Hey Guys! I'm an INFJ and i'm currently in a long term relationship with an ISFP guy. I wanted to get your input on the pros and cons of this type of pairing (Could be from personal experience or just what you think it would be like!) Here's what i've found so far as an INFJ... Cons -He is...

Hey all, I've been friends with this INFJ for 4 years now, and over the last few months I've developed romantic feelings for him. I've been trying to read him for the longest time but he is so hard to read, so i finally decided to just be direct with him. I was talking to him a few days ago and...

Hi ENFJs (or any NFs or types that dated NFs), What personality types have you dated/married, where it has been good relationship for you? What were the pros and cons, and what did you do to strengthen the relationship? Any relationships that were more challenging and it didn't last? You can...

Do any of you INFPs know ESFPs? What do you think of them? Do you generally have a good relationship with ESFPs or not? What annoys you about them, what do you like, etc. Also, how do you think a romantic relationship between an ESFP male and an INFP female would work? What would be the...

You could spend your life imagining all of your life goals but not actually manifesting them! Well someday you must actually begin! A new movement is starting --- it is called Kellerinianism (aka: Bacon Spirituality)! youtube.com/KellerinaBacon It is a societal, political, spiritual, and...

I'm an ISFJ and an ESTJ man and I are (very) interested in each other. We met three weeks ago at an event and spent hours and hours talking--- one day we talked for seven hours straight in the evening. Friends tell me that he's smitten, and I know I am. We're out of contact right now while my...

In other words, and in romantic relationships do you lean toward the belief that "if it is meant to be, then it will be?" Or are you more likely to be proactive and make something happen? :tongue:

Context: We are workmates (I know, don't shit where you eat but I am willing to take some risk just so because I know I can get away with it). Basically, our team is composed of 5 men (3 of them are married, me and another guy are single). Last January, this girl came from a different project...

I keep finding myself in situations where things somehow don't work out and the other person gets hurt which makes me feel awful (maybe I'm just easy to guilt-trip..). Now I find myself shying away from people I really like out of fear of having them grow attached to me and then somehow get hurt...

Hey, I am just curious to know does Nines like receiving nurture as much as they give nurture? I know Twos and Nines are the known as nurturing and merging types, so I am curious to know if they are attracted to each other in romantic relationships? Or as best friends? What is your take on this?

I wonder what Enneatype would be most compatible with a 9w1? Are you a 9w1 in a relationship or is your partner a 9w1? What is your Enneatype if not 9w1? Does Instinctual or Subtype stackings play a role in your relationship's success or failure? Anything you can share is appreciated. I...

I'll try to give as much info as possible without boring anyone to death, and just want to say thank you to anyone that takes the time to try and help me! Okay, so I've been friends with an INFJ male for 5+ years (I'm an INFP if that is relevant). I've liked him for some of that time, but he is...

Curious about the general consensus.

I am a female four and fell hard for what I believe to be a nine. He is very calm and grounded, which are qualities I, as a four, find appealing since I am the exact opposite. We work together, and started an easy, playful banter in which he opened up about his career a little. He will ask me...

I swear I never realized how frustrating INFP's pokerfaces are when trying to form a connection. Now I like a guy who is an INFP and I can't tell if he's interested in being more than friends. He's relatively at ease with me and does ask questions as well as tell me some things about himself...

How often do you have a strong intuition that another person likes you? In particular, do you believe that your intuition about mutual interest/attraction in fairly accurate? Of all my strong intuitions, I question romantic ones the most, because I am wary of projecting what I hope to be true...

hey my dear ISFPs, could you help me figure this ISFP male out? His behaviour is quite confusing, especially since I can usually read people well (as an ENFP). So we work together. In the beginning we didn't talk to each other much as he is a rather quiet person in general and I was a bit...

So I don't usually post in forums etc., but here I feel safe with other INFJs and I wish to talk to other INFJs about a problem I have experienced to see if this is "typical", if you have experienced the same, how you got round it etc. So, I've been feeling very lonely for a long time due to...

It appears as if an INTP could empathize with both the romantics and classics, but overall, which would you most identify with? I would be classical due to the love of learning and appreciation for logic being more predominant than various romantic traits, though I love the rare and exotic.

Hey type 4's! I have a question for you! For those of you who relate to wanting to "attract a rescuer" (or perhaps maybe even for those who don't): What Enneagram types do you find step-up to fulfill this "rescuer" role most often? I can say from my experience, I don't know many people who do -...