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  1. Could this lead to something or rather not?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hi all, This will be rather long because I want to cover everything and every detail might be important in trying to figure him out. Around one month ago I met an INFJ in a salsa party. Basically, we danced 3 times, and during the whole evening exchanged some looks. So it made me a bit curious...
  2. [INFP] Do you ever go back to an old romantic relationship? How long until you stop caring?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hi guys, so this is crazy and I’ve never posted on a forum before but I always scroll through forums for advice and find so many of the answers helpful so I thought I’d give it a try. THIS IS VERY LONG SO SUMMARY ----------------------------------------- I (female INTP) was seeing a male INFP...
  3. [INFP] How Do You Get Over Heartbreak?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hi guys. You guys are the romanticists of the Myers Briggs types. You are considered to be very sentimental and devoted people. Considering this then, how do you overcome something as aggressive as heartbreak and the conflict that may arise in these kinds of experiences? What would you...
  4. [ENFP] Why Do ENFP and INTJ Relationships "Blow Up"?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I'm going on my first-ever date with an INTJ tonight. She is a bit soft on the "T" and almost an INFJ she says. Regardless, I've been poking around this site and see some anecdotal information that ENFP-INTJ relationships tend to "blow up" I'm wondering if anyone can suggest reasons why? So...
  5. [ENTJ] Dating/liking an ENTJ: tips?

    ENTJ Forum - The Executives
    Hey guys, I've always had this instant attraction to ENTJ males but up until now I had only gotten to know just one really well. He was gay so that didn't really work out lol. The second ENTJ, I've met through my best friend. She has been friends with him since they were teenagers. So...
  6. Escaping the Friend Zone: your stories and perspectives

    Sex and Relationships
    When I was 17 I befriended a girl at my high school. She was 15. Tall and blonde. In the theatre department, just like me. Fun, smart, very sweet. Probably an ENFP. Really liked her as a friend, but in no way thought of her as a girlfriend. Something about her didn't allow me to consider her...
  7. [INFP] How to Fall in Love

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Saw a question and it made me think for a bit: At first I said, slowly grow fond of a person, but assuming both 'routes' end up with a happy relationship, I didn't convince myself that love at first sight would be terrible... If you had the choice, which way would you prefer to fall in love...
  8. Would you say you are attractive and how do you feel about it?

    Sex and Relationships
    I feel like I can confidently say I'm pretty, whether or not or I'd go a step farther and say that I'm hot I think depends on the person, Although I have been told that. And like yes, on the one hand, who's going to complain about that? But on the other, sometimes I feel like it creates this...
  9. How do you meet people?

    Sex and Relationships
    I've met some people at parties, but now that I'm in my 30's there's less parties and most people have settled down and known everyone else for years. I basically only go expecting to meet friends, never anyone new. I met a few people with Okcupid a few years back, but I'm sooo over online...
  10. [ESFP] INTP female falling for ESFP male - Am I doomed?

    ESFP Forum - The Performers
    I have a question to ask an ESFP! I am a female INTP (Enneagram 9w1), dating a male ESFP (Enneagram 2w3). I absolutely adore this man, and haven't felt this much chemistry since dating an INFJ. I feel very calm and safe around him, and I can totally be myself without judgment. Also, I really...
  11. ENFP Here, Wondering if INFJ Co-Worker Likes Me

    NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    Hey everyone!! So I've actually been reading INFJ forums a lot to try and get an idea of how an INFJ would act around someone if they had romantic interest in them, and reading certain threads has been super informative and helpful yet I'm still second guessing myself. I'm sure I won't get a...
  12. [ENFP] Learning To Not Be Percieved As A Flirt

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    One of the issues that keeps reoccurring with the INFP I'm dating is she sees me as being too charming to ladies we meet. My attractive female friends and attractive women in the service industry, like waitresses, primarily. The thing is I'm 1.) not trying, just being me and 2.) she's an INFP so...
  13. [INFP] Sustaining A Relationship With An INFP

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Sorry to beat a dead horse people, I just really like the INFP I'm in a relationship with now and don't want to mess it up. In some ways she's so similar to me and in some ways she's so different. Lets address the differences: -She processes emotions very slowly where I process them lightning...
  14. [ENFP] Are Any Of You Actually Close To Another ENFP?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Does anyone here have another ENFP friend/significant other that they're very emotionally close to? I was speaking to an INFJ earlier today and she wanted to know my experience of depth with ENFPs...Except I couldn't really find anything. I had two ENFP guy friends but we were never that...
  15. Inspiration to believe in love again

    NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    Hi beautiful NFs, So, long story short... my romantic life has been a roller-coaster. I parted with my ex a few months ago (I believed, and still believe to some degree that he's a soulmate... lots of unrequited love here) after being together for 2 years. It's left me struggling to believe...
  16. [INTP] Good References for INTP Romantic Instincts?

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    I am looking for some good resources that would give me details on how typical INTPs process relationships, intellectually, emotionally, and sexually.
  17. [ENFP] Here's The Biggest Turn-on For ENFPs

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    So I was viewing different blog posts on ENFPs and came across this post: (Quote) Here's the biggest turn-on for ENFPs - Individuality. ENFPs love someone who shows a sense of individuality and independence. A person who has their own dreams and desires is going to be completely intriguing to...
  18. [ENFP] How Important Are Other's Physical Appearances (attractiveness) To ENFPs?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    How important is physical looks/appearances/attractiveness to ENFPs? I would assume there are more male ENFPs that place a greater important on physical appearance versus females. On a scale from 1 - 10 (10 being the most important attribute to see in a partner) rate how important are these...
  19. [ENFJ] Which personality types (mbti) have you dated?

    ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    Hi ENFJs (or any NFs or types that dated NFs), What personality types have you dated/married, where it has been good relationship for you? What were the pros and cons, and what did you do to strengthen the relationship? Any relationships that were more challenging and it didn't last? You can...
  20. [ENFP] Friendship or Romantic Interest?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Do you ENFPs prefer ESFPs as friends or romantic partners?