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  1. [INFP] INFP hating other INFPs?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Don't get me wrong, I love my fellow INFPs! However, there are times where I utterly despise some of my INFP friends. I can't tell whether or not it's because they're unhealthy/underdeveloped, enneagram, or just plain individual character flaws. My best friend is an INFP and we get along...
  2. [INFJ] Attachment, Personality Disorder, Avoidance, Problems with Intimacy, anyone relate?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    So as of the last year or so, after quite a few years of hard work and research that i've put in, I've reached a conclusion that I am suffering from what's called C-PTSD. I certainly have a narcissist (or someone that suffers from narcissism) in my life, and that person is my father (and others...
  3. [INTJ] Resentment, how can you overcome it?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    How have you overcome feelings of resentment? Or how would you advise a fellow INTJ "to get over it"? I seem to be hanging on to this feeling and it's festering into raw anger. I want to snap out of it but since it's not directed at any particular individual it makes it harder to move on. I am...
  4. Letting go of resentment and anger.

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    Resentment and anger if allowed to linger and flourish will rob you of happiness. I know because I have allowed these emotions to have a place in my life far too many times. Throughout my life I've wasted a lot of time and energy being angry with those who have wronged me. It took me much...
  5. [ENFP] Are ENFP's vindictive? is this a sign of unhealthiness

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I had a friend whom I have been extremely close with the past year and a half and all of the sudden she has grown so incredibly distant. I noticed a change in her around september -- she was always very pessimistic about seeing others and life in general, just constantly complaining. I am...
  6. Starting to resent my best friend. No fun.

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    So I live in this teeny tiny half duplex with my husband. Normally, this would be just dandy, except for the roommate part. I can barely handle having to live with someone other than my husband, let alone a roommate. He's a good guy and all, I just need a break from people. A lot. And it doesn't...
  7. [ISTP] How to end a 7 year 'friendship' With an ISTP. Should I even end it?

    ISTP Forum - The Mechanics
    Hello, I am an INTJ. I am having issues with an ISTP I've known for several years, this is long so please bear with me. There is someone that I became friends with in middle school. We stayed friends ever since. After middle school, we started to drift apart a little, and lived miles away...
  8. [Enneagram Type 4] Need help with unprocessed resentment

    Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    Anger is energy. I find an angry person very stimulating. Like a wild animal hunting something petite. But observation takes place from a distance. When it happens to me, I feel like energy building up in me and never finding an outlet. I try to appease the person while trying to dominate him...
  9. [INFP] Disconnection?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I feel like more and more I'm disconnecting myself from everyone. Partly because having to explain my feelings just seems exhausting (especially since a lot of it has built up over the years), partly because of fear of rejection, and partly because of intense lack of trust and land resentment...
  10. [INFJ] What happens after someone crosses the line?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hello everyone (if anyone reads this lol) I'm usually very forgiving of people. We are all human and make mistakes right? Now I'm curious. How forgiving are INFJs are after a deep held value has been violated? Does that person lose your trust and/or respect? If so, for how long or is it a...
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