything is pink clouds and...
  3. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Would you guys fare well in long-distance relationships? Why or why not?
  4. ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    I've known this ENFJ for a little over a year and when we met we were both in relationships at the time (she's a bi female and I'm lesbian), so we got to know each other in general and we both realized we had an attraction for each other, but it wasn't appropriate to pursue. Both our...
  5. ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    I'm curious how my fellow ISFJs handle their inferior Ne in romantic relationships, especially during the early or "casual dating" phase. I find myself getting anxious a lot when I'm dating someone but they don't demonstrate consistency (like texting, etc) - I'd start thinking the worst...
  6. INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    I'm an INxP female, writing about a mature INTJ male in his thirties. I'm developing feelings for him and I'm confused; I would love to get some perspective from you mature INTJs out there. We've been on several dates now. He mentioned early on that he likes me. He's asked me about my...
  7. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Self explanatory title. I only see my "friends" at least, once or twice a year. Hence why I put friends in speech commas. I know these people, I get along with them, but do I really know them? To be honest, not really. They're not acquaintances, but it feels like they're not close friends...
  8. Advice Center
    Do any of you struggle with moving on from certain events, or from certain toxic relationships? I've been driving myself crazy over a particular relationship that I can't seem to get over and would love advice. --- (Disclaimer: I generally don't hold grudges and tend to forgive others very...
  9. Socionics Forum
    From what I've read online and from the real life examples I personally know, it seems like SLI's enjoy their secrets and getting away with things that even their partner "knows nothing about". Isn't that lonely? wouldn't you want to have someone you can share everything with? or does that take...
  10. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Don't get offended. Merely an observation from an introverted thinker (ixtx). I don't think other types will necessarily agree. 1. You guys fall easily....And its intimidating. Because you guys are very emotional, you can kind of linger on past relationships or dating experiences. But you also...
  11. Socionics Forum
    When they say your dual is your ideal match, does that mean that you should be happier and healthier in a dual relationship than any other type of relationship? Or does it just mean that you understand each other better than other type combinations? I am pretty sure the most unhealthy couple...
  12. Myers Briggs Forum
    Ask an ENTP a question; get horrible advice with a convincing rationale so you can be a shitty person with a good excuse. That about sums it up.
  13. INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    What Happens When An INTJ Stops Caring? What do you do? me: 1. As simple as turning off a light switch and leaving the room. The part of an INTJ that matters is simply gone. 2. When an INTJ stops caring, then an INTJ stops trusting. Or Vs Vs. Then. . . #1. 3. When an INTJ stops caring...
  14. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Shit I need help. I'm new to relationships because I only really became open to the possibility this year. But do any other INTPs have relationship issues. As in whenever you see the person or going to see the person youre in a relationship with, you get anxiety? I'm not good at any part of...
  15. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    As the title says, which type did you or are you currently experiencing your best romantic relationship with?
  16. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Both of the two main relationships I've been in were with INFPs. I ended one, and the other she ended it. What's weird is that both women "loitered" or "orbited" around me for many months, if not years, occasionally finding excuses to get in touch. But they were not "hey, how are you?" type of...
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  18. Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    Type 4's are really, really interesting when it comes to relationships. Personally, I've found that fours have the potential to be exceptional therapists from their ability to dive deep into both their own and others' emotions. They also tend to love quite passionately and value sentimental...
  19. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    This is my first time here! Love to bring this one up with like minded people. Am I the only one that feels this way? Ever since I saw the light of day I've felt different from everyone around me. I have friends (small groups, of people I trust), have a good job, live in a great part of the...
  20. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Okay. This is a big problem for me. I suck at conversation. The only time its kinda okay is when I first meet them. That way theres questions to lead with and to go on about. But after that I'm complete shit. I run out of ideas of what to do because I'm really a watching tv shows online and...
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